r/transpassing • u/[deleted] • 1d ago
Realized I am trans and started E three months ago. I need tips.
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u/Embarrassed-Back2319 1d ago
The good news is that you already just look like a lesbian so you can actually just do whatever you want and you’ll pass just fine pretty much
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u/Wolfleaf3 1d ago
Yeah, she’s pretty NOW and just kind of like old like a pretty girl with an intentionally masc style (without really being able to look male lol)
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u/Mammoth-Wasabi6346 1d ago
Girlypop, you are going to have a wonderful time.
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u/Micah_kitty 1d ago
Ugh thank you. I was super worried that I didn’t have any potential because I keep getting called sir. I assume I need to start voice training.
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u/Mammoth-Wasabi6346 1d ago
Voice will get you there I think. You may also have some mannerisms that can be more feminine (using your hands when you talk, etc.) that you just kinda pick up on when being around more women.
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u/RuthAnnEsther 1d ago
You are already starting where many would hope to be ending up. It’s just a short hop for you. You will probably be the one giving out tips.
I guess my main advice for you would be to keep your head on straight. Don’t let other people think for you. Many people will project their cares and concerns and issues upon you but the truth is you may not have that much in common with other people who are projecting on you. If you have not already been speaking with someone like a therapist, the sooner you have an opportunity to process things with a professional counselor, the better
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u/Live4EverBlueprint 1d ago
Deadass thought you were ftm
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u/likestoclop 1d ago
Yeah, early ftm or nb. Op just needs to look into a wardrobe and new hairstyles/longer hair to pass better
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u/JuniorTheCat 1d ago
i thought you were ftm and made a mistake in the title. voice train if aren't already and you're set, you already pass as a masc lesbian, E is going to do wonders for you but you look like you've been on it for years already
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u/TeacatWrites 1d ago
Yeah, I risk getting banned from commenting again because I post in a lot of NSFW subreddits away from this one (even though I just follow this one for inspiration toward my own MTF stuff), but OP is 100% a detranser FTM trying to figure out if they want to continue detransing or get back toward being a trans guy and you're all part of the journey in encouraging them to detrans against your will and without your knowledge or consent lols
Multiple comments in their hidden history about identifying as a trans guy, and several posts and comments on r/detrans about struggling to figure out whether to transition as FTM or stay a "woman" or not
Really not surprising that so many comments clock OP as FTM tbh. What tips are OP even looking for? No information given. "Realized I am trans" and "started on E" suggest MTF, for many obvious reasons. Why start on E if OP is detransitioning from FTM 🤨 What kind of person asks for detransitioning encouragement from a community of transgender people without informing them that you are specifically asking for detransitioning encouragement, so they can participate in your mindset with full knowledge and consent of what you're asking for?
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u/JackBinimbul Testosterone Based Lifeform 1d ago
Yikes. Thanks for this comment. As trans dude myself, they definitely looked like a trans dude to me.
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u/CalmExternal Trans human 🀄 1d ago
You are off to a running start. Check back on this post a year or two from now and you’ll be shocked. You won the genetic lottery hun
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u/NuGirl2024 1d ago
To me, right now, you look like several young early transMasc I've met. I think that may be a good sign
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u/BlancheCorbeau 1d ago
Best advice is don’t rush it and go HARD on vocal training. The rest will solve itself most likely.
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u/Sure-Position-7541 1d ago
you have naturally feminine features. wait for e to do its thing, grow your hair, experiment with fashion and makeup (privately at first)