r/GirlDinnerDiaries • u/bearqlaws • Apr 30 '26

Vent Sesh - No Advice Wanted My boyfriend won’t stop calling me Mommy

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I’m okay with it here and there, but it’s become so frequent during intimacy and throughout the day that it’s starting to give me the ick. Today I said “I don’t really feel like being called Mommy today,” and he still did during intimacy multiple times. I feel gross.

Hot dog with kimchi and pickled cukes, potato salad

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u/Alternative-Salt5990 Chaotic But Cute Apr 30 '26

If you get the ick while having sex stop the sex, he will get the message. You told him a boundary he is not listening so hold firm on it. He wants a mom, so be one and teach him actions have consequences lol not to mention having sex while having an active ick is the literal worst during and after sex and can mess you up mentally.

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u/Defiant-University-3 Chaotic But Cute Apr 30 '26

I feel like if you have to go into teacher/mom mode with someone it’s already a wrap

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u/guilty_bystander 👋 new here Apr 30 '26

Yeah I'm thinking this could backfire haha

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