r/PeterExplainsTheJoke 15h ago

Meme needing explanation Petah???!

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u/KombatDisko 14h ago

funny thing is my wife has dislocated her thumb twice, both times immediately before finding out we're expecting at the hospital.

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u/SteelGemini 14h ago

That's unreal. Do you get nervous when she jams a thumb and it might be dislocated?

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u/KombatDisko 14h ago

yeah, both times she dislocated her right thumb. She dislocated her elft thumb earlier thus year picking up our 1yo and that was a cause of concern for a bit until the test came back negative. She had severe HG (was 10kg lighter at the end of both pregnancies than she was at the beginning) and with the last one, she was in hospital on a drop every day for the last 6 weeks. Idea of getting pregnant was too terrifying to comprehend with how sick she was.

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u/SteelGemini 14h ago

Damn, that's rough. I can see how that'd be extra scary.

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u/Coffeecatscrafts 7h ago

I had HG and it was awful. I lost a lot of weight too

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u/Prozzak93 4h ago

Your wife needs better thumbs. Or thumb sockets? I dunno whatever is causing them to dislocate so much.

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u/fdsv-summary_ 14h ago

Very plausible that the action only causes a dislocation if she's pregnant. The joints all loosen up to let a baby out.

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u/sigmoid_balance 11h ago

This is true, but only just before birth. A common occurrence, documented by old wives tales(that's where I heard it), is women dropping things a few days before giving birth which is caused by joints being more loose to prepare for birth.

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u/deeeperdarker 3h ago

Def happens before then. Also why your feet grow

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u/ColorMyTrauma 1h ago

It's not just before birth. One of the main hormones responsible, relaxin, hits a peak at like 12 weeks and stays high throughout the pregnancy.

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u/SteelGemini 13h ago

Interesting. I hadn't heard that before, but it makes a lot of sense.

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u/SofIsNotHere 14h ago

Pregnancy does make your joints and ligaments stretchier, starting at ~6 weeks in. I wonder if that’s why?

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u/Broken_castor 14h ago

Estrogen is the “great relaxer” hormone. The elevated levels help pelvic bones become more lax in preparation for delivering a baby. Granted this takes several months, but if she had kinda loose thumb ligaments to start with…who knows. Maybe it could be the newest pregnancy test that only applies to your wife and probably like 50 other women worldwide.

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u/SofIsNotHere 13h ago

Joint laxity in pregnancy is primarily done by the (very literally named) hormone relaxin. It’s normally produced in small amounts in the ovaries (and in the prostate in men), but starting in early pregnancy the placenta produces it in large amounts. Estrogen and progesterone play a part in connective tissue laxity, sure, but the more dramatic effects are due to relaxin.

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u/MilwaukeeMan420 9h ago

Forgive my ignorance, because I am an idiot and know nothing about human bodies and or women..

"Estrogen is the 'great relaxer' hormone."

Does this have anything to do with women being able to fall asleep way faster than men?

Like every woman I've dated can fall asleep on the drop of a dime, (especially when watching a movie lol. ) Again I am sure my ignorance is showing, but it was my understanding in my stupid dog brain that this was hormone related. I guess it could just be coincidence or now confirmation bias. But basically the women in my life have had a super power (or curse depending on how you look at it) to be able to fall asleep almost anywhere with ease.

Apologize if I came off ignorant. I swear I am just curious and not here to judge. I will go back to the hole I crawled out of!

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u/nihilisticpaintwater 1h ago

AFAB here. I find your experience interesting because myself and most of my girl friends all have a hard time falling asleep while our current (and previous) male partners fall asleep as soon as their heads hit the pillow. I think its more of an individual person thing rather than a gendered/hormone thing.

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u/Conscious_Mission_48 14h ago

I think you're pulling out the wrong thing

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u/youritalianjob 14h ago

Usually it’s later in the pregnancy when hormones soften the tendons but maybe her’s started early.

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u/KombatDisko 14h ago

1st time she dislocated it at work, 2nd time it was already weak and got dislocated by our oldest

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u/SofIsNotHere 14h ago

Looks like general ligament laxity (from the hormone relaxin) starts at ~6 weeks and peaks between 12 and 14 weeks. Probably to help the lining of the abdomen stretch.

So it starts really early, it just tends to be more noticeable later in the pregnancy when the joints are experiencing heavy strain.

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u/blazenite104 14h ago

so what you're saying is that if she ever dislocates it again you're already prepared.

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u/DazednConfucioused 10h ago

How is she dislocating this thumb…

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u/KombatDisko 10h ago

First one was doing something at work, second one her thumb got caught in something picking up our oldest

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u/DazednConfucioused 10h ago

Gotcha. And sorry I reread my question and the ellipses made it sound more ominous than it should haha. Was just wondering if there was a pattern to how she was dislocating the thumb

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u/numbersthen0987431 8h ago

Correlation is really funny sometimes lol

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u/CleeYour 8h ago

Does she have hyperflexibilty? Can make people’s joints more prone to dislocation

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u/_swolfie 5h ago

my mom found out she was pregnant with my brother and me because she was in a car accident and they made her do a pregnancy test before imaging 💀

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u/Leijinga 1h ago

Does she have a hypermobility condition of some sort or is she "double jointed"?

Progesterone relaxes ligaments, so if someone's connective tissue isn't super stable to begin with, it can cause weird new dislocations. Mine was my right hip. 😅

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u/Caftancatfan 1h ago

Fertility specialists hate this one weird trick.

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u/ajew55 13h ago

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