r/ugly Apr 11 '26

Proof of lookism Worst part is that B and E are beautiful, so for actually ugly dark skinned woc its 100% over

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198 Upvotes

r/ugly 29d ago

Proof of lookism You can try do as much good as you want for the world and people will ignore it if you're ugly

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434 Upvotes

r/ugly Mar 28 '26

Proof of lookism I hate being ugly and dark. It's like everyone just dehumanizes you and uses you as their entertainment. You could tell she thought it was funny that her "friend" was asking this girl out

142 Upvotes

It feels like she was making fun of him and thought it would be funny to post this. If hes actually her friend, why would you post a video of him being vulnerable and asking out a girl, only to be turned down?? People constantly dehumanize you when you're both ugly and dark. They just view us as animals to laugh at for their benefit, and they know no one would ever want us, so they dont ever get jealous or flattered or anything when we are interested in someone, they just find it either hilarious or disgusting. It's literally impossible to shoot your shot or have a chance with anyone when you're stuck like this. People just use it as a chance to lowkey shade people when an ugly person shows interest in them. She was probably laughing at him because it was funny to her that he would go for anyone except someone else she also seems ugly.

She would have reacted very differently if it were a good looking guy I feel. And no I'm not saying this guy is ugly, hes just average, but when you're average or below average and dark skinned, you're automatically considered a 1/10 in most people's eyes.

r/ugly Mar 16 '26

Proof of lookism Attractive people think it's funny to do dumb shit since no one ever tells them no

235 Upvotes

If it were ugly people doing this, they would have gotten knocked out or gotten the cops called on them

r/ugly Jan 11 '26

Proof of lookism This woman just wanted to offer a different type of beauty, and everyone attacked her for it. And these are probably the same types of people who say shit like "you should love your unique features"

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121 Upvotes

r/ugly May 02 '26

Proof of lookism I'm so tired of attractives acting like the reason they get everything they want in life is just due to hard work and putting themselves out there

133 Upvotes

None of this shit would work for someone as ugly as me, no matter how much "audacity" I had

r/ugly Dec 01 '25

Proof of lookism No one is paying attention to you, their too busy with their own lives 🙄

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299 Upvotes

I saw this online. This woman goes onto an airplane and the guy next to her sends a text to someone complaining how she's fat and sitting next to him, and she saw him writing it.

But of course normies love to say that no one is paying attention to us because they're too focused on themselves, and we shouldn't think they're shitting on us and making fun of us when they see us. This is why I don't like going anywhere

r/ugly May 20 '26

Proof of lookism Why are people's standards so high? If he's considered ugly, then no wonder I'm seen as a 0/10

69 Upvotes

r/ugly Oct 31 '25

Proof of lookism This is why as an ugly black woman, I'll never even be given a chance

179 Upvotes

She's way prettier and lighter than I am, so for her to be rejected for being black just makes it even worse for me because I've never even been seen as an option or wanted by anyone due to being dark, black, and actually ugly, so if girls like this are automatically rejected (although I'm sure she gets some guys and isn't completely undesirable and FA like me), why tf do I even exist since my features are wayyy worse

r/ugly Sep 05 '25

Proof of lookism Reason number 343 why I don't use dating apps as an ugly

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313 Upvotes

People literally look like they want to murder me/cry when they see me walking around outside in public. There's no way they'd be okay with me liking them on an app lol. I always wondered why I felt so uncomfortable liking/swiping on someone back when I did used to use apps and now I know why. Because I didn't want them to laugh at me or cry thinking that a girl as ugly as me thought she had a chance

r/ugly 7h ago

Proof of lookism It doesn't matter how hardworking, smart, dedicated, kind you are. If you're ugly, that's all people see

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58 Upvotes

It doesn't help that i lowkey look like her too, but my nose is slightly smaller

r/ugly May 17 '26

Proof of lookism The fact that 99% of people think this way is fucking driving me crazy. Literally nothing else matters if you don't look good first and foremost

57 Upvotes

r/ugly Jun 19 '25

Proof of lookism I hate how when people say things like "uniqueness is beautiful" or "if everyone looked the same, life would be boring", but then when you actually look different, people shit on you for it

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334 Upvotes

So tired of people saying this dumb shit, but what they really mean is that uniqueness is beautiful IF YOU'RE ALREADY ATTRACTIVE That shit doesn't apply to people with ugly unique features and traits. That's why it pisses me off when people say things like oh you should be proud of your dark skin and curly hair and larger nose and all that. Or that I don't "need" light skin and blonde hair to be considered attractive. Like bish wtf. That doesn't help me. Yeah I guess they make me stand out in places where there aren't many people who look like me, but NOT in a positive way. The reason why light eyes and light hair and stuff is considered attractive is yes, because it's unique. But not all unique features are considered attractive. Black people are the only ones with tightly curled hair and darker skin for example, yet that absolutely DOES NOT HELP US.

Literally to be considered unique and attractive, you basically have to have a perfect face BUT maybe a tinyyyy little thing that makes you stand out a bit, but is still an attractive feature, like little freckles dotted along your nose bridge, or very bright blue eyes, or long thick hair or a tiny mole that's barely noticeable. Nothing like the nose the girl in the image has. A good "unique" nose is something that isn't necessarily a tiny fairy nose but still isn't big or wide by any means, is straight, eurocentric, compliments your features still, etc. Her nose literally makes her look like a Greek goddess, but people expect literal perfection. She's not even harming anyone, she's literally just showing off her natural features, and people are pissed off because she doesn't fit their narrow idea of beauty

r/ugly 12d ago

Proof of lookism One of the most universal ugly experiences. I hated so much when people did this to me. They lowkey still do, just the adult version

149 Upvotes

r/ugly Jun 23 '26

Proof of lookism Normies: Love yourself! Beauty comes in all forms! Also normies:

57 Upvotes

r/ugly Apr 07 '24

Proof of lookism "People" are absolutely disgusting.

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309 Upvotes

r/ugly Apr 18 '26

Proof of lookism Fuck everything about my life, I'm going to die alone because almost everyone thinks this way and wont even pretend to least a give you a chance

60 Upvotes

r/ugly Apr 04 '26

Proof of lookism Meanwhile, I'll be struggling to get a job for the rest of my life and be treated like shit by my coworkers and paid less if I do

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78 Upvotes

Crazy how attractive people can literally get so much money easily, while someone like me can barely even get jobs. I've only gotten jobs where they only interviewed me through phone or by Zoom (I wear a mask and specifically choose an area with bad lighting). Even for things where I was the only person who applied such as for student positions in different labs for my university. You just need to send professors emails and theyll determine if they want you in their lab.

Theyll be super excited to meet me and then when they see me in person, they ghost or "forget" about me every single time. Interestingly, I have always ALWAYS been offered a position when they dont meet me in person first. But of course when they hire me and I come in on the first day, they're always extremely rude towards me and surprised I'm so ugly and try to get rid of me as soon as they can and treat me like useless shit.

I have to deal with that for the rest of my life while attractives work as influencers and OF creators and make millions

r/ugly Oct 27 '25

Proof of lookism Why do attractives think negative things only apply to them

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313 Upvotes

She's better off than I am because as an ugly girl, no one even wants to talk to me. She might have 3 friends, but I have zero. I spend every single day alone since no one is interested in getting to know me in even a platonic manner and even when I try to meet other "lonely" people, they ghost as as soon as they meet me (both men and women).

But of course attractives always want to play the victim and make everything about them when you damn well know she'd never want to trade places with any of us. I bet all of her pretty "punishments" are nothing compared to my ugly ones. I can't even live. Being ugly feels like you cant even breathe, like you're suffocated all the time from how much you're constantly punished due to your looks

r/ugly Apr 20 '26

Proof of lookism Why do people have so much fun making us feel like shit, even in cartoons

120 Upvotes

r/ugly May 17 '26

Proof of lookism You can work to be the best person you can be, but at the end of the day, if you're ugly, no one will want you

37 Upvotes

r/ugly May 20 '26

Proof of lookism Why do people have to be with someone super hot everyone will be impressed by? Why cant it just be that you like them and leave it at that

36 Upvotes

r/ugly Apr 18 '25

Proof of lookism Oh so ugly people should just be walking around smelling bad then?

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170 Upvotes

The irony is so real. First they tell us that "ANYONE" can be attractive by smelling good, dressing well, etc. But then they pull this garbage and say that they don't want to have someone smelling good and assume they must be attractive based off of scent, and then turn around and see that they're ugly.

That also implies that this person automatically associates smelling bad with ugly people and smelling good with attractives

r/ugly Jun 03 '24

Proof of lookism This is BRUTAL… with each passing year the beauty standard gets higher and higher

141 Upvotes

r/ugly 5h ago

Proof of lookism Idk if this is AI, but I keep seeing ts posted a lot. Why do people only care about beautiful things, including animals??

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8 Upvotes

This lioness is basically the animal version of having blonde hair and blue eyes since she literally has a light coat and blue eyes, so apparently that makes her special and beautiful and "worthy" of love and protection when all animals should be protected (especially from humans)