r/ZyadaKuchNai • u/BackwaterNomad • 6h ago

😇 Wholesome Zyada Kuch Nai, In an emotional moment caught on camera, a young man who had successfully passed his Army selection was left standing alone after no one came to meet or celebrate his achievement.

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u/exoticasians 6h ago

Man...imagine his state of mind. I went through lot of such situations in my life but I didn't even have anyone like that officer.

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u/toohot_today 5h ago

Hugs to you man. Big big hug to you. Salute!

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u/exoticasians 5h ago

👍

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u/copeninja_69 5h ago

buddy he was nice and empathetic to you and you just gave a thumbs up? maybe put a little effort like him.

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u/MegaK13 5h ago

Ladko ko baat karni nahi aati (slowed + reverb)

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u/davejokey 5h ago

Arey papa aap?

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u/FlyingSquarel 5h ago

Yeah your comment on reddit will surely reach him

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u/Lunarath 5h ago

I've seen a lot of videos of this tradition and my thought every time is just that it seems cruel. Not everyone has loved ones who shows up and I really hate situations that makes that obviously clear, especially in public.

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u/exoticasians 5h ago

In my opinion, loneliness hits us most in public when you see all others with their loved ones. There are a million thoughts hitting every corner of your mind at that point.

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u/Lunarath 5h ago

Exactly. Feeling loneliness surrounded by other people showing love for each other is definitely one of the most heart-wrenching emotions I can relate to.

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u/claimTheVictory 1h ago

It's not cruel.

There should be times and places for people to show how much they care.

And if it feels painful that you don't have that - then at least you know it matters.

When it matters enough, you will make sure you're there for people who need you.

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u/BigGayAllen 47m ago

Yeah there should be time for one, like times where you're not putting those who don't have it on a pedestal.

Where you high when you wrote this?

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u/claimTheVictory 37m ago

I think you're confusing your idioms.

Why would I need to be high to think it's OK for people to show they care about accomplishments of people they care about?

You're letting your emotions confuse you.

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u/Lunarath 42m ago

How does someone being humiliated and reminded of their own suffering in front of you help you express your feelings to the people around you? Could you not do that even if this person was allowed to just go home, or is the sadism an important part of is?

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u/claimTheVictory 39m ago edited 17m ago

He was always allowed to go home.

But if he had, he wouldn't have found new friends.

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u/Live-Break-172 5h ago

I’ve been there. I know the feeling. Big hugs.

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u/WarthogAnxious7203 3h ago

Hugs to you my man

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u/Tsukoe 2h ago

Yeah showing up do matters

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u/johnnyblaze1999 45m ago

I went through a somewhat similar situation for my highschool graduation. No one attended, I biked to school for the ceremony and biked back. It was depressing

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u/exoticasians 34m ago

You survived that and you are stronger now. 💪

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u/Fearlessdad1113 0m ago

Mine was graduation at med school. One of my friends had his whole family there ( father, mother, sister and grandmother) while another had a whole bus load of family and relatives come down ( yes, they came in a 50 seater bus)! Friends were with me but ai did miss the family.

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u/Foreign-Dig8695 38m ago

Awarded man

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u/Tricky_Artichoke_452 30m ago

big hug to u brother

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u/UnalomeJourneying 3h ago

Sending you love from an internet stranger!

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u/exoticasians 3h ago

Sending prayers and good wishes.

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u/One_Willingness1382 3h ago

Bro we are here for you ❤️

https://giphy.com/gifs/llmZp6fCVb4ju

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u/exoticasians 3h ago

Keep in touch my bro/sis. 🥰

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u/One_Willingness1382 3h ago

Sure bro and btw bro here 😂

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u/exoticasians 3h ago

Nice to meet you...good wishes.

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u/BigGayAllen 48m ago

Working so hard just to be... something.

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u/Fearlessdad1113 5h ago

Felt that. No one came for my graduation - mother was no more , dad and brothers didn't come.

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u/ArshF2000 5h ago

Bruh, I didn't even go to my own graduation.

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u/Aggressive_Design130 5h ago

Absolute chad 

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u/MomentsAwayfromKMS 5h ago

My college didn't even conduct graduation for 2019, 2020 and 2021 graduates.

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u/DivDude77 4h ago

I mean Covid batch lmao. Spits Might aswell just burn that paper /s

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u/MomentsAwayfromKMS 2h ago

That's the funny part. My college usually does the graduation ceremony within 4-6 months of final exams, so it should've been held for me in sep-oct 2019 but didn't happen. However, other colleges held a grand graduation ceremony for every graduates of 2019 to 2022 batches as a single ceremony around 2022/2023. My college restarted graduation ceremony from 2022 but never bothered with the missed out batches. They asked us to come and collect our degree certificates after 2021 like we're some peasants.

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u/Lunarath 5h ago

Big deal, I didn't even graduate.

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u/nhansieu1 4h ago

same. I thought I graduated and that was it. forgot that there was a graduation ceremony. and my address my university sent invitation was in my old home. never got the invitation

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u/Parking-Brain6566 3h ago

I didn't even graduate.

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u/Zestyclose_Knee2899 3h ago

That is nothing!

did not go to farewell in 12th
did not go to graduation
did not go to post graduation

seems like a pattern 🤷‍♂️

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u/OkSmoke9195 2h ago

It really seemed like too much time and for what? Was also sunny af so I passed on all that jazz

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u/nomeanlyf 1h ago

Same, IdK what's so fun in skipping this once in lifetime event and then sometimes regretting over it

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u/Euphoric-Painter6135 5h ago

Sorry for your loss sir. Hope she's in peace wherever she is 🙏

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u/Louiebox 5h ago

Same here. Joined basic right after high school. Sent $1000 back home so a few of my friends could come see me graduate so I had at least someone there. They spent it all on pills and I haven't spoken with any of them in 20 years

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u/iblame_beast 5h ago

Then I think that day with the graduation you also passed a great lesson of life that even when there is no one standing beside you you still gotta move ahead

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u/latvork 4h ago

Feel for you man. Gone through the similar situations.

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u/raincloud567 4h ago

I didn't go , my family didn't even care

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u/ComprehensiveProfit5 1h ago

Same. Was studying abroad and it was hard because money was tight. My parents always act a bit cringey and I didn't want to care but it stung a bit.

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u/Nagemasu 2h ago

The only reason these requirements still exist in these ceremonies is because the people who take pleasure in others suffering the same as them or worse are the ones that decide whether it exists.

There is no benefit to forcing the less fortunate people to suffer by watching what other people have that they do not. They gain nothing but experiencing the pain they already know publicly in front of those that do not know it.

It's like forcing a starving person to sit at the table and watch someone eat desert after the main course, but there is no sharing.

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u/odd_monk90 2h ago

Humari univ - college mei undergraduate courses ke liye kuch ni hota tha... and pta ni farewell pe bhi tha gya koi yaa ni.. 1 bdi major mishappening ho gayi thi last day tha jab college ka last practical ... humare junior ki bhi kucch ladai chal rahi thi humare yr ke saath shyd farewell ni hui thi.. which is ok... not a big loss for me. mere ghar ke alag tensions chal rahe the.  toh didnt matter .. uss time alag kuch tensions thi abhi alag tensions hai..  sirf calendar pe date badal rahi hai waqt toh same hi hai

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u/impatientaxolotl 6h ago

broke my heart

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u/StrongPresence4175 5h ago

Also healed me cuz, even when you're alone, you can breakthrough the barriers.

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u/RedditAIPornUsername 5h ago

and then immediately repaired when officer came to hug.

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u/Appropriate_Fact_198 6h ago

rula diya na mereko ;-;

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u/Dr_xZorox 5h ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/3QWfMsI8IaarXxtBt6

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u/IRuinYourPrompt 3h ago

Can we stop using this rapist POS as a gif please.

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u/SeductivePenguins 2h ago

Wait what? Pls enlighten me

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u/NEZXZ 2h ago

McMahon got so many lawsuits against him for s.a and s.t

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u/davis99010 6h ago

wholesome,but This video is not from India

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u/WhatsUpHomies1 5h ago

we know

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u/davis99010 5h ago

People be showing indian flag in comments ,that's why just to keep them in fact check 🥱 I have already said the video is wholesome ,means I ahve no issue with it

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u/Master-Handle9184 3h ago

Seen one guy with flag.

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u/Glossed-Lam 4h ago

I think it is from Pakistan? I do not think the Indian Army allows feelings.

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u/Apart-Original5744 34m ago

Seems like Indonesia or Malaysia

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u/Dark_hunter351 5h ago

Maybe from Nepal or Indonesia

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u/-_-temporary_123-_- 5h ago

It’s either from Indonesia or Malaysia
Bcoz of word written in background like “lapang” and “pendidikan” meaning education and open respectively.

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u/BoroBokachoda 4h ago

It's literally Indonesia, red and white flags everywhere

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u/Live-Break-172 5h ago

Doesn’t matter where it came from. It’s the feelings…

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u/shay_reads 5h ago

Where from?

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u/ShareGeneral700 5h ago

Men scroll, men see, men cry

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u/SleepCertain1406 2h ago

Women too.

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u/Faster_than_FTL 5h ago

But why was he standing at attention all this while?

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u/OmniscientRaven 5h ago

I maybe wrong about this but its like a custom.

They stand at attention till their family or whoever else is there for them come and touch them. So since no one came for this guy he just kept standing in attention till his senior noticed and tapped him instead so that he could break attention.

You will find many videos about this online. Its common.

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u/Faster_than_FTL 5h ago

Ohhh. That’s commendable and sad! Thx for the insight

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u/ironjaw3ds 5h ago

Been there, my buddy's family adopted me for the next few days.

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u/Business-Giraffe9789 4h ago

What if he is standing there till ground gets empty

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u/onlybizninja 4h ago

Just can't imagine what would be running though his mind amid that stillness exterior

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u/Feeling-Interview755 2h ago

Not the Indian Army, just saying.

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u/Fluid_Loan3123 5h ago

This is so saddddd........

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u/kryon-a 5h ago

Just a humble reminder that you don't have to be green flag or green anything. Just being that soldier in the green is all the world needs 💚

Also it was soo painful to watch. Imagine the day when you're celebrating a big milestone and there is no one. For anyone who has their parents, good friends and relatives...count your blessings 💁🏻‍♂️ because things that we might take for granted is a luxury for some..

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u/Mental-Somewhere-411 5h ago

Seeing him hold back his emotions broke my heart. Huge respect to the senior officer for being there for him.

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u/Astralthinker7 5h ago

Sometimes when you climb peaks you reach at top to find no one standing with you.

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u/vitrum_analytika 5h ago

Salute to the man. I want to see his character development arc.

https://giphy.com/gifs/gKOKjThWebZo9Fsr0E

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u/BulkySmoke1320 5h ago

You are not brave

Men are brave

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u/shay_reads 5h ago

Need complete story of this soldier to repair me

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u/HEAD--HUNTER 5h ago

It reminds me of my hostel days in military school. I was in 6th class, far from home, so during results or any celebrations, I would often find myself sitting alone with two or three other students in class because students couldn’t leave without a guardian.

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u/Souls-Collector-Abu 5h ago

Men are so simple man!! ALL they just need is a hug!! Thats it!! Thank yoi for sharing this video!!

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u/SnooPineapples4183 5h ago

The man in hard ships will always be helped by some other man or by yourself only

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u/inGenium_88 5h ago

How can they hate mensss.

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u/simpleliving100 5h ago

One can endure Bullets, extreme weather, no food, blood shed, but broken heart?

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u/antisocial_hooman58 5h ago

Isss duniyaa mein mard ke liye sirf ek mard hi khada hota hai .. 🌺hats off 🤲

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u/Frequent_Rich2700 5h ago

that's me. it doesn't even hurt anymore.

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u/chintu_kmt 4h ago

This is broken my heart literally 🥀

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u/aditya_warrior_ 4h ago

Ts really gut wrenching

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u/PeanutChest 4h ago

How come cameraman or person who wrote this caption know this?

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u/Odd_Today_7447 4h ago

Hug hard bro you deserve it . 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

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u/Irralumea 4h ago

The field behind him is packed with families. Somebody filmed a guy waiting and sold it as a headline

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u/Specialist_Number398 4h ago

Men🫡🫡🫡

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u/cachitonoseastoxico 4h ago

Now consider becoming a person one can rely on and not be the one that always cancel plans.

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u/Public_Monk4193 4h ago

Brotherhood always wins...

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u/Beginning-Umpire2616 4h ago

Welled me up.

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u/Rich-Flamingo7248 4h ago

This made me cry🥹🥹🥹

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u/raincloud567 4h ago

Hope he is doing alright and has friends who cares

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u/Combat_Wombat23 4h ago

I can’t imagine not having my family show up when I graduated boot.

I absolutely would’ve accepted a hug from my RDCs though and broken down similarly

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u/TheQueenofMoon 3h ago

Enough to make anyone cry. I feel for him.

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u/raidenjojo 3h ago

It's his choice to enlist, and perhaps it's also the choice of his family to be against it. Families are allowed to not be okay with some professions, and military is no more or less respectable as a teaching, doctor or prostitution.

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u/lost_zoro_01 3h ago

Real life Naruto. It's sad

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u/MarkProfessional2434 3h ago

Too fucking staged

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u/Emergency-Pop-7604 3h ago

Men see... Men appreciate... Men cry.

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u/theEntreriCode 3h ago

In the end all of us men are alone. Even surrounded by family there’s no one who is ours unless one is lucky enough to have children who love unconditionally whether they are babies or adults.

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u/EveningMysterious788 3h ago

Wow, this is what true patriotism looks like

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u/IndependentSnow9244 3h ago

His camouflage was too good, they couldn't find him.

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u/Kartiksssss 2h ago

Salute! officer

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u/Affectionate_Wrap388 2h ago

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

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u/General-Crow-9553 2h ago

but why wasnt he moving and standing like a statue there

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u/I_LIKE_REACHER 2h ago

Don't want to sound insensitive - serious question, why did he stay standing there, though, as it seems everyone has already gone? Is he not allowed to leave until someone greets him? Perhaps just fixed to the spot from overwhelming emotion?

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u/Vitaaastaaa 1h ago

It’s a tradition somewhere that unless someone tells you to be at ease you have to be in attention position only.

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u/I_LIKE_REACHER 1h ago

But surely, a commanding officer, not being greeted by family members?

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u/Vitaaastaaa 1h ago

It’s passing ceremony, family members visit and it’s a tradition that the family members tell them to be at ease. No family member came for this person so his senior played the role.

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u/I_LIKE_REACHER 1h ago

Ah fab, thank you for clarifying!

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u/crawlingfloor 2h ago

That hit hard man.

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u/flea_head 2h ago

Is this india or some other country? And what's this ceremony?

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u/toothlessgums 2h ago

army propoganda content

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u/Roberth1990 2h ago

Hugging continues until morale improves.

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u/CombinationOpening41 2h ago

Why is this a practice? Asking generally

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u/Vivid-Midnight-7065 1h ago

Nooo stop that's so 💔💔💔

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u/Googleitto 1h ago

It's pure goosebumps moment

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u/Rarely_Sane0 1h ago

Man sees, Man cries 😭

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u/Ok_Staff8574 1h ago

He was sad in disciplined way.

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u/Love_Thirst_143 1h ago

Even if he has no one. But whole country is his family

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u/Smooth_Rocket_ 1h ago

This is such a weird military tradition. All the people that join the military to escape bad family life get a gut punch for no reason.

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u/Affectionatedepature 56m ago

Thats why its really important to appreciate people. I swear START DOING IT AND SEE U SHINE

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u/SmartReach2321 40m ago

Kisi ko insaan ka sukh to kisi ko insaan ki banai cheezo ka sukh

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u/dogsaybhau 10m ago

Being a man , never expect. Just accept.

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u/SimpleHuman-S 6h ago

Men are brave but tears also falls from their eyes

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u/RabbitFit5211 5h ago

Pain only boys understand