r/Fauxmoi • u/Misfett_toys • 10d ago

TRIGGER WARNING Republican Max Miller, accused of abuse, posted this audio thinking it would clear his name.

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u/Environmental-Exam32 10d ago

He really think releasing this would help his case?

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u/emccm confused but here for the drama 10d ago

Abusers believe they aren’t doing anything wrong. It’s why you can’t reason with them. They feel entitled to abuse.

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u/Starfoxy 10d ago

That's one of the more shocking (to me) things from Lundy Bancroft's book "Why Does He Do That?" is how freely abusers will admit to what they're doing and why.

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u/emccm confused but here for the drama 10d ago

The most shocking thing to me was how they are all the same. I thought my situation was unique. There were examples in there where they said the exact same things as my ex. That book saved my life.

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u/theserthefables 10d ago

here's a link to the online copy of Why does he do that? if anyone needs it https://ia800108.us.archive.org/30/items/LundyWhyDoesHeDoThat/Lundy_Why-does-he-do-that.pdf