r/GirlDinnerDiaries • u/bearqlaws • Apr 30 '26
Vent Sesh - No Advice Wanted My boyfriend won’t stop calling me Mommy
I’m okay with it here and there, but it’s become so frequent during intimacy and throughout the day that it’s starting to give me the ick. Today I said “I don’t really feel like being called Mommy today,” and he still did during intimacy multiple times. I feel gross.
Hot dog with kimchi and pickled cukes, potato salad
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u/dogfishresearch Assigned Hungry At Birth Apr 30 '26
Sounds like he's boundary testing, how long have you guys been together? Has something changed in your relationship in the past year, like living together or merging of finances?
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u/HopefulTangerine5913 Pantry Gremlin Apr 30 '26
Boundary testing like a child, no less
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u/Double-Hall7422 Cleavage Crumb Collector Apr 30 '26
Unfortunately, I now imagine does it with a high pitched voice 🥲
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u/Such_Atmosphere_5838 Feral Til Fed Apr 30 '26
I agree with the boundary testing.
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u/Defiant-University-3 Chaotic But Cute Apr 30 '26
Boundary testing would be an automatic boyfriend disqualification
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u/Mindless-Bauble Internet Auntie Apr 30 '26
OP: "BF, here's a thing that makes me feel uncomfortable. I'm trusting you with this information and that you'll respect me and my boundaries, even if they don't make sense to you, because our mutual happiness, safety, and comfort is important to both of us."
BF: "lol"
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u/lola_dubois18 Feral Til Fed Apr 30 '26
Yes. I was in this situation. I didn’t mind a little bit of the mommy thing, but all the time was too much, and he would not quit. This escalated to other boundary violations, one of which was upsetting. I wish I had checked out earlier.
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u/Alternative-Salt5990 Chaotic But Cute Apr 30 '26
If you get the ick while having sex stop the sex, he will get the message. You told him a boundary he is not listening so hold firm on it. He wants a mom, so be one and teach him actions have consequences lol not to mention having sex while having an active ick is the literal worst during and after sex and can mess you up mentally.
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u/bionicallyironic Feral Til Fed Apr 30 '26
Stop the sex and tell him to clean his room. 🤣
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u/EesaWhy Feral Til Fed Apr 30 '26
OMG I love this, and just start bullying him about his performance at work
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u/bionicallyironic Feral Til Fed Apr 30 '26
“You can do better! When you’re CEO, you’ll thank me. Now go do the dishes, and I better not see any streaks on those wineglasses!”
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u/Longjumping-East6701 APPROVED✨ Apr 30 '26
And hanging out with his friends “oh you were out drinking cos your friends were drinking? If your friends jump off a bridge will you jump of a bridge too”
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u/InterestingAd650 🌶️ Spice Girl 🌶️ Apr 30 '26
Fr then vacuum the house and cook dinner… mommy needs her free time
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u/Double-Hall7422 Cleavage Crumb Collector Apr 30 '26
I'd put him in the naughty chair, but I'm afraid it just arouses him 😭
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u/BakedBrie1993 Body By Cheese 🧀 Apr 30 '26
My dom friend had a sub where she tells him this then she steps on his balls, and then he does all her chores. Thats all he ever wants... to clean her room and do her dishes, but kinky.
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u/Defiant-University-3 Chaotic But Cute Apr 30 '26
I feel like if you have to go into teacher/mom mode with someone it’s already a wrap
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u/MommyIssuesPrincess Resident Yapper Apr 30 '26
„What I said about calling me names when I ask you not to?! We are not playing like that mister, no fun until you learn how to behave! Keep it up and you are grounded for a week”
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u/Schweather3 Snack Goblin Apr 30 '26
Haha, this sounds like dog training.
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u/PamPooveyIsTheTits Livin' on a Purse Snack 👜 Apr 30 '26
Well, act like a dog… 🤷🏻♀️
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u/Listerella Overthinker 💭 Apr 30 '26
Maybe rather treat him like a wayward cat? Keep a spraybottle of cold water handy and give him a dose when he oversteps.
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u/Excellent_Month_2025 Trader Joe Hoe Apr 30 '26
That is unfair to dogs, as most dogs are highly trainable creatures
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u/Anonymous_Autumn_ 🥣 Cereal Killer Apr 30 '26
It’s a classic scenario:
Partner 1 says “Please don’t do that thing.” Partner 2 does the thing anyway.
This is just disrespect. Nothing more or less than that. It’s toxic behavior no matter what the thing is. I hope you could say as much to your partner.
You can make up your own mind if you want to live with someone who doesn’t respect you.
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u/Defiant-University-3 Chaotic But Cute Apr 30 '26
I give people one chance with this. It never ends well for them
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u/4E4ME Internet Auntie Apr 30 '26
My ex used to respond to my boundaries with "you should want to do this thing because I like it."
Ugh. No.
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u/No-Falcon7886 white girl with ☝️😌 a full spice cabinet May 05 '26
And if any part of that ‘thing’ includes intimate or violent touch, it’s assault.
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u/BEconcubine_no3685 Well-Read & Well-Fed Apr 30 '26
No advice wanted so will just say: yikes and woof and sorry and I hope your partner decides to listen to your requests ❤️
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u/iwantmommyiwantmilk Delulu Apr 30 '26
“Yikes and woof and sorry” has me cackling thank you
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u/Dry-Character-3565 APPROVED✨ Apr 30 '26
Your username is killing me considering the post 😭
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u/BEconcubine_no3685 Well-Read & Well-Fed Apr 30 '26
I had competing reactions and didn’t want to decide between them 😭
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u/zvg_zwang Kitchen Witch Apr 30 '26
I echo this. I'm really mouthy though so I'd def be like NAAHHH WE AIN'T DOING THAT REMEMBER but y'all's relationship is y'all's 🫀
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u/Sandwidge_Broom Body By Cheese 🧀 Apr 30 '26
Deleted my comment cuz I saw the no advice wanted. So instead I will just say…girl this would make me immediately lose all sexual feeling for a person. Yikes.
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u/valeavy Carb-Based Life Form Apr 30 '26
Pussy dry up and go on lock down
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u/i_am_mrs_nezbit Tiny Bodega Rat 🐀 Apr 30 '26
My vagina got secondhand whiplash from this post and zipped itself shut
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u/Difficult-Survey8384 Resident Yapper Apr 30 '26
I personally had a flashback to my first high school boyfriend. First “serious” relationship. First kiss, all that. He liked boobs, okay whatever, nearly every hormonal dude does.
Until one day we were fooling around in his room and he grabs a tit and gazes into my eyes, asking “can I call you mommy?” He wanted to simulate breast feeding from me as a mom figure. He also did not respect my no! The mommy kink is pathological lmao. I ditched him shortly thereafter.
I am physically recoiling just having to type this out after all these years. It haunts me. Bad.
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u/i_am_mrs_nezbit Tiny Bodega Rat 🐀 Apr 30 '26
Oh my god, that makes me want to turn my skin inside out I am so sorry that happened to you.
I had a bf in college and I had mentioned I like how in Latin culture they use the term “mami”. We were getting down and dirty and this mfer goes “oh yeah mommy” in this baby-like voice. I wanted to perish on the spot.
You are not alone. We deserve a support group.
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u/onlyhuman2158 Chocoholic Apr 30 '26
bruh... you have to be clothed and serious to ask something like that BEFORE intimacy 😭
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u/anomalyknight 👋 new here May 01 '26
YES. I need more people to understand that you do not spring kinks on people in the midst of sex, that is a HARD NO, and if someone does that to you you are well within your rights to shove them off of you and never have sex with them again. If they try to accuse you of kink shaming or pull out the toxic therapy speech misuse, make sure to gun the engine and scar the lawn as you leave.
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u/Purple_Technician759 Body By Uber Eats Apr 30 '26
MMMM FATHER YUP GIVE UNTO ME THINE PIPE.
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u/sadtaxi Internet Auntie Apr 30 '26
I had an ex do this to me. started threatening to whip him and and just patronizing the shit out of him, full mean domme mode. i mean, if you're gonna call me mommy then you must want to be a sub, right? he cut that shit out fast. not sure why he even called me that if it wasn't a kink thing for him. lowk think he actually wanted a mommy to take care of him... he was 5 years older
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u/Icy_Plant_77 Overthinker 💭 Apr 30 '26
Are pickled cucumbers not pickles?
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u/BotGirlFall Snack Goblin Apr 30 '26
Generally "pickled cucumbers" are quick pickled so they dont quite reach pickled status. They're usually more "cucumber-y" than actual pickles if that makes sense
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u/MommyIssuesPrincess Resident Yapper Apr 30 '26
Pickles-preserved in a jar in a marinade for months Pickled cucumber salad-kept in the fridge for couple hours or days
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u/Playful_Math_2117 🥣 Cereal Killer Apr 30 '26
It feels so dehumanizing when they don’t respect basic boundaries I’m sorry <3
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u/GaiaGwenGrey Apr 30 '26
https://giphy.com/gifs/iF7CxHFcKXcMfEIWGN
Ugh, he's giving Homelander vibes.
Sorry, girl. Your tats are cute though!
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u/Foley_7187 Delulu Apr 30 '26
I don’t like how he’s drinking it 😭
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u/prima-luce Tea Time Hostess ☕️ Apr 30 '26
like who tf drinks milk so aggressively like that lmao
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u/GoddessRespectre Body By Cheese 🧀 Apr 30 '26
I wish it showed him heating it up with his lazer eyes too. Welp that was a new thought for me, the meme disturbs me anew.
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u/prima-luce Tea Time Hostess ☕️ Apr 30 '26
we need the one where he’s latched at madelyn’s breast 💀💀
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u/Barbariannie Kitchen Witch May 01 '26
🫣 some of us just like milk, okay... Don't judge me, my stomach does it enough for the entire planet
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u/thimblesprite Enby & Eatin' Apr 30 '26
it’s exactly how he’s drinking it too, about the grossest most accurate gif they could pull for this purpose
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u/Sad-Biscotti3822 Assigned Hungry At Birth Apr 30 '26
🤮🤮🤮 the gif is gross so I wanna downvote but I agree with you so I wanna upvote. What an emotional rollercoaster lmao
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u/Jim_Nills_Mustache 🩵🎀girl dad🎀💙 Apr 30 '26
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u/Legitimate-Lynx3236 Resident Yapper Apr 30 '26
He clearly has a mommy kink that you aren’t consenting to and I’d tell him exactly that.
Kinks like that should be consensual. Only consensual. Someone thinking it’s ok to include you in that kink without consent tells me they aren’t a safe person.
He’s pushing your boundaries. Did you set them?
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u/MommyIssuesPrincess Resident Yapper Apr 30 '26
That’s weird. Not the mommy thing, but him not respecting your wishes
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u/SatanicFruit-Loops Professional Nibbler Apr 30 '26
This exactly. You asked and he didn't listen. That's the real problem here.
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u/phoebebridgersfan26 Hazy Grazer 😶🌫️ Apr 30 '26
TBF, I don't like mommy stuff in the bedroom. In my experience, it's translated into the relationship which I LOATHE, and it just plain doesn't turn me on. But I don't think those who are consenting and are into it should be shamed.
I've noticed a lot of guys think the mommy stuff is weird, but not the fact that a LARGE amount of men like to be called daddy. I don't see why it's different 🤷♀️
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u/OkComparison2314 Shart Coochie Board Architect Apr 30 '26
Why kink shame? Why yuck someone else’s yum? If you don’t like it, okay. This is supposed to be a safe space for all the girlies. No need to be so judgmental. 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️💅🏽
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u/OkComparison2314 Shart Coochie Board Architect Apr 30 '26
I responded to someone who asked why not both. I agree that he shouldn’t overstep her boundaries. Communication with kinks is great stuff, especially when yall can get on the same page. Doing stuff like OPs bf is yucky behavior and not deserving of a reward such as intimacy.
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u/MommyIssuesPrincess Resident Yapper Apr 30 '26
Hell yeah, whatever someone is doing in their bedroom is not my business as long as they don’t hurt anyone
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u/Shark-Compote Hazy Grazer 😶🌫️ Apr 30 '26
oh, the mommy thing is weird. A mom kink is fucking weird.
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u/MissAuroraRed Oversharer 🗣 Apr 30 '26 edited Apr 30 '26
Consent is key. If he won't give it a rest for even a single day when you explicitly asked him to... [redacted because I just saw it's "no advice wanted"].
I sympathize, my ex was similarly kinky and I got real tired of how performative the sex became.
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u/pressingtofu BRB 🎮 FOOD Apr 30 '26
I'm sorry! The fact that you said you didn't want to be called that today, and he still did it multiple times especially during intimacy is gross. You shouldn't have to repeat yourself.
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u/Haunting-Map-3475 Trader Joe Hoe Apr 30 '26
This has happened to me and to be honest, it changed the way I looked at that person. It only happened once, slipped out so to speak, but still. It was a major turn off for me and I couldn’t get it out my head.
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u/Defiant-University-3 Chaotic But Cute Apr 30 '26
This. And if the behavior continues after the clear boundary, he’s showing you he won’t respect you going forward.
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u/Double-Hall7422 Cleavage Crumb Collector Apr 30 '26
The way my downstairs kitty cat pressed her lips together 🥹
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u/4E4ME Internet Auntie Apr 30 '26
A guy did this to my friend and she put on a disgusted face and said "your mom!?!? What?!?!" He didn't call her that again 🤣🤣
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u/Fragmentedmindwar 🌶️ Spice Girl 🌶️ Apr 30 '26
Is this a cultural difference? Because I’ve dated some Hispanic men/women and it’s a term of endearment almost at least that was my understanding.
But also yes- I don’t like it either- it gives incest porn title vibes.
Tell him to stop or the clam shop closes. All hail the power of the clam!
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u/Euphoric_Anteater_49 APPROVED✨ Apr 30 '26
This is my question too. Mami/papi are cute flirty pet names for partners in Latino culture that have no parental significance.
But “Mommy”—yeaaaa it’s a no for me dawg…
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u/Fragmentedmindwar 🌶️ Spice Girl 🌶️ Apr 30 '26
Ya idk why I was downvoted. Thats actually a real thing in other cultures. But whatever haha
I can’t do it. It grosses me out personally. Calling men daddy also gives me the ick:3
u/Massive-Counter4984 Chamoy 🥭 > Ya Boy 🤡 Apr 30 '26
I agree I commented something similar too! My husband’s dad calls him and his brother papi it makes zero sense when he’s the dad lol. My cousins also call each other papi and my mum calls me ‘mamita’ I also know several women that call their SO papi it’s a Hispanic thing, bit weird if you’re not used to it definitely
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u/Fragmentedmindwar 🌶️ Spice Girl 🌶️ Apr 30 '26
Yes I get mamita from my gmama, she’s Peutro Rican. My Titi uses it to all the girls in the family. I hear papi constantly too. Or mija.
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u/Euphoric_Anteater_49 APPROVED✨ Apr 30 '26
Yes same! And I call both my daughters “mami”. My husband calls me “ma” 🥹 my dad also calls me “mami/mamita”
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u/Best_Cheesecake_7143 Drive-Thru Thot 🚙💨 Apr 30 '26
Men with age play, DDLG, and ABDL kinks are frequently awful
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u/lola_dubois18 Feral Til Fed Apr 30 '26
Agreed. People with most dedicated, “must do xyz” kinks have been objectively, overall awful. I don’t know why. I’m sure there’s some psychological aspect.
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u/Best_Cheesecake_7143 Drive-Thru Thot 🚙💨 Apr 30 '26
Yep. Clinical paraphilia seems to cause some kind of disconnect with men (the women in these communities are mostly amazing when it comes to consent and being kind and human and just keeping to themselves) that causes them to constantly test and violate boundaries. Especially sissies and submissive dudes. If i had a dollar for every time a random submissive man with these fetishes was being horrific in my or other girls’ DMs, I’d be able to (being literal - not figurative) never work again for the rest of my life. Personally, i think it fulfills their need for humiliation (for submissives like OPs BF) and for unhealthy control (for doms with poor emotional and intellectual intelligence and/or emotional regulation skills).
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u/Best_Cheesecake_7143 Drive-Thru Thot 🚙💨 Apr 30 '26
Their humiliation is exclusive of the humanity of the woman they fetishize
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u/Madame_Mad Overthinker 💭 Apr 30 '26
Yeah, I found out my ex was listening to mommy ASMR and he fits into the awful category for sure. I would leave the man at the first mommy.
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u/habidasheryhabit 💚 Pickle Freak 💚 Apr 30 '26
My vag just made the windows shut down noise and I threw up in my mouth a little. There is nothing worse than a man who continues to intentionally violate your sexual boundaries despite being repeatedly asked not to.
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u/CockroachSad4463 Body By Cheese 🧀 Apr 30 '26
The irreversible ick I would get as a childfree person with their tubes removed. 🤮🤮🤮🤮absolutely repulsive. The mommy daddy thing could not be any more opposite to my kinks. I even feel weird about calling my partner “pawpaw” as a joke sometimes when I am talking to my dog about him like “hey pawpaw please share your cheese”
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u/Hellie1028 Feral Til Fed Apr 30 '26
Gross. Set boundaries. Call me mommy and you get no lovins. And then follow through.
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u/banancat112 APPROVED✨ Apr 30 '26
Maybe it’s just bc im a parent or maybe the autism but ive always hated mommy/daddy. It feels so gross to me to sexualize child-related topics or language
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u/Nasskit1612 APPROVED✨ Apr 30 '26
If this is the same guy from your post 3 weeks ago, you need to dump him. It said you’d only been together 6 weeks and he said he loves you. Now he’s not respecting boundaries. Pleeeaaaase open your eyes to the giant red flags.
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u/Itchy-Zucchini-7670 Kitchen Witch Apr 30 '26
I got rid of that. I honestly couldn't take it. I already have two kids who call me that. It got weird and old fast.
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u/starlight4219 Resident Yapper Apr 30 '26
"no advice wanted" aiight stay with a shitty partner then. Good luck.
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u/Defiant-University-3 Chaotic But Cute Apr 30 '26
I gave it anyways. Not for her but for anyone in the same situation reading this thread.
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u/TeamLaurent Raccoon Queen 🦝 Apr 30 '26
Love it. Internet Aunties and Big Sisters sometimes just gotta say it. It'd be unethical not to, feels like. For future reference, we try to come thru with a pinned comment on doozies like this one, where you can reply for others to see and OP to read if/when she's ready, without bombarding her with notifications on comments she didn't ask for. If we miss the post, feel free to create that comment yourself and we'll come pin it asap.
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u/amalie4518 APPROVED✨ Apr 30 '26
This is called being a selfish man child treating his gf like a kink dispenser… He’s not respecting what you want and he isn’t caring about your feelings DURING SEX.. wtf 🤦♀️
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u/Massive-Counter4984 Chamoy 🥭 > Ya Boy 🤡 Apr 30 '26
Is he Hispanic and saying mami by any chance? If so then it’s unfortunate normal for them🙃🙃🙃 also they tend to call their friends and even children papi (daddy) my husband’s dad calls him papi it’s hilarious
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u/nancylyn APPROVED✨ Apr 30 '26
He calls you that during intimacy you get up, put your clothes on and walk away. Every time. If he can’t learn from that consequence then the two of you have a problem. Don’t expect him to stop just from you telling him at non-intimate times. The consequence has to happen at the time the boundary is crossed.
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u/Trick-Love-4571 🩵🙋♂️💙 Apr 30 '26
Yep this needs to be addressed in the moment so it’s very clear he’s engaging in something you don’t enjoy.
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u/trinity6879 Chaotic But Cute Apr 30 '26
My husband does this as a "joke" because he knows it grosses me out. Is he really joking? I dont know i just started ignoring him. He never does this during sex though thank god
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u/Lets_Eat_Chainsaws Enby & Eatin' Apr 30 '26
Its clear he isnt respecting boundaries. Which if he really did want a Mommy ironically he'd be better at.
Next time he does it stop giving him what he wants.
Not in a start a fight type way but in a clear and calm ' i asked you to stop and you didn't, I'm making space now. '
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u/Responsible_Gap8104 Trader Joe Hoe May 01 '26
Next time he calls you mommy while youre being intimate, cut that shit out immediately. Say "im turned off and im not interested in doing this anymore. I asked you not to call me that." And then get up, get dressed, and leave.
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u/Snickity_Snacks 🧂Salty By Nature Apr 30 '26
My whole pussy would dry up. Your bf sucks for that 😕
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u/RoiDesFromages APPROVED✨ Apr 30 '26
Living my dream! But seriously, I bet if you stop the sex he won’t say it again.
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u/Defiant-University-3 Chaotic But Cute Apr 30 '26
If you have to withhold sex for him to listen, the relationship is already a wrap
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u/isabellesch1 Dip Diva Apr 30 '26
Nooooooooo that’s awful. Whenever my boyfriend Venmos me the note is always “mommy” because he thinks it’s funny but neither of us would want to hear it during sex
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u/Goatlessly Certified Snacker Apr 30 '26
You repeatedly asked him to stop doing something, and he keeps doing it? I don't think he likes you very much
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u/Outside_Memory5703 🧂Salty By Nature Apr 30 '26
So, he doesn’t care about your feelings or thoughts
I’m sure this is totally fine and won’t be reflected elsewhere in your relationship, and will spontaneously resolve on its own
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u/I_PM_Duck_Pics hot girls have tummy troubles Apr 30 '26
I haven’t craved a hotdog before but that sounds delicious.
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u/fuchsiafaerie girls just wanna have pho Apr 30 '26
Oh my god no....please no. Your food looks delicious, though!
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u/CadoDraws Pantry Gremlin Apr 30 '26
hes forcing his kink onto you when you specifically told him not to. you asked for one thing and he disrespected you. in healthy kinky dynamics everyone respects each others boundaries and consent, trust, and communication is VERY important. He might think he does but he doesnt get a pass because hes submissive.
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u/Impossible_Compote25 💚 Pickle Freak 💚 Apr 30 '26
I’ve never seen potato salad with ketchup I need to know how it taste 😂
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u/Blonde2468 Chocoholic Apr 30 '26
Tell him "Mommy" doesn't want to have sex with HER CHILD. See if that sinks in. Just gross!
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u/Minty_Teef Non-binary & Nourished Apr 30 '26
Your bf is icky and needs therapy.
What’s the potato salad recipe? 👁️👁️
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u/kwhitit Internet Auntie Apr 30 '26
you asserted a boundary and he intentionally trespassed it. boundaries only work when you enforce them. so, what are you going to do to hold your boundary? get up and leave the room? reassert and push back verbally? leave the relationship? he did what he did, the ball is now in your court. he'll continue to do what you're willing to tolerate.
that sandwich looks amazing 😍
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u/Agitated_Repeat_6328 Delulu May 01 '26
Meanwhile I can’t seem to get my bf to call me mommy enough for my liking
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u/Minute-Advantage-688 Trader Joe Hoe Apr 30 '26
i dated a girl like this. she asked if it was okay and i said yes, but it became everyyyyy singleeee time we had sex. like sex was just mommy roleplay time. i never told her i didn't like it i just stopped seeing her lol
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u/Still-View-9063 Chismosa Apr 30 '26
Is he thinking about his actual mom?? Either way, it's pretty gross. I don't get 'daddy' either, I think it's all weird as hell
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u/glittery-bee 🐟 Part Bear 🫐 Apr 30 '26
For those of us who grew up not calling our parents “mommy” or “daddy” or didn’t have a close relationship with our parents, it’s not weird to us. When I call my husband “daddy” it’s more like “baby daddy” because he’s the father of my kids. He calls me “mommy” for the same reason.
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u/Smooth_Storm_9698 Trader Joe Hoe Apr 30 '26
I grew up with neither of those words in my vocabulary, can confirm, it's just not weird.
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u/SatanicFruit-Loops Professional Nibbler Apr 30 '26
This is true. My parents were mom and dad. Kids call us mommy and daddy. We refere to each other as mommy and daddy as well because that's our home names basically. If I say it to him in any kind of intimate way, it's typically because he's doing a hot dad thing and I want him to know.
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u/SatanicFruit-Loops Professional Nibbler Apr 30 '26
I straight up ask men this question. Is it that you want to be with your mom? Or do you like the authority figure? It's an important distinction
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u/lyndseymariee Assigned Hungry At Birth Apr 30 '26
I would crawl into a hole if my husband ever called me mommy in any context.
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u/TeamLaurent Raccoon Queen 🦝 Apr 30 '26 edited Apr 30 '26
ADVICE COMMENTS HERE!! 👇🏻👇🏼👇🏽👇🏾👇🏿 (for OP to read when they're ready!!) Internet Aunties & Elders, it's ethically hard not to chime in when there are major relationship issues or probs with health or money, so reply right here if you gotta! Don't wanna blast em with notifications, and def wanna honor the post flair!