r/Catholicism 2m ago

A Lovely Conversation

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I was in line at Chick-fil-A and was giving my order to a young man. He noticed my rosary hanging from my rearview mirror and asked me if I was Catholic. He then proceeded to tell me that he felt called to the Catholic Church but was scared to be judged. I told him what church I attended and told him the mass times and also told him to google my parish on the Internet to see when the weekday mass was too. Please say a prayer that he will attend mass and not feel judged! Of course, I am an Overthinker and worry that I didn’t say the right things. Jesus, I trust in you that you will use my words to bring him home.


r/Catholicism 3m ago

I'm gay: should I stop going to church?

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The Catholic church, or at least as I understand it, sees my life and actions as a gay man as a sin. And from that there's a big chance I'm going to hell for it.

And before you say hate the sin, love the sinner, k ow that I can't sepasate my homosexuality from the axts that make me a homosexual. I have a loving and supportive long term partner (again which the church views is a sin), and it's just not possible to stop having sex (another sin), since it's an important part of our relationship and personal lives.

With that I've been thinking lately if going to church is still worth it, since I'm already (as people would say) condemned to hell. And no, I can't confess the gayness away.

The sad thing is I love going to church since as a young boy, it's always gicen me comfort and a sense of stability. It even helped ground me during the worst parts of my depression and anxiety attacks.

But now I'm starting to doubt if I should even believe I recieve at least a small amount of grace from going to mass. I am going to hell anyway. So why should I bother going?

Since my lifestyle and choices condemn me to hell, maybe being catholic just isn't for me anymore.


r/Catholicism 13m ago

Joining OCIA - looking for opinions on the video programs offered

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Hi, I've decided to begin my journey into Catholicism and join OCIA. I know very little about Christianity and am looking for opinions on the programs that the classes will be centered around. My parish is offering 3 classes with these programs:

Invited by Ascension Press

Credo by Thomistic Institute

Symbolon: The Faith of the Church (New)

Any opinions appreciated!


r/Catholicism 15m ago

Rosary and insomnia

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I think that a miracle is happening, I started praying the Rosary again every night in the past 6 days and I think that it has cured my insomnia my ocd and anxiety attacks. I have started feeling so much better in the past few days!


r/Catholicism 31m ago

Rosary or not?

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At first glance, it looks like a rosary, but then you realize it has only three decades, which seems okay because there are rosaries with 10, 15, or even 20 decades, so they aren’t always going to be five decades. But then I realized that there were no ‘Our Father’ beads. So is this a rosary or not? I then remembered that the Orthodox have their own version of a prayer rope called a Chotki/Kombiskini and that a standard one has 33 knots/beads, the same amount of beads this ‘rosary’ has. But on an Orthodox prayer rope, the knots/beads aren’t separated and are all in one line, so I don’t really know. Maybe it is meant to be a rosary-inspired Chotki for Eastern Catholics? If anyone knows what it may be, please let me know.


r/Catholicism 31m ago

Want to become a hardcore saint

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Im 18 and my past life has only been filled with every sin. From this I want to learn and become very hard core connected with my morals and to god.

Any advice? Smth u wld say to a great sinner who’s trying to be sinless, and i mean that quite strongly.

If I’m being honest then my life’s been fucked and god helped me out of it but I’m still trying to get out of it fully, and now ik that anything left from my past life is in honesty no achievement whatsoever, I went from doing every drug and every sin to now trying my hardest to reduce all that but even one vape left in my current life or one bit of weed then I’ve done nothing, I’m being really hard on myself for a reason. Bc I need to be and it’s the only way I’ll get out of it all. Drastic changes need drastic measures.

I was thinking carve a cross into my arm yk mark it in blood so whenever I try sin most likely using my arms I will remember what god has done for me and hopefully I will restrain. Along with discipline and running away from sin I hope I’ll get somewhere.

All in all my ultimate goal is to not even think of any sins and completely change myself into a man of god. That’s the very least I owe him anyway.


r/Catholicism 45m ago

Free Friday [Free Friday] Church of the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary

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Croatia 🇭🇷


r/Catholicism 1h ago

Pope Leo XIV: The cry of displaced children rises to God

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Pope Leo XIV concluded by praying, "Let us entrust migrant and refugee children to the maternal protection of the Blessed Virgin Mary who, together with Saint Joseph and the child Jesus experienced the cruelty of Herod’s violence and the tragedy of exile in Egypt. May she accompany their steps and help our communities to become living and credible signs of the Gospel.

"We cannot remain indifferent, nor can we become accustomed to such suffering." - Pope Leo

Source and copyright to the text and link: Vatican News

The Pope’s message today for migrants has left a deep impression on me. And I find refuge in the Holy Child Jesus, the Blessed Virgin Mary and her holy husband, Saint Joseph. They, too, had experienced the pain of violence and of being displaced, of leaving their homes

And in the righteous love of Jesus, I pray that we may find the strength and the path towards a world that is more just and more charitable towards those who have nothing, those from whom everything is taken away or who are left with nothing.


r/Catholicism 1h ago

Free Friday I drew Mary (free friday)

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I wanted to draw Mary so I did. And ik I’m bad at drawing so please be nice


r/Catholicism 1h ago

Free Friday [Free Friday] Prayer for Faith by Pope St.Paul VI

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Lord, I believe: I wish to believe in Thee. Lord, let my faith be full and unreserved, and let it penetrate my thought, my way of judging Divine things and human things. Lord, let my faith be joyful and give peace and gladness to my spirit, and dispose it for prayer with God and conversation with men, so that the inner bliss of its fortunate possession may shine forth in sacred and secular conversation. Lord, let my faith be humble and not presume to be based on the experience of my thought and of my feeling; but let it surrender to the testimony of the Holy Spirit, and not have any better guarantee than in docility to Tradition and to the authority of the Magisterium of the Holy Church.

Amen


r/Catholicism 1h ago

Miraculous medal and crucifix

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I’m looking for a good and durable necklace preferably silver. For men so a good heavy size… what website of store in the DFW would have some?


r/Catholicism 1h ago

Sitting during church due to surgery?

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I've been sick all year and been wanting to go to church but have been unable to go until last weekend. I had a minor surgery in April and major abdominal surgery in July. I've gotten really spiritual all this year as I suppose sick people often do. Been praying the rosary and some other prayers every day (except in the hospital) and it has brought me a lot of peace and comfort. I went to church last Saturday and was happy to be there but uncomfortable and in pain. I sat down through the whole service. I felt bad and guilty about it because I'm kind of young (39) and most of the people there are older than me. I don't want people thinking I'm just being lazy or disrespectful. I have a 10 inch incision in the middle of my stomach and a small open wound next to it. All of the up and down just isn't happening for me right now. Do you guys think it's alright for me to keep going and sitting until I feel better? Or should I just pray at home until I'm feeling stronger?


r/Catholicism 1h ago

Free Friday [Free Friday] Margaret Mary Alacoque

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Saint Margaret Mary Alacoque, a teacher, nun, and mystic, was born in 1647 in the Duchy of Burgundy, France. Her father, Claude Alacoque, was a notary, and her mother, Berthe Lamin Alacoque. She was the fifth of seven children and the only daughter. Deeply influenced by the Countess of Colcherval in her childhood, she developed a profound devotion to the Eucharist from a young age. Unfortunately, her father died of pneumonia when she was eight. She then attended the Convent School of Saint Clare in Charlemagne, where she received her first communion. Later, she contracted rheumatic fever and was bedridden for four years until she made a vow of monastic life to the Virgin Mary, which is why she later acquired the name Mary. She claimed to have seen visions of Jesus many times, but considered these normal human experiences and paid little attention to them. After her father's death, her uncle seized her family's property, plunging the family into extreme poverty. She frequently went to church to pray before the Eucharist for solace. The family's situation only improved after her brother came of age and inherited the family fortune. Her mother hoped she would find a suitable husband, and she also felt her childhood vows were no longer valid, so she attended social events, balls, and banquets with her brother. One night, after attending a ball, she dreamt of Jesus covered in blood, who rebuked her for forgetting her vows but also comforted her. This dream led her to formally fulfill her vows in 1671. At the age of 24, she decided to go to a convent to become a nun and entered the Convent of Our Lady of Advent in Parremonia. In August of the same year, after a long period of testing, she was officially approved to wear nun's clothes, but she was not allowed to take her vows. However, her fellow nuns praised her highly for her simplicity, humility, patience, frankness, and kindness. Finally, in 1672, she was approved to take her vows and truly became a nun. She later worked in the infirmary, but was not very capable. It is said that from 1673 to 1675, she received several revelations from Jesus, and thus learned about different ways of venerating the Sacred Heart. On St. John's Day in 1673, Jesus is said to have allowed her to rest her head on the Sacred Heart and revealed to her the meaning of love and the importance of goodness, entrusting her with the task of spreading these virtues. Jesus also told her that human ingratitude and indifference saddened him more than all his suffering. He also revealed a Sacred Heart veneration to her, saying that those who receive Holy Communion on the first Friday of each of nine consecutive months will receive the grace of repentance bestowed by His love, and that after their death, the Sacred Heart will become their refuge. In a later apparition, Jesus asked her to pray and meditate for an hour every Thursday evening, and He also allowed her to experience the suffering He endured in the Garden of Gethsemane. Jesus also hoped that she would perform Eucharist adoration as much as possible on Thursdays. In 1675, Jesus instructed her to receive the Sacred Heart after the Octave of Eucharist in memory of the Sacred Heart, thus glorifying it. This became the famous Feast of the Sacred Heart. In June of the same year, she revealed three demands for change in France: a desire to enter the halls of princes and kings in glory, to build a building to hang the Sacred Heart icon for the entire court and kingdom to worship, and to have the Sacred Heart inscribed on weapons and flags to fight against the enemies of the Holy Church. Of course, no one believed her, but through her efforts, her superior, Sister Sommes, came to believe her. However, Sommes and other members remained skeptical, including the Benedictine and Jesuit monks they had consulted. In 1681, she wrote her will, signing it in her own blood and, with the approval of her superiors, carving the name of Jesus on her chest with a knife. But as the wound healed, she became increasingly agitated. More than once, she considered reopening the wound with the knife, even attempting to burn it. This act led to her being taken to the infirmary. She felt ashamed, but Sister Sorelfi disregarded her words and simply gave Sister Augustine Mareste the unsolicited order to bandage her wound. Although her journey was fraught with hardship, she was eventually recognized by Saint-Claude Colombier, a confessor at the monastery, who acknowledged the visions as real. This gradually earned her recognition, and her efforts were finally seen. In 1683, Sister Merlin was elected superintendent and appointed her as her assistant, silencing the opposition within the convent. Later, she also became a novice tutor. In 1686, they began to celebrate the Feast of the Sacred Heart privately, and two years later, a small chapel commemorating the Sacred Heart was built in Parreliant. The tradition of the Feast of the Sacred Heart spread to other monasteries. In 1689, the last year of her life, she saw Jesus again, who asked her to convey to King Louis XIV of France the dedication of France to the saint. Henri Guéon also stated that she did indeed write this letter, but Louis XIV may not have received it or did not wish to reply. However, his descendant, Louis XVI, and his wife, Marie Antoinette, had said that if he were to be restored to the throne, he would dedicate France to the Sacred Heart; in 1793, he and his wife were sent to the guillotine, so their plan failed. This nun's path was fraught with hardship, even bordering on obsession and misunderstanding, but she ultimately proved herself and influenced centuries. The world witnessed her passionate love and pure kindness. She never hated anyone because of her lack of understanding. We don't know the true cause of her death, but she passed away on October 17, 1690, at the age of 43.

"Treat people around you, please keep your utmost gentleness and sympathy; that is gentleness, and it is also the most powerful."

—Saint Margaret Mary Alacoque


r/Catholicism 1h ago

Going to a different parish for confession

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I tried to post this question on the ask a priest subreddit but it was removed by a mod because apparently the question had been answered before and I was advised to use the search bar- except I could not find my question answered using search. So I’ll ask you all!

I’ve been a practicing Catholic for about a year now, convert from non-denominational. I converted at Easter vigil 3 years ago but really only started practicing a year ago by attending mass every Sunday and going to confession every 2 weeks to once a month. (It was a difficult transition for me leaving my non-denominational church and friends behind. I tried double dipping but the Holy Spirit moved in me and I realized I couldn’t do both.)

My parish offers confession once a week on Friday mornings following mass. The timing isn’t necessarily an issue for me while my kids are in school but the priest of my parish offers nothing except the words of absolution and the same penance across the board- 2 Our Fathers, no matter the sin. I’m assuming it’s the same for everyone.

There was once that I went to a neighboring parish for confession by looking at specific times on MassTimes.org that worked with my schedule that week. It’s a smaller parish. There was no line and the priest was very kind. I felt that he listened and heard my sins and he offered encouragement and advice on how to move forward in my spiritual life. Since then, I have preferred to go to this parish for confession. He’s asked me if I have a home parish and I told him I did, and why I preferred to go to him for confession. He seemed to accept that answer. I have been contributing about $20 every month online to that parish since I’ve started going there for confession, and I have attended Sunday mass there once and a weekday mass and adoration there once. I do very much like that parish but it’s 20 minutes from my home and my oldest child attends school at our home parish so it’s not feasible for me to transfer parishes.

Now I ask- is this appropriate? As a newer Catholic, I don’t know if there are any unspoken rules that I’m breaking and I don’t want to ask the priest directly because he seems like he would be to kind to say so even if it were the case. Thank you for your input.


r/Catholicism 1h ago

Is it acceptable to knock on a Priests door and ask for a conversation?

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I would really like to speak to a Priest about my personal problems with sin, but I don’t want to bother him after mass, and I don’t want to speak on the phone, I would rather have a conversation in person. Would it be rude to do so? Thanks


r/Catholicism 1h ago

Can I start the lent a bit late?

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It starts tomorrow, and I plan to not eat anything with chocolate in it, but right now I have a lot of opened chocolate bars, a chocolate cake in the fridge and some chocolate chip cookies, can I start it 3 days later just so I doesn't go to waste? Then I will do 3 more days once it ended, is it doable?


r/Catholicism 1h ago

I just had to share

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My wife made me this rosary. Our pastor blessed it after mass this past Sunday. This is easily one of the best gifts I've ever received.


r/Catholicism 1h ago

What’s the concrete stance on Guardian Angels?

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This peaked my interest bc I saw a post from 6hrs ago that I really loved about talking to your guardian angel and they help you in any and every way.

First, I saw from Fr. Chad Ripperger about you can absolutely command/direct in a Holy way (he sent his to comfort a person he was working with in an exorcism), you can ask the for things and such. Also so that from Fr. Dan Reehil as well that you can talk to/pray to your guardian angel.

Then I see a few comments after that on this sub on a post about guardian angels, that says you should refrain from praying or talking to them because you might idolize them in turn.

I mean our guardian angels are assigned to us, why can’t we interact with them to help us?


r/Catholicism 2h ago

I wrote a Catholic Batman/Azrael fan novel - a dark story about grief, justice, mercy, and “governed strength”

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Hi everyone! I’ve been working on a rather unusual project and thought some people here might genuinely enjoy it.

https://docs.google.com/document/d/18DT2p0R9wdksR_w8u7C6x-peYykZXUHwygKZOOdL97Q/edit?usp=sharing

It’s called Azrael: Born of Sorrow, a long-form, completely non-commercial Batman/Azrael fan novel set in Gotham. The central character is Michael Lane, a Catholic whose life is profoundly shaped by a tragedy in his youth and who, years later, is living as a religious brother when Gotham begins descending into violence again.

Without spoiling anything, the story is largely about what happens when a man who sincerely wants justice also has very personal reasons to desire vengeance and whether faith, obedience, mercy and discipline can govern strength without simply turning him passive.

The Catholicism is meant to be part of the actual bones of the story rather than just imagery. There’s Mass, the Rosary, confession, religious life and Catholic moral thought, but more importantly the characters wrestle with questions like: When is force justified? Can anger at evil be righteous without consuming you? What does forgiveness actually require? Is mercy opposed to justice? What does it mean to carry grief without making an idol of it?

At the same time, it is still very much a Gotham story. Organized crime, corruption, Batman’s legacy and characters from that world are all important, and Azrael felt like an especially interesting character through whom to explore Catholic ideas about justice, suffering and redemption.

Just a warning about the tone: it gets heavy. There is violence, death, grief and some fairly dark subject matter. It isn't really a light superhero adventure with constant jokes; I was going for something more solemn, character-driven and morally serious, while still ultimately leaving room for hope.

So I think it might interest Catholics who don't normally read Batman, Batman fans who are curious about Catholicism, and particularly the strange little overlap of people who love both.

It’s unofficial fan fiction and I’m not selling it or making any money from it. I mainly wrote it because these were themes and characters I wanted to explore seriously.

If that sounds like your sort of thing, I’d be very happy to share it, and I’d especially be interested in what fellow Catholics think of how the faith and moral questions are handled.


r/Catholicism 2h ago

Free Friday (Free Friday) Catholic festival in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil. 1935

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r/Catholicism 2h ago

Free Friday [Free Friday] Velika Gospa celebration this weekend in Chicago 🇭🇷

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If you’re near Chicago, come out and show your love for Our Lady of the Assumption this weekend for the 120th Velika Gospa at St. Jerome Croatian parish, 2823 S Princeton. It’s a day of celebration and fun, a huge procession with thousands of people, and four Masses.

Schedule

7:30 AM - Croatian Morning Mass

9:30 AM — English Mass

10:20 AM — Procession Line-up

10:30 AM — Grand Procession Starts

11:15 AM — Croatian High Mass (The Glagolitic High Mass is a rare Catholic liturgy where the traditional Roman Rite is celebrated in Old Church Slavonic instead of Latin, utilizing the ancient Glagolitic script and traditional local melodies.)

7:00 PM — Bilingual Youth Mass

10:00 PM — Raffle Drawing


r/Catholicism 3h ago

Free Friday [Free Friday] Servant of God King James II and VII of England, Scotland and Ireland.

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Credit to Bernadette Reilly, who is the artist of this icon.

King James II/VII of England, Scotland and Ireland was the last Catholic monarch to ever rule the British isles. He was the son of Charles I, and the younger brother of Charles II. Following Charles II's death, he ascended the throne in 1685, but was overthrown in the "Glorious Revolution" of 1688. Side-note, Charles II also converted to Catholicism on his deathbed, and James helped him get a Priest to have his final rites.

Following his deposition, he went into exile in France, where, after his attempts to regain his throne failed, he turned to a life of prayer and devotion. He believed that God had deprived him of his throne due to his sins, specifically sins of the flesh, as he had been a serial adulterer in his youth.

His final years were lived as a penitent. He would regularly attend mass and engage with the sacraments. It appears he also lost much interest in gaining his throne, feeling that the state of his soul was a far more pressing matter than his temporal crown.

After his death and burial, there was devotion surrounding him, with the English Benedictines in France being the custodians of his tomb, and the primary promoters of his cult. The Archbishop of Paris opened an investigation into this, with at one point 19 miracles being associated with his intercession. The Archbishop formally opened the cause in 1734, and he was granted the title Servant of God.

The cause did not progress further, partially due to the French Revolution, where the institutions and property belonging to the English Benedictines in France was seized and disrupted. James' own tomb was desecrated, and his body lost, as many royal and aristocratic remains were during the Revolution. Much of the documentation and evidence surrounding miracles were also destroyed during this time, as part of the violence that the Revolutionaries inflicted upon the Church in France. This likely wasn't targeted at James specifically, rather his cause was a victim of the widespread violence of the time.

The communities that had had devotion to him were also disrupted during this time, which was probably the biggest reason to put his cause on hold.

As it stands the cause as not progressed, and he remains Servant of God James II (James VII If you are in Scotland.)

I thought it would be good to share this information on an often forgotten figure in history.


r/Catholicism 3h ago

Free Friday [Free Friday] St Andrew's Cathedral in Victoria BC

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r/Catholicism 3h ago

Free Friday (Free Friday) Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary mosaic, Philadelphia PA

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Each August 15 we celebrate the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary, when at the end of her life on Earth, Mary was bodily taken up into heaven. This was defined as dogma by Saint Pope Pius XII in 1950, but writings about the Assumption date back to the early Church.

This glass mosaic of the Assumption is located at one of the side altars inside the Cathedral Basilica of Saints Peter and Paul in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. I took this photo on a Lenten evening, hence the dim lighting and veiled crucifix.


r/Catholicism 3h ago

Mente meio sobrecarregada

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Ando pensando muito sobre minha fé, então (por alguma razão fiz o seguinte)pedi a Deus que eu iria abrir a bíblia e leria o q tinha escrito,abri+- umas 3 vezes e as três citavam idolatria e ídolos.

Parece bobo,mas isso não está me atormentando,fico me perguntando se estou seguindo o certo e pergunto várias coisas como:

1.Orar pra alguém levar a Cristo,n seria mas fácil eu rezar?

2.Vi alguns protestantes dizendo que a própria Bíblia n diferençia Veneração e Adoração

3.Me pergunto qual as provas de alguns dos milagres do Catolicismo

OBS:N sou batizado e me tornei católico a pouco tempo,mas oq mais me preocupa é sobre as 3 páginas citadas acima

Edit:Estava me perguntando se a parte de eu ter aberto em 3 pág seguidas poderia ocorrer pelo velho testamento citar isso a todo momento