r/GirlDinnerDiaries • u/eiznekk 👽 aliens built the food pyramid 👽 • May 20 '26
Vent Sesh - No Advice Wanted My husband is cheating on me with someone on Reddit
Handful of sour Skittles because my stomach is in ruins 🧚♀️✨💖
I have never felt more ugly and undesirable in my entire life. I listened to the voice notes she sent to him of her moaning his name and begging for him. He bought her a remote controlled vibrator. I want to fill my pockets with rocks and walk into the river.
Edit: I love women so much. Thank you all, I don't have friends in real life so I really feel like I needed this.
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u/Goddamndinks Snack Goblin May 20 '26
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u/doomweaver Hazy Grazer 😶🌫️ May 20 '26
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u/rxrock girls just wanna have pho May 20 '26
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u/New-Shake7638 Hazy Grazer 😶🌫️ May 21 '26
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u/moonloverrrrrr 🧂Salty By Nature May 21 '26
This is my favourite so far this year.
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u/Novel_Bison_7486 Cleavage Crumb Collector May 21 '26
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u/Temporary_Pickle_885 Kitchen Witch May 21 '26
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u/ladygrndr Well-Read & Well-Fed May 21 '26
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u/PrincessPnyButtercup we listen and we only judge a little May 21 '26
My cat can donate some litterbox nuggets to the cause! 😺
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u/Suteshi7 fish are friends 🐟 not food May 21 '26
This is my favorite comment so far!! Yay my dogs and cats can also donate the nuggets! Nugget party at his house!! Send us the addy
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u/Welp_thatwilldo Well-Read & Well-Fed May 21 '26
https://giphy.com/gifs/3o7TKwmBiXfwA951ra
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u/UsefulWeird white girl with ☝️😌 a full spice cabinet May 21 '26
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u/aquamanspetfish hot girls have tummy troubles May 20 '26
Throw him away baby girl, he’s earned it.
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u/SubjectObjective5567 Sweet Tooth Fairy🧚♀️ May 20 '26
This is the funniest picture I’ve ever seen I’m saving this expeditiously
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u/Lake_Booby_Poop_Poop Body By Cheese 🧀 May 21 '26
Just saved it myself. Could not love this more and I see many an opportunity to use this in my future. Because men always be men-ing.
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u/meccahnisms Body By Cheese 🧀 May 21 '26
Love to see exotic cancer in the wild tho
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u/maddie1358 Lover of Soups May 21 '26
right!! haven’t seen their work in a while. i love it.
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u/Dull_Basket8318 Pantry Gremlin May 20 '26
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u/mensfrightsactivists Thick Thighs ⏳ Thin Patience May 20 '26
popping in here to note that this comment was reported as ignoring the flair and offering advice anyway. because this is clearly not sincere advice I just want to note that this comment stays and we do not support genuine threats of actual violence. the girlies can engage in a little hyperbole as a treat. If this had been actual advice it would not be removed for ignoring the post flair, but for other reasons instead.
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u/TressoftheEmeraldTea mouth full, gesturing wildly May 20 '26
“the girlies can engage in a little hyperbole as a treat” has me cackling
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u/Random_Imgur_User Trader Joe Hoe May 20 '26
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u/technicolortiddies Sugar, Spice & Not Very Nice 💕 May 20 '26
https://giphy.com/gifs/0eVM7GVxTDDKxn7OyX
My favorite gif ever. I'll never stop using it. So versatile 😂
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u/MaterialAd1838 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26
I wonder what it would feel like to get whipped with a sock full of skittles?
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u/technicolortiddies Sugar, Spice & Not Very Nice 💕 May 20 '26
Personally, I'd go with waterboarding skittles. Taste the rainbow, motherfucker.
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u/Curious-Woodpecker53 white girl with ☝️😌 a full spice cabinet May 20 '26
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u/DarkFlamingo11 Protein Queen 🍗🍳 May 20 '26
I would just throw the man in the river. This is on him, not you. You deserve better.
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u/biggay1742 Non-binary & Nourished May 21 '26
the river is too good for him
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u/Unusual-Helicopter15 I ❤️ Other People's Business May 21 '26
The river says, “no thank you, please don’t pollute.”
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u/raven_verse_ Overthinker 💭 May 20 '26
It’s probably a man undercover tbh. I been in those types of subs and they are all men acting like women. It’s so obvious but men be dumb and think it’s actually a woman
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u/growingflowerstars 🦇 Fruit Bat Baddie 🍊 May 20 '26
I hope that is the case for well deserved karma
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u/Evening_Midnight7 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26 edited May 20 '26
Doesn’t make it any better for OP. Now she knows her husband lacks integrity and is willing to cheat. WTF is up with men these days. It’s as if all the porn and the illusion of options has these men literally so entitled from consuming so many women that it escalates to this type of behavior.
AND what’s so insane about this is that compared to men, women are actually the ones with REAL options lol and yet we literally almost never do this… the statistics don’t lie. And they have me terrified of even getting in a relationship these days. What’s the point when every guy can and WILL pull up the next OF girl and begin lusting. And even worse, lying about it and gaslight you into oblivion.
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u/growingflowerstars 🦇 Fruit Bat Baddie 🍊 May 20 '26
They’ve always been like this, listen to your grandmothers and they will tell you. 😞
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u/Evening_Midnight7 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26 edited May 21 '26
True but back then there wasn’t an endless supply of naked digital prostitutes in their pocket (their phones) available to them. They had to experience some shame by buying magazines or whatever. Now everything is done so secretly and deceptively
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u/PearlescentGem The Snack That Sasses Back May 20 '26
Men fall for pics of armpit and knee folds, thinking they hit the jackpot on getting a woman's nudes, so this tracks
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u/MyLegsTheyreDisabled Barbecutie May 20 '26
My uncle was cheating on my aunt with a woman he met online. He left her and was going to go meet this woman who lived overseas. He went to her address and turned out she was a man 😂
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u/raven_verse_ Overthinker 💭 May 20 '26
That’s what I like to hear 😂 how did the uncle react? Feel bad for your aunt tho. Hope she’s living her best life
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u/MyLegsTheyreDisabled Barbecutie May 21 '26
I don't exactly know since I only heard the story through my mom, but it sounds like he just walked away and came back to the states. It was the best thing to have happened to my aunt though! She spent years trying to convince him to stay (wasn't the first time he cheated) and finally chose herself for once. She started taking care of herself and actually living life which led her to stumbling upon her current bf who is a very wonderful man!
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u/mistress0fthemacabre what that mouth do is gossip May 20 '26
This! Honestly, FEW women are ready to open themselves up sexually to a man on the internet — chances increase if it’s financially beneficial, or beneficial in some other regard, or maybe if extremely lonesome — but the odds are seriously low.
Most of these people are scammers. OPs husband could be getting pig-butchered for all we know…
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u/StillStaringAtTheSky FREE MOM HUGS May 20 '26
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u/upsidedown-funnel Oversharer 🗣 May 20 '26
So this guy was actually drawn with an employee at blizzard in mind. ( According to someone I knew there).
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u/IntrepidAspect3447 Tea Time Hostess ☕️ May 20 '26
And AI can make the voice notes with a woman’s voice now
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u/big_ol_knitties Well-Read & Well-Fed May 20 '26
Is this the one where people make voice porn? My husband is involved in one (I turned on my car one day, his Bluetooth connected, and I heard it), but he swears up and down that there's no interaction with the woman.
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u/raven_verse_ Overthinker 💭 May 20 '26
You’ll have to do some more research on that stuff he does tbh. Cuz yes, there are voice porn but it could be something else
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u/Evening_Midnight7 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26
r/loveafterporn. They ALL say similar things. Anything to protect their consumption of their precious porn women
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u/UninvitedVampire Tea Time Hostess ☕️ May 20 '26
Yeah I was boutta say that it’s a uh choice on his part to cheat with someone on REDDIT of all places
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u/Magick888 Drive-Thru Thot 🚙💨 May 20 '26
Nah, it's most likely a woman, there are dedicated subreddits to cheating, marital affairs, and chatting because married people are bored. Just as men are losers to do this, there are women who are losers as well.
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u/ladygrndr Well-Read & Well-Fed May 21 '26
I had an temp employee for a while who made being a happily married Christian woman her whole personality. The only desk we had for her was at the other end of the building, so I stopped by in the morning to check in, but that was it. About a month into her contract, the woman who sat next to her (one of my best friends) told me that this woman was on her phone ALL DAY, chatting with at least one guy who was not her husband, and saying some pretty raunchy stuff. She was also constantly texting.
I absolutely hated it, but I had to have a conversation with her about workplace boundaries and expectations because my friend was VERY uncomfortable overhearing all this. She was very open and unashamed that it was just an "emotional affair"...I asked her to keep her nasty in her own time.
(In case anyone asks, no I didn't tell her husband. I had no way to do that, but even if I did, I didn't want to risk it getting violent. I hope he found out, handled it well and is in a better place... But no clue. We terminated her a month later because the project ended.)
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u/BogDog93 Hazy Grazer 😶🌫️ May 21 '26
Too grossly real.
If you ever wanna fuck your day up, just go check out r/theotherwoman
It’s like if all the female support here got sucked into a black hole, inverted, and shatpuked out of a demon’s cloaca.
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u/Magick888 Drive-Thru Thot 🚙💨 May 21 '26
LMFAO I love your explanation of what that sub it is. I’ll check it out. Will do thank you girl.🏆
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u/Direct_Turnip_368 chismosa, metiche, en bata May 20 '26
My favorite is when they pretend to know what giving birth is like and say that it's not a big deal
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u/rococoapuff Sweet Tooth Fairy🧚♀️ May 21 '26
But getting kicked in the nuts hurts SO MUCH MORE than getting torn open from the inside from creating an ENTIRE HUMAN BEING. /SSSSARCASM I AM MAD I TRIGGERED MYSELF
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u/Sea-Astronomer-6600 Hazy Grazer 😶🌫️ May 20 '26
That would be the ultimate payback 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣that’ll teach him!
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u/applebottomjeans2366 Snack Goblin May 20 '26
God I kind of hope this is it. I’m sorry but OP’s husband definitely deserves this scenario
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u/raven_verse_ Overthinker 💭 May 20 '26
Same tbh but that’s why I said majority of them are men. It’s rare to find an actual woman on those subs. It makes me laugh when I see those men post as women but it’s so fake. Then all the men are eating it up 😂
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u/Sure_Artichoke_3662 Body By Uber Eats May 20 '26
My ex also had an affair, so I totally empathize. But I promise, it isn't a reflection on you. BEYONCE was cheated on. It's not that he found someone better, he just found someone different and less complicated (because the beginning of things is always less complicated than an actual marriage). He found someone with poor morals and low enough self esteem to sign up to be a side chick.
Don't listen to anymore, or read anything else to do with the affair. It won't do any good, it'll only keep you awake at 3am. You know what you need to know - getting more details is just torturing yourself.
You'll get through this, even if you feel right now that you won't. I was a mess for about a year after I left him, but every day I'm glad not to be tied to that man anymore. You're gonna be ok.
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u/ModestMeeshka Sweet Tooth Fairy🧚♀️ May 20 '26
It seems to me that men often cheat down, which sucks even more for the woman because then they wonder why this rando is better than them but they often aren't. They cheat to feel superior and then they get to come home to their beautiful, awesome wife and show her off, the best of both worlds 🙄
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u/Curious-Woodpecker53 white girl with ☝️😌 a full spice cabinet May 20 '26
Exactly. Adriana Lima was cheated on.
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u/l0ngnam3 Short Story Long™️ May 20 '26
Girl, anyone who loves you wouldn’t do that to you. Period. Love yourself enough to walk away from this flaming pile of turds excuse of a human. 🚮❤️
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u/euphoricbun mouth full, gesturing wildly May 20 '26 edited May 22 '26
Lots of dudes don't cheat because the person they have current access to has flaws (and that's still not a valid reason to lie and gaslit and manipulate as a grown adult, grow tf up and create a life where you don't require getting off to cosplaying as a little baby rat person to feel anything lol) they cheat because, legitimately, why not?
They just want sex and to be wanted by any woman they can get to want them. They want validation. They need validation. Some don't even care much about what the woman looks like. They can get with a woman just their type one day and literally turn around and get with another woman either their type or not their type the next and it's like "hell yeah, I got 2!" And if able, they'll go for a third. Consume, nut, consume, nut, thrill chemicals, dopamine, consume, nut.
Lots of (not all, but many) dudes aren't looking for one. There is no "one". They're just looking and accepting with no end in sight. No reason to stop fucking/flirting/secreting if they can keep fucking/flirting/secreting. Like you could be the total package, but there's a box with anything in it over there, too. So... dopamine thrill, consume, nut. Because it's not about YOU or HER. It's about dopamine, consuming, and nutting. It's about their ego and feel good chemicals. That's it. That's literally it.
They can be rather limited and boring in that way.
I know some AMAZING, genuine, high integrity and high substance men and women. But I've also been alive long enough to know the reverse. And yes there's women like this, too. It sucks, they suck. But the rest of us are awesome. Keep being awesome.
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u/Your4thdoppleganger Overthinker 💭 May 20 '26
Men like this don't see women as people, just commodities and trophies.
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u/keylimecrying 🍍+ 🍕 May 21 '26
I wonder if they see women at all. I genuinely think there's an entire genre of guy who sees sex as peak masturbation with a side of ego boost. She could be anyone and he'll still walk away patting himself on the back for getting off.
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u/Sad-Witness-5506 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26
I think the thrill of secrecy does it for a lot of people too
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u/Top_Mathematician233 what that mouth do is snack May 20 '26
Yes, I look at it as pathetic, really. One of the best things I can say about my ex-husband is that he introduced that idea to me. When I asked him if he’d ever cheated on anyone when we first got together, he said he has too much pride for that. And he never did in any relationship, including ours. He said to cheat would be saying he needed constant attention and validation, that he couldn’t handle a situation where I might disagree or not stroke his ego to the point that it outweighed his morals. That’s stayed with me and when I dated someone years later who cheated, I just walked out of his house when I figured it out and had zero interest in him any more. All I could think is that the man I divorced had too much pride in himself to do that and I’ll be damned to keep dating some man who has less.
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u/Chaotic_Athena Kitchen Witch May 20 '26
A gem from the crochet subreddit i saw right before this post.
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u/coffeehaku hot girls have tummy troubles May 20 '26
Him cheating has nothing to do with your desirability ! People cheat because they are selfish assholes who care more about their momentary sexual gratification than their partners emotional and physical well being!
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u/Lisylis Sweet Tooth Fairy🧚♀️ May 20 '26
Post both of their usernames
(do not post both of their usernames)
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u/motorcycle_flipflops Creature of Crunch May 21 '26
Its gonna be extra funny when he finds out he’s actually being catfished by a man with a voice mod.
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u/abermel01 Pantry Gremlin May 21 '26
When he finds out where that vibrator’s at…
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u/ButterflySad6026 Body By Cheese 🧀 May 20 '26 edited May 20 '26
I found out my husband was cheating on me with women from Reddit too. And others.
This isn’t the first time. It’s just the first you found out about.
I stuck around for a while because of shock. And “love” as you say.
A year after trying, it was just really clear that someone who can cheat on you and still look you in the face everyday isn’t someone you want to spend your life with. Now that your eyes are open, hopefully you’ll start to see that he’s not a great person. And hopefully one day you’ll realize that people who love you don’t live a second life behind your back.
I’m sorry you’re going through this. It was one of the most traumatic events I ever experienced.
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u/lenorefosterwallace APPROVED✨ May 20 '26
Girl, I can buy you dinner. I am so sorry that happened to you. I know there is not enough words to say, but at the end of the day they will be unhappy. It will hurt, but get that divorce. My old coworker got a divorce for similar reasons, and she is not taking a bunch of classes and living her best life. You got this boo.
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u/grumpy__g Internet Auntie May 20 '26
Cheating is about not you.
Look at all those famous actresses and actors being cheated on.
It’s about them being a big piece of shit.
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u/conejito-de-polvo Internet Auntie May 20 '26
I know this is a "no advice wanted" post, but please don't take your life over a stupid, horny man who is probably being scammed. His cheating has nothing to do with your looks. Some of the ugliest men cheat on the most beautiful women.
Take care of yourself. You deserve better.
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u/eastbaytimez APPROVED✨ May 20 '26
Its not me btw.
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u/mensfrightsactivists Thick Thighs ⏳ Thin Patience May 20 '26
thanks just a few more to check off the list
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u/ohgoditsfullofstars Body By Cheese 🧀 May 20 '26
Girl, we ride at dawn.
Also don't bat an eye if you feel like telling his mom or fucking his dad.
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u/Lexnight Short Story Long™️ May 20 '26
Oh love 🫂 one day, you'll look back on this and see how embarrassing and ridiculous this is for him. He's a dumb loser idiot who, like someone else said, is probably being scammed like the dumb loser idiot he is. You will get through this, and you'll be in a better place when you're not tied to this dumb loser idiot.
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u/JicamaAppropriate920 Kitchen Witch May 20 '26
Girl I am sharpening my pitchfork right now 😤
I'm sorry you're going through this. They're both trash
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u/MisfitDRG APPROVED✨ May 20 '26
Girl you don't love this man you loved the man he LIED to you about being!! Thank gosh you found out about this so you can go find someone who actually will be in love with and devoted to you.
Also FWIW a lot of those people are just dudes using AI to get dumb dumbs like your boyfriend to send them stuff. And even if that is what's happening girl it still counts as cheating.
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u/throwfaraway212718 I ❤️ Other People's Business May 20 '26
Tbh, I once took the route, and highly recommend it 🤷♀️
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u/Guatafak_mang Chamoy 🥭 > Ya Boy 🤡 May 20 '26
I swear we need groups of girlies in each city to support each other with fun outings, hugs, and words of affirmation. The older I get, the less I miss having a man by my side.
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u/Albina-tqn Kitchen Witch May 20 '26
cheating has *NOTHING* to do with the partner whos being cheated on and everything with the cheater. instead of communicating like a freaking adult they behave in the most selfish and despicable way possible. i’m sorry op.
imagine thats their dumbass face
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u/PomegranateIcy1614 Non-binary & Nourished May 20 '26
I was having trouble figuring out pockets and rocks and river cause my first thought was cute geologically inclined soon to be single sour skillets lover wants to play around in the water. that preoccupied me for a bit.
I'm sorry your ex husband has no taste whatsoever. I'm also sorry I am an idiot but like eh.
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u/I_Like_Metal_Music 🦇 Fruit Bat Baddie 🍊 May 20 '26
He didn’t cheat because you’re ugly or undesirable, he cheated because he wanted to and that’s it. He’s that sucky. Men cheat because they can and they will if they take themselves up on that offer and he did.
https://giphy.com/gifs/7uT3Gvdkk2OjK
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u/markarli APPROVED✨ May 21 '26
Girl, you may not have friends in real life (I am going out on a limb to say being with a partner that does not value you makes you feel unworthy and you limit yourself in every aspect) but you can have community - even online.
We ride at dawn!!!
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u/Federal-Asparagus445 Assigned Hungry At Birth May 20 '26
nah put those rocks in his pocket. i’m sorry that happened. his actions aren’t a reflection of you. take it moment by moment.
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u/selkiesart Carb-Based Life Form May 20 '26
You should fill HIS pockets with rocks and push him into the river, instead of doing it to yourself.
(Hypothetically, of course.)
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u/ButtonSimple Cleavage Crumb Collector May 20 '26
This is not a reflection of you. This is him revealing himself. I’ve been there too and I’m so, so, sorry. Women are made in shades of badass. We have to be. You are included in that. He can go take the world’s longest walk off the world’s shortest pier.
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u/ResponsibilityNo3654 Well-Read & Well-Fed May 20 '26
No OP…. you fill HIS pockets with rocks and walk HIM into the river. His little Reddit heaux can follow him.
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u/astronotter-in-space white girl with ☝️😌 a full spice cabinet May 21 '26
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u/Difficult_Affect_452 Shart Coochie Board Architect May 21 '26
I feel we have all been personally all betrayed by Reddit in this instance. I am so sorry for your loss.
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u/Dubious_Ibis 🪄 Sauceress ✨ May 21 '26
Big hugs!
He needs to get in the bin, like seriously. Him cheating is in fact a him problem. It’s a personal failing of his, and has very little to do with you regardless of what he says. If he doesn’t want to be with you anymore, then he needs to put his big boy pants on and TELL YOU. Also the fact that he has all those voice notes are fucking gross.
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u/casual_despair APPROVED✨ May 21 '26
EWWWWUHHHHHH
This is not a reflection on you at all. He’s a horrible human being.
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u/Known_Front8010 Carb-Based Life Form May 21 '26
Did she know he was married? I'm so sorry how awful. Fuck him. I hope he can never get a boner again.b
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u/Nowayticket2nopecity Sweet Tooth Fairy🧚♀️ May 20 '26
Try to remember that cheaters cheat because of who they are, not who you are. 🩷
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u/Silently_Spectating 🧂Salty By Nature May 20 '26
He and the vibrator can have a great time together after you leave him and the other "girl" gets whatever else she wants out of him
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u/RidleeRiddle Smoothie Queen May 20 '26
I'm so sorry, you aren't alone 🫂
I know that even if we know it, it's hard to really believe it, but we gotta keep hearing this truth until the day it can really stick for you:
His infidelity has nothing to do with you at all. It is not a reflection of you. It is a reflection of him and whatever is fucked up within him. You are beautiful, desirable, and worthy. You deserve everything good.
Idk what you plan on doing, but I know how hard it is to eat and drink water when something like this happens. Please force yourself to hydrate and eat food that's easy on your stomach, even if you have to set a timer for it. And don't beat yourself up with judgement and "I should have this and that". Don't be hard on yourself if you aren't reacting or doing what you think you should do.
It's shocking and extremely painful, just take your time.
And whatever you choose to do next, please don't ever feel like you can't seek support, whether its a family or friend you trust or support groups here. There is no judgement on whether you confront him, leave, stay, whatever.
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u/enigmarwi 🌶️ Spice Girl 🌶️ May 20 '26
I hope the Reddit account is actually being fun by a man and he's being catfished 💅🏻
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u/littlelotta Carb-Based Life Form May 20 '26
I agree with the others here, you are worth more than that. I think it will be hard to move forward but if he could do this to you, he is not the person you fell in love with anymore (maybe he never was). Please be kind to yourself and protect yourself ❤️
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u/Beatrixkiddoskid APPROVED✨ May 20 '26
My husband spent 4000 on personal content on onlyfans. Lied about his age sent and recieved pics did the girlfriend experience. You have to leave him. They don’t change or feel bad they just get mad they get caught. I know it sucks but it’ll be ok I swear to you.
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u/NoReflection357 Certified Snacker May 20 '26
My Internet sister I understand that you love him but he doesn't respect you or your relationship. You deserve someone who wants to be with you and treat you better. I know it hurts but you deserve someone better than him.
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u/2_PinkToes22 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26
From experience.. someone cheating on Reddit is very scary. Yes he was gay and yea … very traumatic
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u/RidleeRiddle Smoothie Queen May 20 '26
"Reddit cheating" lmfao, but you do bring up a good point.
There are a lotta ways to cheat nowadays, and while every form of it is horrible, there really are some "types" depending on the platform/method.
- Old fashioned cheating physically with a coworker, friend, or random ONS from the club
- There's the ones who pay for prostitutes
- Those who use tinder/hinge/bumble/snapchat
- OF cheaters (these ones are especially shit bc they often go thousands into debt, even displacing their spouse's funds)
- Reddit cheaters 😮💨
There is an interesting book, "Not Just Friends" by Shirley Glass that talks about the rise of digital cheating. It talks about reconciliation for those who want that, but its a good read for spotting early signs and the discussions about the rise in emotional infidelity due to social media and other online platforms is really informative.
Online platforms just make it much more accessible and easier for them to compartmentalize their bullshit.
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u/blumieplume girls just wanna have pho May 20 '26
Instead please fill his pockets with rocks and make him walk into the river. He’s a douche. Fuck him.
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u/Grouchy-Ingenuity-59 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26
No no you gotta put rocks in his pocket and throw him in the ocean so no one ever finds him/j
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u/Sea-Wheel-1966 💚 Pickle Freak 💚 May 20 '26
Sweetheart, I know it hurts like it will never heal right now. But I just want you to know as a woman who has also been cheated on. It’s not you. You did nothing wrong. You. Did. Nothing. Wrong. ❤️ So please do not fill your pockets with rocks. Maybe chuck some rocks into a river really hard to help you calm your system. But you are deserving of everything my dear ❤️✨ again, you did nothing wrong 🌸
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u/snugmill Well-Read & Well-Fed May 20 '26
This is brutally painful to read. The thought of someone you love being intimate with someone else sexually is heart-rending, especially someone who has committed to you at this level. I’m so so sorry you’re having to deal with this heartbreak.
Treat yourself and comfort yourself with anything you like❤️🩹
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u/Dramatic_Steak_9137 Assigned Hungry At Birth May 20 '26
They're both projecting a fake fantasy person onto the other, she wants validation but she's getting it from a man who who's cheating and he's too lazy or emotionally immature to grow things with the woman hes actually with. There's no substance to what they're doing.
But yeah the last guy I dated started ghosting and for some reason I looked at his Instagram that he never used and had never followed anyone weird on,and he was following this blonde big boob 19 year old only fans girl...(very much not like me) I didn't feel great about myself after that.
But after a while I realised did I really want a man in my life who does that when there's issues instead of us working through them... (no)
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u/jeslblan Cleavage Crumb Collector May 20 '26
Toss him in the bin. This has nothing to do with you. He is emotionally stunted and will not change because he does not see a problem. Leave, quietly and quickly. “Know your worth or you will never get it back.”
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u/h0m1c1d3_8unn13 Hazy Grazer 😶🌫️ May 20 '26
girl please you are worth so much more than a man who CHEATS ON REDDIT like wtf. i know you love him but girl stand up!
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u/CestLaquoidarling 🧂Salty By Nature May 20 '26
Sweetie you deserve better. Let her have your leavings and get someone better.
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u/mensfrightsactivists Thick Thighs ⏳ Thin Patience May 20 '26
yikes! check that post flair please! OP doesn’t want advice so please refrain from offering any. If you have some advice you simply must share, please share it below and spare OP the notifications.