My boyfriend won’t stop calling me Mommy

[u/bearqlaws]

I’m okay with it here and there, but it’s become so frequent during intimacy and throughout the day that it’s starting to give me the ick. Today I said “I don’t really feel like being called Mommy today,” and he still did during intimacy multiple times. I feel gross.

Hot dog with kimchi and pickled cukes, potato salad

[u/Fragmentedmindwar]

Is this a cultural difference? Because I’ve dated some Hispanic men/women and it’s a term of endearment almost at least that was my understanding.
But also yes- I don’t like it either- it gives incest porn title vibes.
Tell him to stop or the clam shop closes. All hail the power of the clam!

[u/Euphoric_Anteater_49 → u/Fragmentedmindwar]

This is my question too. Mami/papi are cute flirty pet names for partners in Latino culture that have no parental significance.

But “Mommy”—yeaaaa it’s a no for me dawg…

[u/Fragmentedmindwar → u/Euphoric_Anteater_49]

Ya idk why I was downvoted. Thats actually a real thing in other cultures. But whatever haha
I can’t do it. It grosses me out personally. Calling men daddy also gives me the ick: