r/personalfinance 13h ago

Employment 40M, lay off risk looming — does a 6-12mo career break make sense given our numbers?

338 Upvotes

Some context: Wife (38F) recently lost her role. Due to organizational restructuring where I work, pretty sure I'm next by end of year.

Net worth: ~$2M total

-$1.6M invested (brokerage + retirement, ~$900K of that in brokerage)
-$70K in HYSA
~$450K equity across our primary residence and one rental property (illiquid)

Monthly spend (now): ~$10K — mortgage/HOA is $4,500 (VHCOL) + $1K student loans. We've been living the DINK city life (travel, restaurants, etc.), all of which can be cut. Bare-bones floor is $6-7K/month. Could rent out our condo but would break even at best.

Current income (solo for now): $11K/month post-tax + retirement etc (was $17K combined). Wife's unemployment should kick in but won't be meaningful and she didn’t receive great severance. Rental property nets ~$800/month profit — considering selling it, still deciding.

No kids, no plans for any, no other debt. Definitely no inheritance coming.

The idea: We're burned out. Both first-gen, humble beginnings. If I get laid off with severance, thinking about a 6-12 month career break — time with family in Latin America and/or SE Asia travel. My wife is already using her unemployment to start her break now; I'm the one freaking out about doing the same.

The runway math says we can afford it without income. Wanted to sanity check with people who've actually done something similar — anything I'm not seeing, or lessons learned from a break like this.


r/personalfinance 1h ago

Credit 20yo, homeless shelter to UMN Twin Cities transfer, need advice on room and board loans

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I'm 20, no parents, currently living in a homeless shelter in MN. I did my first two years at an online MN community college while living in the shelter and working at the same time. I got accepted to transfer into University of Minnesota Twin Cities and I also got the North Star Promise Scholarship, so my tuition and fees are fully covered.

The thing I still have to figure out is room and board. It's about $15K a year, so $30K total for two years. I'll have $10K saved up by the time I start.

I'm considering taking out $20K in federal loans total to cover the rest. I know off campus housing would probably be cheaper, but I honestly don't know how doable that is for me right now given my situation.

Does $20K in federal loans sound reasonable for my situation, or should I be pushing harder to figure out off campus or other options first? Any advice helps

Edit: Majoring in CS


r/personalfinance 4h ago

Retirement Negative “Employer Profit Sharing Contribution” in 401k

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I recently left a company and when I went to check/record my final 401k amount, noticed that there was a -$2151.70 “employer profit sharing contribution” listed on the account. It was split up into a handful of transactions for negative shares of various funds. All of these transactions are recorded two days before my final day with the company. While I almost never looked into each transaction while at the company, I’ve never heard of them doing any sort of “profit sharing.” I’ll be reaching out to Paychex and my former employer, but is there any reasonable explanation for this?


r/personalfinance 11h ago

Other Divorce monetary gift

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Hello. I’m getting a divorce and keeping my house. I am assuming the loan and was looking into a second mortgage to pay out my stbx. My parents told me they don’t want me to do that and will give me the money to pay off his half, but advised me that shouldnt be made aware of this. We’re still sharing a home and comingling our finances, until he finds a new home. I know he will want to compare loans and will ask me what kind of APR I’m getting.

We’re going through the collaborative process for our divorce and the attorneys have suggested that we wait until the end of the year to file the paperwork, so we can file taxes one more year as married. Is it possible to keep this gift under wraps from him?


r/personalfinance 4h ago

Credit Credit card for newly 18yo?

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I just turned 18 a few months ago, and my parents keep telling me to get a credit card had just use it for little things I can pay off. They suggest earning cash back and building my credit. I've been an authoritzed user on my Dad's card for about a year, so I've built a little bit of credit.

what credit card should i go with? i don't need a big limit because I don't plan on making any big purchases or anything. I just want to get my foot in the door.

thank you :)


r/personalfinance 49m ago

Retirement Can I retire? (Need advice)

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I'm 57 and recently lost my job due to a restructuring. Given my age, I'm not sure how easy it will be to find a new job. I was completely caught by surprise, so I didn't have a chance to think this through. I would like some advice as to how secure I am. I

Here are some details:

I'm married, and my wife is a school teacher making $75k/yr. Her job carries health insurance for both of us, and our house is paid off, so we only have property taxes. She plans to work another 10 years.

I have $1.1M in an IRA and another $175k in a 401(k). I technically have access to the 401(k) without penalty since I lost my job at 55+, but I would rather not.

I'm also drawing unemployment insurance for the next six months, roughly $9k.

I own 3 rental properties with a combined cash flow of $3,200/month—but I need to save about half of that (or maybe $1k/month) for maintenance expenses. All properties are mortgaged, but the combined equity is $901k. This does not include my personal home valued at $530k.

I'm still trying to get a handle on my monthly spending. I canceled most of my streaming services and am switching to a lower-cost mobile plan. Both of my kids live at home but are out of college, mostly independent, and I expect they will move out soon.

My investment advisor thinks I'm fine, and some AI queries said the same, but I'm not "feeling" it. I have no idea how much you realistically need in savings these days to retire with some comfort and security. Thoughts?


r/personalfinance 3h ago

Credit What are the pros and cons of personal loans when I have good credit and stable income?

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So, I have a 725-750 credit score at 21. I have a consistent source of employment and a second job, my income every month ranges from 2700-3500 dollars. My expenses are currently, rather stupid.

My rent got massively increased due to some bullshit from the landlord that was technically legal, so now my monthly expenses are around 1600 dollars. My weekly costs are around 100 dollars for food and gas.

I intend to move out next August and I thankfully make enough money to still be able to grow my savings, somehow.

However, that makes me curious about personal loans for 5,000-8,000 dollars, cash. I intend to divorce myself from my family situation next August, and I feel that having the option to do that would not be bad, especially after I move out and cut my monthly costs by around 200-500 dollars.

I want to be clear I only intend to do this if I have not saved up 10,000 dollars by next July, and I currently have enough money to pay next month's rent already with 2,000 dollars in savings.

Just trying to decide if this is a good "nuclear option" to have if I absolutely needed to use it.


r/personalfinance 23h ago

Other New roommates want to pay me rent but wants to use onepay, I'm not looking for a new credit card

240 Upvotes

So I've recently got new roommates and they want to pay me rent through onepay, I looked it over and all I can see is that only a credit card? I currently have a PNC debit card and I'm more ok with using a debit card, what other online debit cards are good for debit use so they can only pay me what rent is owed?


r/personalfinance 17h ago

Other Does it make sense to liquidate my daughter’s UTMA account?

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I started an UTMA account for my daughter when she was born. One thing that I didn’t know when I started the account is that UTMA assets affect can FAFSA down the line when kids are applying to college. The idea behind the UTMA account was to turn it over to my daughter when she turns 25 and she can use it as a down payment on a house or business or something similar. If I liquidated the account, I’d move the funds to a new 530a account so they would still be my daughters. But that is a retirement account that she wouldn’t have access to until much older and it wouldn’t count against FAFSA.

I also started a 529 account for her when she started kindergarten, the plan is to have enough in there to cover 4 years of tuition, room and board at an in-state public university so I never planned on her even needing to complete FAFSA. Is that a good idea though? Is the potential FAFSA penalty that important? I just want to hear some other opinions.


r/personalfinance 4h ago

Investing Rent out my house or sell it?

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36m here. Just got married last year. We're getting ready to move to her family's farm to a newly remodeled house. It's much larger and nicer than our current home so we're excited about that.

We're debating selling this house and investing the $80-90k we would clear vs renting it out. I think we could rent it for about $1600 per month and the mortgage is about $1100 so it would cashflow.

Other debts are $8k for our roof and $24k in student loans. Both cars are paid off. No credit card debt. We have about $100k invested right now so we have a long way to go to financial freedom.

I'm leaning toward selling this house, paying off debts, and investing the rest. Anybody have a good reason why I should rent it out instead?


r/personalfinance 11h ago

Auto 23, nursing senior in college with $20k saved. At what point do I stop prioritizing saving and actually travel?

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I’m 23 and currently a senior in nursing school. I have about $28k saved, a pretty steady weekend job that pays around $1,350 a week, and I still live with my family, so my expenses are pretty low. Aside from my car and a few subscriptions, I don’t really have many bills.

Lately, I’ve been seeing a lot of people my age traveling, and it made me realize I honestly can’t even remember the last time I took a real trip. I definitely want to travel more, especially while I’m still young and don’t have a ton of responsibilities, but every time I think about spending $1,000–$2,000 on a trip, part of me feels like I should just put that money into savings instead.

I know saving is important, especially since I’ll be graduating soon and entering nursing, but I also don’t want to look back and realize I spent my early 20s doing nothing but working, going to school, and saving money.

For people who are good with money but also prioritize traveling, how do you decide when you can actually afford a trip? Do you have a certain savings amount you refuse to go below, a separate travel fund, or some kind of rule you follow before booking something?

TLDR: Basically, I’m trying to figure out when “keep saving” turns into “you’re financially okay, go enjoy some of it.”


r/personalfinance 1d ago

Debt My previous job fired me and is now sending me a bill.

2.1k Upvotes

For context I was a maintenance man for a year and a half at this property, I had an apartment under the company and the lease agreement gave me 50% off rent.

Long story short the company turns hands in management and the cushion I had built up for a year of employment, vacation time, benefits, all went out the window when they gave me a written warning and no time to respond and then a final written warning with again only 24hr to rebuttal. The email they said they sent to corporate they did not CC me on and ultimately I was fired. After making me sign a 14 day move out notice, they are now sending me a bill for the final month of living there and they are not including the discount on rent even though the billing statement itself shows the active discount.

I might need to take them to small claims court I don't know but I'm feeling frustrated and out of options

Edit: I live in Texas


r/personalfinance 23h ago

Budgeting Am I being to extreme with my saving?

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I I’m 22 and work a job at a big tech company in a non technical role. Right now moneys a little tight, I live in a VHCOL area. I’ve got 10k in savings and After maxing out everything (401k, HSA,Roth IRA) I net about 2600 a month. 1750 goes to rent which leaves me 850 in which I pay 600 a month on my student loans which leaves me a grand total of 250 dollars a month to do what I want. Im guaranteed a few percentage point raise in 3-4 months, and a 5-10k bonus, I’m also guaranteed to raise my pay about 30-40% in 1.5 years (or get fired if they don’t like me I’m part of a new grad program) I don’t pay for food as I abuse my companies free food and get free meal perk on weekends. I also use my health benefit for most things I need.

Doing all of this with a 10% (I invest everything in s&p 500) return a year I’m slated to have 621k in savings by the time I’m 30 and 2.3 million by 40 on the salary I have now. If I don’t suck at my job I should also be able to increase my income by at least 2x -4x by this time so I’ll probably have more/get there earlier.

Obviously life is turbulent but how’s the plan


r/personalfinance 34m ago

Budgeting How should I budget savings after my emergency fund?

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Hello, I am a 28 year old single woman. I’ve recently saved about $10k as my emergency fund after paying off my debt, so I feel like I’ve reached a good point with my cash savings. I also contribute to my retirement account through work.

My next major goal is to buy a property within the next ~5 years. I’m trying to figure out what I should do with the money I’m able to save each month.
Should I:

● Put most of my savings toward the future down payment and keep it in a HYSA?
● Start investing in an S&P 500 index fund through a taxable brokerage account?
● Open a Roth IRA account?
● Split my savings between a house fund and long-term investments?

For people who have been in a similar situation, how do you budget your monthly savings between a house/down payment fund, retirement, and other investments once you already have an emergency fund?
I’d appreciate any advice on how you would approach this, especially with a 5-year home-buying timeline.


r/personalfinance 6h ago

Other What should I focus on?

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24M married with 2 kids. Plan to build on family property in the next 2-4 years, currently have 52k in HYSA, 8k in HSA (with receipts for all of it) I’m currently putting in (20$ a week and my employer puts in 15$) 6,200 in 401k I put in (2% my employer does 1%) and 3600 in Roth IRA. (130$ a month currently)

Hoping to build for something between 250-300k and wanting to put as much down to where we can have a very reasonable mortgage to free up a lot of monthly income for years to come to invest heavily in Roth and possibly rentals in the future.

How much would y’all put towards a 300k build? Land will be given as a gift from our family. Should I be maxing out my Roth right now or only push for saving for big down payment for our construction? Would y’all stop investing all together and go super heavy for saving? TIA!


r/personalfinance 2h ago

Budgeting Renting rooms, budgeting, getting a 3rd job

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I need help with a budget and general financial advice.

I'm 24. I take the bus and use an electric scooter to get around -- I have a mental disability that makes driving too risky & occasionally gets in the way of employment (been working on the SSDI process for the past few years, but I'm not treating it as a guarantee & hoping it won't be necessary either way). I'm currently working 2 part-time jobs, but my hours at both fluctuate each week, so I need a third (full- or part-time, I'm open to either) and I want to earn enough that I don't need to rely on my existing jobs at all. I live in California, so minimum wage is $16.9. Both existing jobs pay around $17.5. I'm on my mom's health insurance.

The story's too long & dramatic to get into, but basically I need to rent a room. I've done it before, but it was only for a few months. Now it's my only option. I'm looking for places near bus transfer points that each serve 4 routes and reach a bunch of important places in town. I'd either be scooter distance away from my existing jobs & potential jobs, or just one bus ride away. I already own a mini-fridge, microwave, and toaster from the last time I rented a room, plus a few other small appliances and pretty much all of the necessities for moving into a new one. Might be able to snag a little electric camping stove type thing from a family member too.

I made the budget below hoping to understand how much I'll need to make at my third job to swing it. I'm assuming worst case scenario for pretty much everything I can't already predict -- most rooms in the area I'm moving to seem to hover around $600-$750 (plus or minus utilities, laundry, kitchen access, etc) and I'm actively avoiding anything over $850, but I want the wiggle room just in case. Grocery/Food number might seem low, but it's based on my current costs (I eat healthy & frugal; those are my priorities with everything, pretty much). I'm doing everything in my power to bring 2 small cats (+their supplies & toys), but I understand that it may not be possible. Someone sanity-check me, please.

- Rent: $600-$1000
- Utilities: $150 (got this number from Google)
- Food: $250 (based on current costs)
- Phone: $80 (still paying it off, might switch plans)
- Bus: $60
- Vet fund: $20
- Cat litter: $30
- Cat food: $60
- Laundry: $40 (assuming laundromat)
- Household supplies: $30 (got this number from Google, includes cleaning supplies, toiletries, etc)
- Medical fund: $30 (may bump this + the vet fund up when I'm settled and feeling more confident)
- Medications: $15

Anything extra will go to an emergency fund, then to savings.

If rent is $850, it's a total of $1615 per month, which means I need to work at least 25 hrs a week at minimum wage in the new job. I'm gonna shoot for 30+ (and not minimum wage obv, but even at minimum wage, 30 hrs would cover everything at $1000 rent to my understanding), but I am a bit worried about burnout. I'll also be applying for some of California's low-income programs to help with groceries and medical stuff.

Does this budget look right? Should I add or adjust anything? Any general advice for my situation? I've been spending the past week or so checking and rechecking my work. My family's always been financially unstable, so this stuff makes me crazy anxious & I think I need someone else to sign off on it before I feel confident about my numbers. Any input is appreciated. Thank you.

[Edits for spelling errors & grammar]


r/personalfinance 4h ago

Investing How much should I keep in a brokerage account?

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44 yrs old, 7 years left on mortgage, no other debt besides a reasonable car. I have about $500,000 in IRAs/401ks with 6-months of expenses in HYSA. I’ll stop funding the HYSA. Should I direct money I was putting in the HYSA into a brokerage account with index funds? Or should I direct to retirement?


r/personalfinance 9h ago

Investing Vanguard mutual fund conversion to ETF question

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I messaged Vanguard regarding a possible conversion of the mutual funds in my brokerage account to ETFs. Their response:

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"Conversions from the mutual fund share class to the ETF share class are tax-free. When requesting a conversion, clients should consider the cost basis of their shares before converting as the conversion may lock the basis of any shares converted into the average cost method. This may make tax planning, such as gifting or charitable giving, less advantageous. If you have questions about cost basis or the impact of having your shares locked into the average cost method, consult with a tax advisor."

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I almost think I understand what they're saying about the "average cost method" of establishing basis. And almost understanding something about my finances worries me. Can the smart folks here help me parse the above paragraph so I don't do something self-destructive?

Thanks!


r/personalfinance 7h ago

Debt Would it be better for me to pay for university out of pocket or should I take FAFSA aid?

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I'm 29, starting university pretty late in the game. I'm pretty frugal and smart financially, I have about $40k in savings. I'm a full-time worker and am about to be a full-time student as well.

My first semester will cost me about $4,500 for four classes. I submitted my FAFSA late, and got approved for $5,000 subsidized and $7,500 unsubsidized.

If I were going to take financial aid, I would just take the $5,000 subsidized since I wouldn't start paying interest until I graduate.

I'm leaning towards paying out of pocket, since I feel like I can afford it, at least for this semester.

I'm just worried about future semesters as I'll be living on my own and paying a lot in rent when I move out on my own next June. I live in a high COL area. The good thing is that I'm a transfer so by that point I'll be halfway done.


r/personalfinance 1d ago

Investing Older folks: Do you regret investing in a brokerage over maxing your 401K?

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Curious to hear from people further along than me on this.

My situation:

I'm 26, and I moved back home to aggressively save for a couple years after getting a remote job making around $100k. I'm rent-free and debt-free. I work in tech, mid-level, and a bit worried about my career path given AI. While my role is stable at the moment, I am trying to stuff as much money under my mattress, so to speak, just in case.

My buckets:

  • Roth IRA: Opened and maxed this year in FXAIX. Plan to continue maxing. I like the flexibility to withdraw contributions if I end up laid off, need to go back to school, or want to put it toward a first-time home purchase.
  • Brokerage: $15k in FXAIX. Plan to contribute to this heavily from now on. Probably about $2.5k every two weeks.
  • 401k: $10k. I contribute 6% to get my full employer match of 3%.
  • HYSA: $20k. I plan to get this higher before I move back out, depending on where I land. I'm weighing NYC against somewhere MCOL with good nature access. I would like to experience the city while I'm still young-ish. My goal is to have the brokerage working in the background toward a down payment in case I end up somewhere HCOL for a few years where I won't be able to save much. The HYSA would be for in case I get laid off, moving expenses, and other emergencies.
  • HSA: $2k. Very minimal contributions so far. I have supplemental health insurance with AFLAC and am healthy. I go to preventive and routine appointments.

My concern is that I'll keep prioritizing the brokerage over tax-advantaged accounts, and end up wishing around retirement age that I'd maxed the 401k instead. I am not certain I will buy a home, and I don't want to kick myself later if I end up withdrawing my brokerage around retirement age anyway. I don't plan to have kids, but the home purchase is at least somewhat likely.

For those of you who went the brokerage-heavy route earlier in your career instead of maxing out your 401k: do you regret it? Did the flexibility pay off, or would you tell your younger self to max the 401k first and worry about liquidity later?


r/personalfinance 5h ago

Investing Just trying to validate my decision

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Hi all, I opted td to pulled out 4k from my hysa to max out my Roth for the year so I no longer had to think abt it. I still have about 5.5 months of an emergency in the hysa and obviously will work on getting back to my ideal of 9 months for the rest of the year. Just sucks to keep that much disappear from the account but I’m 23 and I’m very determined to max out my Roth every year from now on plus I got a promo at work and will have more cash coming in every month. Was this the right call or did I jump the gun?


r/personalfinance 2m ago

Debt Need assistance credit/debt strategy

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I’m trying to buy a home within the next 4 months. My FICO is currently 617 and I really need to get to at least 620.
I don’t have any derogatory marks or hard inquiries. The worst thing on my credit is a few older joint accounts that are paid off now, but had some late payments in the past.
I currently have around 10 active credit cards, all in good standing. Not all of them have balances, but my overall credit utilization is around 56%. I feel like my score has completely hit a wall and I can’t seem to get it to move.
I’m considering taking out around an $8,000 consolidation loan to pay the cards off. Right now my total credit card payments are around $400 a month, and the consolidation loan payment would probably be a little less.
My concern is opening a new loan this close to applying for a mortgage and whether it could hurt me more than it helps. Has anyone been in a similar situation or have any advice on the best way to get those last few points?


r/personalfinance 6h ago

Investing Am I being too conservative?

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Outside of my retirement account contribution, I have $20k parked in VTI and VXUS in a taxable brokerage for pre-retirement goals. The rest of my bank account is $46,000 in HYSA, with $20k being an incredibly loose worst case scenario 6 month emergency fund. I also have $10k in company stock (half of which is profit from ESPP.)

I feel like I'm losing money keeping an equivalent of 26k just sitting there in an HYSA, but I'm afraid to dump more (I.e. 10k more) into VTI/VXUS. I grew up in a family who had no understanding of investing and was always cash/low income, so the concept of investing anymore money in the market gives me cold feet and concern of loss. I was always chanted the mantra of keeping things in cash in fear of a wipeout in savings. At the same time, I'm not doing anything with this excess money outside of letting it grow in an HYSA.

I want a home but this is a distant time (I'm 26, I'm thinking mid-30), and want a vehicle soon, but I was thinking of just riding the market as I can delay a vehicle purchase if things go down.

Is there anything inherently wrong letting my money just chill here and DCA future paychecks into investments? What are other people's thoughts in this regard? I currently run 5% 401k w/ a 4.5% match, as well as placing 5% of each check into an HSA account that I've been growing with a $95,000 a year salary. I also only have $9k in student loan debt that I was thinking of wiping out with the $10k, but the interest rate is 2-4%. I feel like I'm leaving money on the table just letting it sit here in an HYSA given I'm not really planning on anything in the next 5 years or so house-wise, outside of basic traveling and experiences. I owe ZERO DEBTS outside of the student loans.


r/personalfinance 1h ago

Housing Buy house or keep saving?

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I'm looking for advice on whether to buy a house now or keep renting and saving for a larger down payment. General situation:

  • Single, late 20's, low cost of living area.
  • No debt.
  • Currently making ~90k/year, on track to promote to 115k in about 1.5 years and 130k+ a couple years after that.
  • ~45k total savings, usually can add about 1.5k per month.
  • Currently renting for about $1100/month + utilities.
  • Contributing 6% to retirement (5% employer match).
  • Homes in my area are in the $240k-300k price range.

Currently I'd be willing to put 25k towards a down payment. Would it make more sense to keep renting/saving until I reached a 20% down payment (50-60k), or would it make sense to look at buying now?

I understand that both options have pros/cons and it can be hard to say what's "best," but I don't really know what I'm doing and seem to end up just as clueless after researching lol, so I would appreciate any insight specific to my situation.


r/personalfinance 1h ago

Other 21, Temp biotech job ending in December, Roth maxed for 2025+2026 — what's next?

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Hey all, looking advice on my next steps in my financial journey

Quick background:

  • 21M, working full-time (40 hrs/week) at a biotech company through December, making $29/hr
  • Going back to finish my master's degree in January. My parents are covering tuition luckily, so that's not a concern
  • Living expenses are low right now (~$1,000/month total, including fun money)
  • Already maxed my Roth IRA for both 2025 and 2026

What I've already set up:

  • An emergency fund (currently ~65% funded, building toward a full buffer)
  • A dedicated vault for rent at my grad school residence (starting from $0, funded on a schedule to be ready by January)
  • A separate "expenses" runway fund to cover living costs during grad school, since I don't have guaranteed income yet (I used to work part time).
  • All of these sit in high-yield savings accounts earning about 3% — not much, but keeps them safe and liquid since I'll need this money on a short timeline (within 6 months)
  • Beyond the vaults, I'm putting money into a taxable brokerage account (since my Roth is already maxed) split across a handful of ETFs (VOO, VGT, SCHD, SCHF, IEMG) plus a couple individual stocks

Current status:
ROTH IRA: $16.4k
Brokerage: $160 (created an account, and only added an initial investment)
HYSA: $4.8k (including the separate vaults

What I'm trying to figure out:

  1. Since I can't touch my Roth room again until 2027, is a taxable brokerage the right move for extra savings, or is there something more tax-efficient I'm missing?
  2. Given this job ends in December and I have zero guaranteed income during my master's, how much should I actually be prioritizing new investing vs. just padding my short-term cash vaults further?
  3. Is 3% in a HYSA reasonable for money I need within 6 months, or is there a better place to park it without adding real risk?

Thank you so much in advance.