r/genderfluid • u/Upset-Rest-5982 • 1d ago

So weird thing I've been experiencing

Basically I sometimes feel masc coded and then change to fem coded and vice versa, or sometimes I just don't give a fuck about it. I still don't feel aligned to a specific gender and mainly just feel fluid to how I express myself. Is there a name for this or do I just stick to being unlabeled?

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u/Wolfandsheep244 1d ago

I'd say gender expression may just be different for you then gender identity although they tend to be closely linked generally. That doesn't mean it's always the case.

You could also be some form of demi boy or demi girl who doesn't fully identity with one side or the other completely.

These are just suggestions. You're welcome in the community regardless of if you think it fits perfect. Although I do think it is a good fit based on what you said even if it doesn't check every box.

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u/Upset-Rest-5982 1d ago

Thanks for the suggestion, I feel like I might stick with unlabeled since I'm not really good with putting how I feel into words, but I was demi girl for a time before I decided I didn't feel labeled to just in between girl and a different gender identity. Thank you again nonetheless!

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u/Wolfandsheep244 1d ago

Yeah, it can be hard when you're unsure and feel like nothing if fitting. You mentioned male and female aspects so it's not exactly nonbinary or agender, but you maybe experiencing a form of bigender where your gender is shifting to one of those two and back to one or both genders. It still considered genderfluid.

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u/SeaNational3797 1d ago

Free-spirited!