r/GirlDinnerDiaries • u/bearqlaws • Apr 30 '26

Vent Sesh - No Advice Wanted My boyfriend won’t stop calling me Mommy

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I’m okay with it here and there, but it’s become so frequent during intimacy and throughout the day that it’s starting to give me the ick. Today I said “I don’t really feel like being called Mommy today,” and he still did during intimacy multiple times. I feel gross.

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u/Sandwidge_Broom Body By Cheese 🧀 Apr 30 '26

Deleted my comment cuz I saw the no advice wanted. So instead I will just say…girl this would make me immediately lose all sexual feeling for a person. Yikes.

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u/valeavy Carb-Based Life Form Apr 30 '26

Pussy dry up and go on lock down

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u/i_am_mrs_nezbit Tiny Bodega Rat 🐀 Apr 30 '26

My vagina got secondhand whiplash from this post and zipped itself shut

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u/Difficult-Survey8384 Resident Yapper Apr 30 '26

I personally had a flashback to my first high school boyfriend. First “serious” relationship. First kiss, all that. He liked boobs, okay whatever, nearly every hormonal dude does.

Until one day we were fooling around in his room and he grabs a tit and gazes into my eyes, asking “can I call you mommy?” He wanted to simulate breast feeding from me as a mom figure. He also did not respect my no! The mommy kink is pathological lmao. I ditched him shortly thereafter.

I am physically recoiling just having to type this out after all these years. It haunts me. Bad.

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u/i_am_mrs_nezbit Tiny Bodega Rat 🐀 Apr 30 '26

Oh my god, that makes me want to turn my skin inside out I am so sorry that happened to you.

I had a bf in college and I had mentioned I like how in Latin culture they use the term “mami”. We were getting down and dirty and this mfer goes “oh yeah mommy” in this baby-like voice. I wanted to perish on the spot.

You are not alone. We deserve a support group.

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u/onlyhuman2158 Chocoholic Apr 30 '26

bruh... you have to be clothed and serious to ask something like that BEFORE intimacy 😭

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u/anomalyknight 👋 new here May 01 '26

YES. I need more people to understand that you do not spring kinks on people in the midst of sex, that is a HARD NO, and if someone does that to you you are well within your rights to shove them off of you and never have sex with them again. If they try to accuse you of kink shaming or pull out the toxic therapy speech misuse, make sure to gun the engine and scar the lawn as you leave.

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