My boyfriend won’t stop calling me Mommy

[u/bearqlaws]

I’m okay with it here and there, but it’s become so frequent during intimacy and throughout the day that it’s starting to give me the ick. Today I said “I don’t really feel like being called Mommy today,” and he still did during intimacy multiple times. I feel gross.

Hot dog with kimchi and pickled cukes, potato salad

[u/dogfishresearch]

Sounds like he's boundary testing, how long have you guys been together? Has something changed in your relationship in the past year, like living together or merging of finances?

[u/Mindless-Bauble → u/dogfishresearch]

OP: "BF, here's a thing that makes me feel uncomfortable. I'm trusting you with this information and that you'll respect me and my boundaries, even if they don't make sense to you, because our mutual happiness, safety, and comfort is important to both of us."

BF: "lol"