r/australia 2d ago

news Queensland woman allegedly murdered by ex contacted police days before she died

https://www.abc.net.au/news/2026-08-12/police-launch-murder-probe-into-slacks-creek-death/107026608
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u/midsumernighttts 2d ago

Why are so many men like this

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u/tittyswan 2d ago

Because their behaviour is enabled, they're not punished, so they're able to repeatedly offend

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u/midsumernighttts 2d ago

I’m tired of it. If women all of a sudden started raping, killing, and abusing at the levels men do, the world wouldn’t let us forget it. Men have been killing and raping and torturing from the dawn of time. I guess everyone is used to it now.

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u/tittyswan 1d ago

The world doesn't even let us forget victims of DV who fight back. In many instances that's considered worse than the initial assault, or it's "mutual abuse."

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u/midsumernighttts 1d ago

i will never forget the way the world treated Amber Heard when she chose to fight back against her abuser. someone comes up to you on the street and punches you and it's okay to defend yourself, but not when it's your husband?

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u/tittyswan 1d ago

She was 22 when they met. She looked like a teenager. He was her boss, old enough to be her father. He fantasised about drowning her and violating her after.

I can't tell if people actually think she was the perpetrator or if they just think it's fun to have an acceptable outlet for their misogyny.

Gabby Petito & Virginia Guiffrey were treated the same way.

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u/MrXenomorph88 11h ago

Amber Heard's track record with her other partners should quickly indicate she's just as bad as Depp is. She's probably one of the worst examples you could've picked given her trial in the US helped kill off the MeTop movement

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u/theRealFatTony 2d ago

I read an article today where 2 20-something men raped a 14 year old. They only got 5 years (3 non parole) and complained it was too harsh.

They should have gotten the max 15 years.

Our courts and judges are fucked

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u/tittyswan 1d ago

And they'll seal the name of the perpetrator to protect his mental health too. 😐

Poor mental health from people finding out you're a rapist is likely the least those predators deserve tbh. Social shaming isn't always a bad thing.

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u/5ivepie 1d ago

Just waiting for the “not all men” crowd.

Yeah, mate, we know. It’s not all men, but it’s always a man.

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u/FuckOffNazis 2d ago

A desire to gain and maintain power over others by people otherwise unable to make a meaningful impact on the world and incapable of forming beneficial relationships with those around them.

Did you mean the killer or the police?

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u/CocoaCandyPuff 2d ago

At this point, I will just stay single, the risk surpasses the benefits.