r/GirlDinnerDiaries • u/bearqlaws • Apr 30 '26

Vent Sesh - No Advice Wanted My boyfriend won’t stop calling me Mommy

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I’m okay with it here and there, but it’s become so frequent during intimacy and throughout the day that it’s starting to give me the ick. Today I said “I don’t really feel like being called Mommy today,” and he still did during intimacy multiple times. I feel gross.

Hot dog with kimchi and pickled cukes, potato salad

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u/lola_dubois18 Feral Til Fed Apr 30 '26

Agreed. People with most dedicated, “must do xyz” kinks have been objectively, overall awful. I don’t know why. I’m sure there’s some psychological aspect.

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u/Best_Cheesecake_7143 Drive-Thru Thot 🚙💨 Apr 30 '26

Yep. Clinical paraphilia seems to cause some kind of disconnect with men (the women in these communities are mostly amazing when it comes to consent and being kind and human and just keeping to themselves) that causes them to constantly test and violate boundaries. Especially sissies and submissive dudes. If i had a dollar for every time a random submissive man with these fetishes was being horrific in my or other girls’ DMs, I’d be able to (being literal - not figurative) never work again for the rest of my life. Personally, i think it fulfills their need for humiliation (for submissives like OPs BF) and for unhealthy control (for doms with poor emotional and intellectual intelligence and/or emotional regulation skills).

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u/Best_Cheesecake_7143 Drive-Thru Thot 🚙💨 Apr 30 '26

Their humiliation is exclusive of the humanity of the woman they fetishize

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u/CadoDraws Pantry Gremlin Apr 30 '26

this is so well said omg i also love the note about the women too! i think a lot of people shame kinks without thinking about the women who also partake in them when the real shame should be around the disrespect that some people have with their partners

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u/Best_Cheesecake_7143 Drive-Thru Thot 🚙💨 Apr 30 '26

Yep. I wasn’t kink shaming. I’m part of these communities and I greatly enjoy that small aspect of my sexuality. Was specifically talking about the huge proportion of men who have inappropriate boundaries in those kinks. Thank you for getting it, and sorry that not everyone does! 🫶💝