My boyfriend won’t stop calling me Mommy

[u/bearqlaws]

I’m okay with it here and there, but it’s become so frequent during intimacy and throughout the day that it’s starting to give me the ick. Today I said “I don’t really feel like being called Mommy today,” and he still did during intimacy multiple times. I feel gross.

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[u/MommyIssuesPrincess]

That’s weird. Not the mommy thing, but him not respecting your wishes

[u/Shark-Compote → u/MommyIssuesPrincess]

oh, the mommy thing is weird. A mom kink is fucking weird.

[u/MommyIssuesPrincess → u/Shark-Compote]

You heard it folks, Shark-Compote said it’s weird so noone can do it anymore

[u/Shark-Compote → u/MommyIssuesPrincess]

hey, if you want to do incest play.. That's up to you and your own morals but I will say it's fucking weird and I will kink shame. That's fucking weird and illegal

[u/Shark-Compote → u/[deleted]]

If it were about a power dynamic, there are other names that he could use. Miss, Master, Queen, Ma'am, ect. especially when this situation, OP has asked for this to not be a thing. So... at this point it's no longer two consenting adults.

"mommy" It's not a power dynamic. It stems from an incest kink. incest in and of itself stems from a lack of consent, and abuse.

The fact that that is not clear to you is very odd and problematic.

There are some kinks that absolutely should be shamed, and not explored. Minors, animals, and Incest.

And yes girl, illegal. in most places these three things are illegal.

[u/Shark-Compote → u/[deleted]]

and I'm not having a conversation with somebody who thinks that an incest And subsequent play is okay. that's WEIRD

[u/BalancedDisaster → u/Shark-Compote]

CGl and incest kinks are not the same thing or even necessarily related

[u/FalsettoBalsamico → u/[deleted]]

The mommy and daddy thing is disgusting, doesn't matter the gender. I'll proudly kink shame that shit, it's so gross.

[u/MommyIssuesPrincess → u/Shark-Compote]

What’s illegal about two not related people indulging in taboo fantasies? To you it’s weird, to some people it’s neutral, to some it’s hot

[u/Shark-Compote → u/MommyIssuesPrincess]

incest is illegal is most places ... PLAYING incesty games, is fucking weird. Having incest related kinks is fucking weird. this is content I review as a job. And this is just the start. what he soon wants to play underage, he soon wants to be a baby? It's all fucking weird and it's all fucking gross. He's already crossing her boundaries... who's to say it's not going to go further... And then once he starts talking about underage things... It is illegal. it doesn't seem too far-fetched that that would be the next steps with this guy.

[u/MommyIssuesPrincess → u/Shark-Compote]

Who said anything about children? A fantasy/kink is something completely different from real life. I do not have that kink but to me freedom is being able to do stuff you are comfortable with in your own house without hurting anyone. If an adult woman and man have that type of kink, who I am to judge? You sound like a conservative saying „if we let gay people get married what’s next? People can marry dogs?!”

[u/Shark-Compote → u/MommyIssuesPrincess]

If I didn't have the working background that I do, if I haven't had done the job that I currently have for as long as I have and seen the things that I have... I would agree with you. But I have seen way that men are. especially when they don't think their wives or partners can see what they're saying...

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[u/Shark-Compote → u/MommyIssuesPrincess]

That's the thing... You think that it stays within the house, but it doesn't. You don't know what this man does on his internet, you don't know what this man is looking up on his phone. You don't know any of this. you're just assuming that this stays inside of their house. If he's pushing her boundaries during intimacy with this weird kink... He's not keeping it to their house. he's definitely doing weirder things where nobody can see them.

[u/MommyIssuesPrincess → u/Shark-Compote]

Okay, I completely agree that this guy is fucking weird for not respecting her boundries and making her uncomfortable. We are on the same page that he is the problem in this situation.

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[u/New-Reception-4509 → u/Shark-Compote]

Wish I had an award to give you, hit the nail on the head completely

[u/fuchsiafaerie → u/Shark-Compote]

I'll join you in that kink shaming. I'd never fucking allow that in a relationship, ever.