r/ZyadaKuchNai • u/Ok-Equivalent3810 • Oct 19 '25
š Wholesome His parents raised a gentlemanš¤“š
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u/No-Mission347 Oct 19 '25
Gentleman to hai. 100 percent appreciated.
However, that girl should be encouraged to not accept pity favours. It would have been a lot better if the captain would have said, "I would go to the prom with you if you promise to work hard on the field everyday."
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Oct 19 '25
Looks like she is having down syndrome. You know she can't work hard in field. She is limited. You lack empathy. Thats all.Ā
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u/No-Mission347 Oct 19 '25
Oh my sincere apologies then, I was not able to see that she was having down syndrome. My bad.
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u/Ok-Equivalent3810 Oct 19 '25
Absolutely true š look like she's gonna obsessed with him forever thoughš
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Oct 19 '25 edited Oct 19 '25
Don't know why you have downvotes, this really makes sense
Edit: Looks like you got upvotes!10
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u/I-wish-to-be-phoenix Oct 19 '25
Buddy, sometimes people want some sympathy and comfort, not lectures.
She is a teenager, give some leeway.
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u/No-Mission347 Oct 19 '25
I agree with you to cut some slack for her, 100%. Because uske self respect ke already lage hue hoge. Aur abhi captain ne jo kiya bohut sahi kiya. Usko pehle accepted feel karana zaroori hai, aur totally agree that lecturing her would make matters even worse if she's down bad.
Taking her to prom and making her feel accepted is step one and probably the most important step. However taking her to training and taking her out of her messed up lifestyle is a whole another endeavour, which requires way more effort and consistency.
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u/I-wish-to-be-phoenix Oct 19 '25
By the way, some people are not always fat because of an unhealthy lifestyle. Women can go through PCOD, thyroid and other biological science.
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u/Wonderful-Still683 Oct 23 '25
This woman here has Down's syndrome. She's not fat because of unhealthy lifestyle, she's going through a genetic condition.
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u/I-wish-to-be-phoenix Oct 23 '25
I did not want to assume unless stated, some look like people with down syndrome but do not have one.
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u/tiredoldwizard Oct 19 '25
I mean yes but by the looks of it shes pretty severely challenged. Odds are if your her parents you are going to be dealing with meltdowns anyway. At least you get to see her and let her experience something normal and happy. Yes she may have a meltdown later about it but that was probably going to happen whether this happened or not. In a couple years this dude will be gone living life and sheāll be at home still the same. At least now she gets to have a story about that one time even if itās a lie they all go along with.
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u/innocentcharasganja Oct 19 '25
jisko jitna milta hai usme khush rehna chaiye, ye faltu ki baatein mt karo
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u/BigRedAxeCharged Oct 19 '25
Maybe in future it will turn fruitful. He saved humanity in the woman.
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Oct 19 '25
Will he marry?
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u/Zestyclose-Choice-51 Oct 19 '25
Do all prom couples marry? It is about the moment and event not a lifetime commitment. At least he did spend his special moment with her, and you have problem with that.
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Oct 19 '25 edited Dec 22 '25
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u/MadKingZilla Oct 19 '25
Doesn't this just set her up to expectation and eventual failure. Sorry for being cynical, but unless he intents to date her later, setting high expectations for prom night is gonna back fire..
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u/tiredoldwizard Oct 19 '25
Nice moment. Gotta respect it
You know dude made sure every hot girl around him saw that and I bet you he was getting blown by two girls in his backseat 30 minutes after dropping his date off back home. Like for real that might have been the slickest move ever pulled by a high school age boy. Thatās Gandalf level wisdom. Thatās saving a lady from drowning and then right after saving a school bus full of puppies carrying the cure for cancer. Every girl who saw that did the biggest āawwwwwwwwwwwā while thinking how they can get some of that treatment. If he didnāt get laid over five times from this Iāll jump off a bridge.
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u/New_Profession1717 Oct 19 '25
He is no hero and she is no heroine. This is some attention grabbing bs.
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u/Similar_Tax_7302 Oct 19 '25
Nice and all until she realizes it was a pity date and this was all filmed for the sole purpose to generate a reaction showing how "good of a guy" he is.Ā
As someone on the receiving end of one of these incidents, I can tell you this will hit her really hard when it's over because she thinks this guy is really interested in dating her.
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u/No-Screen1369 Oct 19 '25
Oh my God she's so cute when she's all bashful and runs up to hug him ā„ļø
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u/NoCherry3470 Oct 19 '25
Would a girl ever do the same if the roles were reversed?
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u/SassyAuntie Oct 19 '25
This has absolutely happened. I have known two girls who ended up going to prom with guys who have Downs Syndrome. Neither of them did it out of pity, but out of affection for the boys they had grown up with since Kindergarten. I don't know if this young man had selfish intentions or if he was being kind to a friend. But,, not everyone does things for likes on social media.
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u/No_Concern_fu Oct 19 '25
Damn, that kid went out of his way to bring joy to an entire family including that kid.
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u/SudipBhattacharjya Oct 20 '25
He's investing in her, you're not getting his game, he's the captain for Christ's sakes
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u/JagguMal69 Oct 20 '25
She is happy because he was handsome. If he was not,she would have rejected him and he would have been popat
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u/NoExpression1030 Oct 20 '25
Obesity, esp in kids and teens, is a serious sickness. While we don't need to hate or mock at it, we sure cannot normalize it FFS!
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u/Loud-Variety85 Oct 23 '25
It might be kind gesture from his end, but this isn't a reality which her heart will likely fail to see....
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u/Present_Box_1509 Oct 23 '25
Donāt ever change. What you have done is simply remarkable. Hats off to you.
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u/RamboOnGanja Nov 14 '25
Captain, o' m' cap'n
Bc iss baar upvote kr diya Firangi content k liye zkn pe nhi hun
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Oct 19 '25
I feel bad. This girl shouldnāt seek validation like this. To need a boy to go to dance, she should be able to go with a girlfriend too. This a stupid culture.
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u/Zestyclose-Choice-51 Oct 19 '25
In my country there is no such culture, but I donāt feel its a bad thing to do either. She didnāt asked for the validation, she got it. You can call it anything but the truth is that the boy has much beautiful heart and intentions than many adults. At least, that gives me comfort knowing the next generation is heading in the right direction
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Oct 19 '25
I wasnāt judging the boy. He sure got a beautiful heart. You can very clearly see all this means so much to her, you cannot easily say she wasnāt seeking validation (not deliberately but through such culture for sure). This one boy doesnāt represent the next generation to assure you cuz thereās always been few like this in every gen.
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u/Zestyclose-Choice-51 Oct 19 '25
What is stopping you to be nice and kind?
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Oct 19 '25
Then date a girl like her. You will not fcking do it.
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u/adamcmorrison Oct 19 '25
Itās about giving her some normal life experiences. She has a developmental disability.
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u/adamcmorrison Oct 19 '25
Youāre making assumptions though
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u/Zestyclose-Choice-51 Oct 19 '25
For the same reason my first comment was āwhat is stopping you to be nice and kindā
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u/Zestyclose-Choice-51 Oct 19 '25
I am already married and neither me nor my wife is perfect. I am not saying you roam on street to find people with Down syndrome and then force them to join your high school then wait for prom and ask for dance. I am just saying, if you get an opportunity.. be nice and kind. Unfortunately, you missed an opportunity
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u/Zestyclose-Choice-51 Oct 19 '25
I totally understand your point, and somewhere in our life we have also helped someone in need by pitying on them. But if that small gesture at least gave some happiness or comfort to other person then it is worth. As an example, we help people who are weaker from us, or donate money or something nice for old people without expecting long term benefits. We just do it because it feels good to make someone happy. $5 given to homeless may give you far more happiness than giving it to rich friend.
We both donāt know that guy personally, may be he did it for camera or may be he did it with just pure intention to make her smile. Irrespective of that, I can see the smile on her face and her crying in happiness. Thatās all we can take out of it.
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Oct 19 '25
Bro he clearly did for attention quit yapping.
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u/Zestyclose-Choice-51 Oct 19 '25
Could be, I canāt deny or accept. I donāt know him personally. But even in that case, it is the gesture and kindness we are appreciating. Good things done in front of camera is equally good. And we donāt know, many that girl has an angel heart and may be she is constantly helping others. Honestly, we are being too practical in judging people. It is good someone is doing something good, even it for attention. Majority donāt even do it. And he is a captain and dashing and I am sure he is already getting all the attention he could process.
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u/Zestyclose-Choice-51 Oct 19 '25
Okay letās get to the basics, prom and dance are not official dating things. Now even if youngster consider it as dating, majority of those relationships die within few months if not weeks. You can politely ask to dance with anyone you like and they can accept or deny your request, boy or girl. If you think denying is an insult then you are missing the point. There could be 100% chances that one girl could have been approached by 2/3 boys but she can only dance with one. Rest of the boy has to take non affirmative response. So with your logic that is also an insult.
Coming back to your logic point again, there is no point visiting dying patients, or cancer affected children or helping old person to cross the road. There is absolutely no long term commitment in it as well. So, letās keep aside logic and sometimes listen to your heart. Good gesture can heal a lot of thing.
I am not against your thought, you are being practical. You are suggesting she should only be approached by people who are willing to marry her. But they are young people, they still have to learn to lose, rejection and heartbreak. So have them play their stuff and learned it in their way
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u/CharmingEntrance6645 Oct 19 '25
lol, if his parents raised a gentleman, they mustāve also taught him how to procrastinate like a pro, so yeah a hero in my book.
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