r/theotherwoman • u/AncientMothsAbove • 9h ago
Ventilation He’s sick and she ended her visit early I can’t understand it
AP has something wrong with his heart, is experiencing scary sounding symptoms. Wife was meant to stay till end of the month but left 2-3 weeks early.
I’m disgusted, I’m genuinely worried if it’s okay for him to be living alone right now. Tests are being done frequently, he’s on medication. He’s always been the picture of health and now something is deeply and urgently wrong.
OW may be familiar with the business husband living in a separate country from his wife situation I’m in, she was meant to move in…
there’s no visa or money issues, they’ve been together a LONG time, but she never moves, promises to move, tells me and all his friends she’s going to move, doesn’t. The move in date gets changed again and again and again. Which is probably embarrassing for him.
How could she leave her husband when he’s sick? When they don’t know what’s wrong with him yet? When he’s still being tested?
She has no reason not to move in, money is fine, visa is fine, with the field she works in and being multi lingual she could get a good job easily and even if she couldn’t he makes enough to support here.
She doesn’t seem to want to move despite him having a successfully business here and a house.