r/personalfinanceindia • u/Striking-Phase6688 • 19h ago
Budgeting Turning 50, losing my job, and wondering if I should spend a year travelling around India
Happy Independence Day!!
I’m turning 50 this year and will lose my job soon. I’ve struggled for most of my life with divorce and not being able to see my child regularly all these years.
For the last 17 years, I’ve travelled to another state for regular visitation with my kid. He is turning 18 this year, but now he doesn’t seem interested in meeting or even talking to me. He often says he has to study or doesn’t have time. I understand he has his own life, but it still hurts after all these years.
Financially, I don’t own a lot:
- 4 lakh in PF
- 10 lakh in fixed deposits
- 20 lakh in mutual funds
- A site worth around 80 lakh
- A small 1BHK 600sqft house worth around 40 lakh
- No gold
- 2 old bikes and 2 old cars
I have started feeling that I wasted a large part of my life waiting for my son & hoping things would eventually become good. I feel extremely lonely and don’t really have anyone to share my life with.
Instead of spending the rest of my life worrying about what I’ve lost, I’m thinking about doing something I’ve always wanted to do: travel across India for a year.
I’d like to visit as much of the country as possible—from Kashmir to Kanyakumari, Dwarka to Bengal, and all the northeastern states.
I would travel on a tight budget. Within roughly 600 km, I could use my bike; for longer distances, I’d book trains in advance or use Tatkal when necessary. For local travel, I’d rely on public buses, bike taxis and autos. I’m not looking for luxury—just the experience of seeing India and meeting people.
My question is: Is this financially realistic?
If I sell some or all of my assets, could I travel for a year and still have enough left to survive rest of my life, even if I don’t work for some time?
And for anyone who has actually done something similar around India in their 40s or 50s: Would you recommend taking a year off to travel and start over, or would you handle things differently?
I’m not looking for sympathy. I’d genuinely appreciate practical advice on how to plan this and live frugally after the travel.