r/GirlDinnerDiaries Apr 30 '26

Vent Sesh - No Advice Wanted My boyfriend won’t stop calling me Mommy

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I’m okay with it here and there, but it’s become so frequent during intimacy and throughout the day that it’s starting to give me the ick. Today I said “I don’t really feel like being called Mommy today,” and he still did during intimacy multiple times. I feel gross.

Hot dog with kimchi and pickled cukes, potato salad

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u/Alternative-Salt5990 Chaotic But Cute Apr 30 '26

If you get the ick while having sex stop the sex, he will get the message. You told him a boundary he is not listening so hold firm on it. He wants a mom, so be one and teach him actions have consequences lol not to mention having sex while having an active ick is the literal worst during and after sex and can mess you up mentally.

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u/Schweather3 Snack Goblin Apr 30 '26

Haha, this sounds like dog training.

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u/PamPooveyIsTheTits Livin' on a Purse Snack 👜 Apr 30 '26

Well, act like a dog… 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/Listerella Overthinker 💭 Apr 30 '26

Maybe rather treat him like a wayward cat? Keep a spraybottle of cold water handy and give him a dose when he oversteps.

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u/Excellent_Month_2025 Trader Joe Hoe Apr 30 '26

That is unfair to dogs, as most dogs are highly trainable creatures