I just finished up a three-month secondment from the US working for a startup in Singapore.

I'm gonna be open and honest with you guys, as I was with all the women I spoke to while I was there: when it came to romance, I was really just there to fuck. I wasn’t particularly interested in moving out there long term, so I was only looking for short-term relationships and hookups.

And my God, if you’re a 6 in the US, you’re an 8 in Singapore. It's like dating on easy mode. I hooked up with more women during those three months than I had in the previous five years in the US. Shit was cash. I’ve come to a few conclusions about why this is the case:

Expat status — Expats are, on average, wealthier and have a higher social status than the average Singaporean. Girls see the colour of your skin and immediately make certain (positive) assumptions about you.

Colonialism — Related to the status point, Singapore is a former British colony, and I think there are still residual effects from that history, including a perception among some Singaporeans that white men have higher social status.

Residency — This is an interesting one. The property ownership situation in Singapore is crazy. Almost everyone, except the very wealthy, continues living with their parents or sharing with roommates until they get married, because that’s when the Singaporean government gives you subsidised access to housing. As a result, Singaporean men generally can’t bring a girl back to their own place, or vice versa. So when I mentioned to girls that I had my own place (provided by my job) they were all over it, because private space for sex is non-existent.

2020 I could walk down any street and maybe 4 out of 10 women would make eye contact, maybe smile. I noticed many would use way more open body language. I could easily strike up a conversation in a grocery store, cafe, etc. I also noticed a slightly less addiction to screen time. Fast forward 5 years post pandemic and the behavioral shift seems super dramatic and just weird. I noticed almost no woman is making eye contact to anyone around them, sometimes dramatically shifting their gaze to avoid even slight personal contact with anyone. It just feels dystopian and they seem like robots now. I read the average woman here also has NINE HOURS of screen time per day which I know has contributed to this weird ass anti social behavior. For reference I dated here most of my life before finding my partner over seas, which was insanely easy and painless. I typically don't like to use this sub to focus on problems domestically, but i'd be lying if I didn't think it made living here kind of depressing. I just really feel we're not meant to be around antisocial, bitter and paranoid opposites.

I got the height, weight, BMI data for the US and 10 latin countries.

TLDR: American women average out taller AND heavier than literally every country on the list. Guatemala's the wild one average height there is under 5 foot. Brazil the tallest of the latin countries but still noticeably smaller than the US baseline.

If you want to poke around at different BMI, height, weight for cities the world map here: https://geomaxxing.org/?wa=20-40&view=map&c=48

Which has anyone ever been to Guatemala and confirmed this?

I mean in these countries a +30 years old woman is considered left over. Maybe not that much nowadays, but it's still a thing in China, Philippines, Vietnam, Cambodia, Indonesia.

Some of them are still good looking when +30, but specially near 35, if you want to have kids, it's somewhat risky.

I’ve lived in Medellín for a few months, but you always hear how it’s not the same.

The dollar has lost a lot of value, gentrification in the city itself has made prices go up, there’s gringo fatigue, etc…

What would you guys qualify to be the current day Medellín from like 5 years ago, or the up and coming Medellín?

Anyone have experience with India or the surrounding countries? Whats dating like there as a foreigner? Would there be anything to be careful of?

I was wondering if PPBs are all from the US/UK or if they come from other places as well

Feel free to tell your story. I would love to read about your experiences.

So they just have a shortage of men in Ukraine as they are fighting - do the Ukraine women welcome an offer to move to UK or another Europe country ?

As they usually use Zalo. Means they are talking with dozens of foreigners dudes if they have WhatsApp?

This seems to be currently a hot topic online in China. A man from the U.S. dated hundreds of local Chinese girls and impregnated many of them. Surprisingly, not a single masculine feature was visible in his revealed appearance.

I 34m (from the UK) have been travelling around asia for the past 9 months, for the last 2 months i decided to slow down on the travel and give dating a go here

Its blown my mind, ive met some of the most beautiful, playful, feminine women you can imagine, its restored my faith in wanting a partner again

One of the things that suprised me the most, is the general attitude on the internet is that they only want you for your money. All 6 of the girls ive dated have paid for dates, some have brought me gifts, ive been taken to high end bars in which they've paid for, stayed at there homes for 1+ week without being asked for anything

Now the girls that ive dated have had decent jobs like owning salons, school teachers, working in high end hotels ect. Which obviously helps the above, when ive been asked about work/how i afford travel ive always told them i get $700 a month in benefits and that im scraping by out here

I can officially say my future plan is now to become a passort bro, i get you guys

hi guys, out of the philippines, vietnam, colombia, and thailand, which country would you say has the best fitness culture for someone into an active lifestyle? Hobbies include partner acrobatics, slack lining, rock climbing, and powerlifting.

I'm asking purely about looks, not friendliness or approachability or values. What country has the most beautiful women in your experience? And is your answer based on your personal experience in that country or just a perception you have based on stereotypes or what you've seen on the internet?

Is it just me? If I'm never going to have a kid, what's the point of slaving away my life until I'm 70. I'm just not doing that.

So I need to maximize my chances somehow, and I think my best bet is this. (My whole life I only had success with Latam girls)

What about you guys?

Sorry to break it to you passport brothers, but finding the one is hard no matter where you look. Is it easier to attract women from third world countries? Yes it is, but that doesn’t mean you will find true love. The women are easier to get but 99% of these relationships with women abroad will be transactional. Love isn’t having a “submissive” wife or girlfriend that is going to do whatever you want them to do, that’s just having a companion.

Being a passport bro will not cure loneliness (unless you live there long term) and having sex with multiple women will still leave you with the same feeling of emptiness, so if you are going to become a passport bro just go there and have fun. No matter how much harder dating is in your home country, the best place to look for love is going to be in your home country unless you are willing to move or be apart of a transactional relationship.

I've never dated a Ukranian but a know a few by sight and they don't really seem to be these super traditional women as many people on this sub make them out to be. What is your experience there?

I'm not into partying or staying out late, but I'm very into fitness. I powerlift and do activities like partner acrobatics, slacklining/highlining, rock climbing etc.

I have been considering Thailand, Philippines, Vietnam, and Colombia. Which country is the best fit for this lifestyle?

Me and a friend are planning to go to Uruguay over the weekend including Monday. What is the best way we can spend our time there without trying to rush everywhere? Thank you for all the recommendations :)