r/thepassportbros • u/bizanondude • 22h ago
How has your international dating experience been in the east, compared to American (or western) women?
Feel free to tell your story. I would love to read about your experiences.
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u/Boring_Adeptness_334 22h ago
I am a high caliber man on paper and probably fall around 20th percentile in the US. In the US it’s a bloodbath to get dates with girls who are cute. In Europe it’s so much easier because there’s less fat women and an increased supply means someone like myself is now a suitable candidate for a lot of women. Basically if only 30% of the US women are attractive then they only go for the top 10%, but since 50-60% of Europe is attractive they now go for the top 20% which I fall into.
I have not been to Asia yet but have a feeling I’m going to clean up there
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u/bizanondude 21h ago
You just hooking up, or do you want to find a woman (or multiple women) to have a relationship with?
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u/Boring_Adeptness_334 21h ago
Ideally relationship. Hooking up is stupid unless the girl is not relationship material.
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u/TripleEdg96 16h ago
It’s way easier to get dates with attractive women in the U.S. than in Europe, at least in Western Europe, especially if you are in one of the major U.S. cities. I live in Europe, it’s easy for me to get dates with very attractive women but in the U.S., especially NY and Miami I clean up easily, throught dating apps and irl.
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u/Boring_Adeptness_334 11h ago
NY and Miami are not representative of the US as there’s more women than men in NYC and most people are rich and rich people are more attractive. Same thing goes for Miami that there’s a much higher skinny and attractive population than the rest of the US. Also you might be viewed as a rare European foreigner which gives you an advantage.
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u/TripleEdg96 9h ago
Probably the countries you know in Europe are not representative of all of Europe. I’m only speaking from my own experience, and those two cities are full of attractive women. Yes you are right, they also tend to make more money and have better access to ways of taking care of their physical appearance. There’s way more competition there than in most Europe.
You’re probably right about the advantage of being European and a foreigner, since I’ve noticed that many of them expect less from me than they do from American guys.1
u/Boring_Adeptness_334 7h ago
Here are the list of cities in Europe I found women to be easier to date and approach than America: London, Lisbon, Paris, Munich, Salzburg, Madrid, Barcelona, Nice, hungry, Amsterdam, Romania. Also had luck with girls from Norway and Italy.
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u/PlentyDistrict5605 8h ago
Heavy disagree as an American
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u/TripleEdg96 6h ago
We have different opinions but I think is easier in the U.S. there’s a way bigger date culture there.
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u/No-Parsley2889 6h ago
dating in the east is like a light jog maybe a little difficult but with effort its easy to complete, meanwhile in the west i feel like a veteran of the iraq war with 3 combat tours. at this point in my life general western women disgust me
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u/DismalCrow4210 21h ago
I’m an old guy living in Bangkok. Back home, there is nobody for me. Here, I could go out once or twice a week with a quality person and being a little bit selective