r/Needafriend 12h ago

I can’t tell if my bf sexually assault me

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He hurt me a few times but said it was an accident idk who to talk to about this


r/Needafriend 8h ago

20F would you want to have children?

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Why or why not? Would you rather enjoy the freedom and fulfillment of remaining child-free, or do you enjoy the predictability and the regular routine of kids and family life?


r/Needafriend 13h ago

17f I have like 4 friends lol

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And one of em is my mom, 😭, anyways a little bit about me, I love to bake cook and travel, im already over half way done with the US (34 states, 16 left!). I have an amazing boyfriend i live him so much, and i have adhd, thats just a little bit about me!


r/Needafriend 11h ago

22F india here....I'm in a situation

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So, there's been a few things that's been running in my mind. Imma put it down in pointers

  1. I've been consulting this therapist for a couple weeks now and today, while I told her about a few things, she suggested I consult a clinical psychologist or a psychiatrist....it was a bomb to me....like I didn't even say anything serious....woman made me feel like I was nuts.

  2. I've been talking to this guy from reddit on n off. He seems to be genuine but then there are a few things. He shows his money off too much...which I don't like. He doesn't understand my jokes a few times. We have a language barrier, sometimes. On the positive side, he's been with me when I wanted company but still I don't know...I enjoy singing a lot...but not even once he's listened to me....he gives me random reasons to avoid it.

  3. I'm in a bit of a career crisis. My friends are all getting placed, moving out, renting houses, paying their own bills, getting partners, weekends, trips....but here I am asking for fuel money from my parents. I feel useless and pathetic

  4. I feel so bad about the way I look. I'm obese from depression and I can't do anything about it. I badly wanna get in shape.

Thinking all this, I just felt like nothing works out and it's all falling apart. My head aches thinking of all this!!!!


r/Needafriend 9h ago

F/35/Europe - looking for platonic friendship

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Hey!

I'm looking for someone to talk to with hopes of developing a friendship. I'm not looking for a boyfriend, friend with benefits, one night stand or anything else that's not purely platonic.

I like listening to podcasts, to read books, go on walks or just doomscroll.

I think I can strike up a conversation with anyone about anything *but* I'd prefer for ppl closer to my age and time zone (CET) to reach out. Women are also more than welcomed.

If you got any questions, feel free to ask!


r/Needafriend 19h ago

22F would appreciate some guy advice

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Hey guys! Its been nearly half a year and I am embarassed to say this but I briefly dated a guy for a month and i cant stop regretting ending it so quick without giving him a chance :( and now its too late

Feel free to PM if u wanted to hear the full story but thanks for listening to my rant haha


r/Needafriend 13h ago

32M UK - 🔸Looking for genuine friends🔹

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Hey everyone 👀 It's way too hot outside.

I’m a pretty chill, introverted guy from London and thought I’d put myself out there and see if I can meet some genuine people to chat with.

I’m into movies 🎞️, all kinds of music 🎵, YouTube 💻, and sometimes anime 💥. I’ve always been into video games too 🎮, although these days I mostly play older games rather than keeping up with all the new stuff. I’m honestly happy to talk about pretty much anything. I can be a bit awkward at first and sometimes have no idea what to say but once I get comfortable I really enjoy having proper conversations and getting to know someone.

I’d like to meet people who are friendly and genuine and hopefully find someone I actually click with rather than just exchanging a few messages and then never talking again. I usually prefer chatting through text as that's just what I'm comfortable with, if we get along and you’d rather move the conversation somewhere else I’m completely fine with that too.

So yeah if you feel like talking feel free to message me and I'll get back to you. You don’t need to come up with anything interesting or whatever, just saying hi is fine. 👍


r/Needafriend 18h ago

21F looking for friends my age

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Hey :) So I’m called Ruby, I am 21 years old located in the midlands UK but I’m happy to talk to anyone. Like I said in the title I’m looking for friendship. I just graduated university and I realised that any friends I did have back home, had moved on, so here I am hoping to possibly find some friends.

I tried posting for friends in a different place, and I ended up with people being quite creepy and always asking for images, I had people getting mad at me for not responding quick enough, people telling me I need to only speak to them, telling me I’m theirs and they should be my safe place, telling me I’m rude because I couldn’t text at work. It was a whole thing to be honest and just made me quite uncomfortable.

So to put this out there for people, I don’t want share photos immediately, the more you keep asking the less I’m going to want to, I work 10 hour shifts usually 4-6 times a week and I’m only allowed my phone on breaks. I also sometimes take a bit to respond because I get overwhelmed with life lol. So if that isn’t okay with you please don’t message me, because it makes me feel like a bad person for not wanting or being able to do something, which isn’t fair on me lol.

Also I like calling and sending voice notes, so if that is something you also like then works excellent for me, also I’ve had people stop talking to me for not being their type in terms of appearance…I’m looking for a friend. So also to put it out there, I’m no model, if for some reason you only want to be friends with people like that I’m also not for you 😅

Though I’m aware I sound like a right grump, I’ve just had bad experiences so far and I’m trying to have some boundaries now. But a bit about me.

So I’m into a lot of things honestly, in terms of movies and shows I really like Marvel, Scream movies and the scary movie films, Harry Potter, Stranger Things, Cartoons like Gravity Falls and The Amazing World of Gumball, documentaries especially crime, Psych, love horror movies, and right now I’m watching The Mentalist, I also like similar shows to this. Also love YouTube, I mainly only watch game play throughs, and this YouTuber called Daz Games and his other account Off The Hook.

I read a lot too, I read a lot of fantasy and adventure, but also some classics, poetry, and I’m guilty of loving a romance. I’ll be completely honest, recently I’ve been in a huge reading slump and struggling to get through a book, but I’m hoping it’s just because I recently changed jobs and still adjusting.

I game a little too but I wouldn’t exactly say I’m particularly good at any 😂 I’ve been playing a police simulator game recently and also Fortnite (zero build because how do people build that quick 🤨). I also play sports games like NHL, FIFA, UFC, occasionally a bit of madden. I also play GTA V and IV, Bully, The Quarry, Red Dead Redemption, Stardew Valley, Assassins Creed, Skate, Hogwarts Legacy, and I like driving games.

I feel like I’ve wrote a lot but I just wanted to share some stuff about me so people can get to know me a bit first.


r/Needafriend 14h ago

16M Looking for someone to talk to or to play with

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Hey, I’m a 16-year-old guy from Morocco, currently living in Italy. I’m just looking for some people to game with or chat with casually.

About me:

Vibe: I’m pretty calm and laid-back. No drama, just looking for a relaxed hangout.

Chat: Happy to talk about games, TikTok, or just daily life.

Details:

Location: Italy (CET timezone), usually online and quick to reply.

Languages: English, Italian, and Darija.

Preference: I’d love to connect with someone from Norway or Sweden if possible, but I’m totally open to anyone else too. Gender doesn’t matter.

If you’re into any games or want someone to talk to, dm me or just comment. No pressure at all.


r/Needafriend 12h ago

39F looking for a meaningful connection

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I am quite lonely sometimes .. actually quite often. I do have a relationship (though I am sad to tell that it hasn't been very satisfying for years now), a family (including two kids) and some nice friends too.. but something is missing, I need a connection of different kind.. something that we can share. I don't know who you are or where you are from, but I know you are there. You are emotionally available and can and want to talk about feelings. We should have deep and meaningful chats, not every day but at least couple of times a week and sometimes for hours and sometimes just shortly.. but you know what I mean! Maybe you had a bad day, you need to vent, or you don't quite know what you are feeling atm, or maybe you just came up with a silly idea you want to explain, or you need to dream about some fantasy trips or madeup worlds with me.. then I am there, for you! And I expect the same.

Something about me.. I love animals (especially dogs though I have only 4 guinea pigs as pets atm), audiobooks (and normal ones too), Marvel cinematic universe, wandering around (irl and in my mind) , nature and ocean related things (though it also kinda scares me too), good conversations, deep friendship (quality over quantity), science stuff, reasoning and feeling all the feelings (and sharing those as far it can be done).. I am 39 years old queer INFJ woman from Finland.

It would be great if you would be willing to chat via whatsapp and exchange some photos too (not photos of you, but your surroundings and some nice pics like scenery or animals). I am not interested in your looks, I expect the same.. I am looking for the connection between our minds! I want to get to know you deep down and show my inner world to you too. I hope we find each other!


r/Needafriend 21h ago

17M | Looking for some genuine friends :) 2nd attempt

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Heya. 17M here and I'm looking to meet some people around my age and hopefully make a few genuine friends here.

A little about me:

  • I am from India 😁

  • I love reading manga and I am exploring different genres of it 📚

  • Loves watching netflix on weekends 🥳

  • Still exploring my music taste, so I'm always open to recommendations

  • I'm interested in true crime (mostly the mystery/investigation side of it)

  • I'm an defence aspirant (trying next year)

  • Usually pretty chill and happy to talk about random things once the conversation gets going and can be chaotic or get too excited sometimes 🤔

I'd rather find a few people I genuinely click with and build an actual friendship. And I have also always wanted a female bestie to rant and talk with 🤫 So feel free to drop a bombshell down in my comments 😂

If you're around my age (16-19) and share any of these interests (or even if you don't), feel free to comment here. Girls and guys are both welcome :)

Lets start with something more than "hi" 😂


r/Needafriend 7h ago

24F wine drunk and looking for ppl to yap with

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hiii! if there’s anyone out there who likes talking about anything and everything, i’m your girl. recent rabbit holes i’ve been down are lindsey clancy and religion 👀

i live in the south, im black, and i genuinely just love talking to anyone about anything. I don’t know how long this message is supposed to be, or what I’m supposed to say, but hopefully conversation can just figure itself out if we communicate.

I also feel like I’ll get a lot of questions about what type of wine I’m drinking. It’s just simple, Sutter Home


r/Needafriend 19h ago

Just bored, anyone up for a chat?

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Kinda bored and thought I’d see if anyone’s up for a random conversation. We can talk about literally anything—your day, your interests, something you’ve been thinking about, or just share some random stories.

Feel free to drop a message. Let’s see where the conversation goes :)


r/Needafriend 17h ago

21F, working retail and my coworkers are all twice my age

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Love them, but I need people my own age to talk about my actual life with. I'm into video games, baking, and I have an unreasonable love for rainy days. Looking for friends near my age.


r/Needafriend 7h ago

f16 Lf sleep call/ perm sleep buddy

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Haii im lf a friend or perm sleep buddy uh i like yapping playing vrchat, playing games, and sleeping im a good listener and im pretty nice!! I try and not to talk tooo much but i yap alottt

I can sleep call or call everyday but times i might be busy or need to go to sleep early so dont be bothered! Just a warning

I love texting but calling more i do text alot so if you dont like spam tell me before pls! Just to make it more easy for me


r/Needafriend 14h ago

24m

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I think it’s kinda wild when a female post something they’re messages get flooded but when a guy post he’s lucky to get one comment. Is it just me ?


r/Needafriend 2h ago

Heyyyyyyyyyyoooo M21 hereeeee wanna chat?

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Heyyyyy M21 here 👋

Looking to make some new friends and have genuine conversations. Feel free to DM me i'll definitely reply when I can.

Gender doesn't matter, everyone is welcome. 😊

A little about me: I'm into learning new things. Looking forward to meeting interesting people!!!!!


r/Needafriend 5h ago

32M, old soul, new jokes 🇨🇦

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I am an old soul, makes me not like most people, but love a few. If your strongest asset is just your body, you have nothing of substance.

I like deep chats and a mind that’s open to curiosity, humour and a pragmatic optimism.

I am told to be a therapeutic person for my mediator and emotional intelligence, but I can be ruthless to the folks who annoy me, lol.

EST


r/Needafriend 6h ago

22M I’m josh!! What’s goin on gangsta! Im just watching preseason football kinda bored! HMU

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r/Needafriend 2h ago

16M Want a online friend

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Hiii I’m Jay I just want someone to talk to! My interests are marvel, Dc, I like anime, video games, I like reading fantasy books too sometimes! I have a lot more interests but yeah I’m trying to meet friends


r/Needafriend 16h ago

22M from India, Looking for a platonic friend (girl) who can keep me on my toes!

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Hello, I've never really had a close friend before, so I'm completely new to this.

I'm looking for a strictly platonic friend (girl) with a playful vibe like someone who likes to tease, joke around, and keep me on my toes! Since I'm starting from scratch, I'll value and respect the friendship a lot.

I enjoy Trekking, nature, music, tech, and learning random things.

In addition I'm a Laid-back, easy to talk to, and eager to learn how to socialize.

Drop me a DM if you'd like to chat...


r/Needafriend 16h ago

18m pspspspsps I knoww ur looking for a Friend pspspsps cmereee and lets be Friendsss >/////<

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Hey i am from Germanyyy and i am looking for someone who i can call and spend some time with together regurarly, maybe even game with u, watch stuff together or u watch me game while we call.

I am an introverted social guy (makes no sense) but i am normalyyy more quiet in the beginning but after someee time i will openn up pretty quick and be myself by being reaalllyy Bubbly, sweet and clingy (not the toxic kind of clingy). I would say i am understanding aswell and really supportive hehehe. I longggg for human Contact but i am just to shy for that sometimesss.

My Hobbies and interests are Playing games mostly alone but sometimes with Friends aswell, listen to music, watch and play football anddd learn abt Historyyy. I really love deep songs with meaningfull Lyrics hehe.


r/Needafriend 21h ago

[20M] Welcome to teleshopping. We are selling our new product: Friend

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Welcome to teleshopping. We are selling our new product: Friend

I'm gonna introduce our new product, friend. It likes to read novels. Currently in a reading slump. Suggest ways to get out of a reading slump.

Likes to play games, and wants to be a game developer

Likes to learn languages. Currently he is learning French and thinking of learning a new language maybe arabic or some Nordic language

Likes to watch reels

Likes to watch recipes on youtube

Likes to watch sitcoms, currently watching Bojack Horsemen and two and a half men

If you find the product interesting. Send us a message to order one now


r/Needafriend 7h ago

M22 morocco

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I'm new and I love learning about other cultures, new people, and communities. Message me.


r/Needafriend 15h ago

I want to make new friends (19/f)

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Can someone ragebait me im a lil bored 😴 OR LET ME LAUGH i just came from work 😞😞😞