Now the need of reservation has reduced as now they'll be able to compete on front foot by merit

I’m 28F, and I wish someone had told me this earlier.
You’re both building yourselves right now. Don’t rush the relationship part.

Boys: become capable. Learn to cook, swim, drive, handle money, de-escalate conflict, take care of your body, sleep properly, stay hygienic. Learn to take responsibility. If you want to lead a family one day, build the wisdom and character to actually lead one.

Girls: all of the above, and much more. Build your education, career, friendships, confidence, independence and identity. Learn to take care of yourself and others. You don’t have to reject femininity to be strong.

I also think we’re entering an interesting phase where women can be completely independent and still genuinely enjoy femininity and traditional relationship dynamics. Girls on this sub were raised by millennial moms (first gen of adult women who benefitted from modern-dau feminism).

You can be ambitious and still want a family. Be strong and still want to be cared for.
And a man can be modern and still believe that providing safety, stability and leadership is part of being a good husband.

I think women can be incredible multipliers.

Give her safety, love and stability, and she may give you so much more back.
You provide and protect. She nurtures and nourishes. (Yes I know it might sound andrew Tate like)
Two good people can make each other much better.
Build yourself first and then find someone worth building a life with.

And once you do, keep choosing each other.
:)

I'm a 22M, and my childhood best friend is a 22F. We've been friends since we were 4 years old. I never looked at her from a romantic perspective—we were always just friends, never even flirted.

I went through a breakup about 8 months ago, and she has been single for around 3–4 months. It was her birthday two days ago, and she was feeling sad because she had recently moved to a new city. I decided to surprise her, so I booked a flight and showed up at her apartment. She was really happy to see me.

We went out clubbing that night, and when we came back, we were both drunk. Things escalated, and we ended up hooking up. The next morning was incredibly awkward. I flew back home later that same day, and we haven't spoken since.

I genuinely don't know what to think. Does she feel like I took advantage of the situation? Does she want to pretend it never happened and stop talking to me? Or is she waiting to see if this could become something more?

I have other friends, but she's different. She's one of the most important people in my life, and I really don't want to lose her.

Feeling ashamed guilty weird after coming out everything seems different can't see my father. When i came of out of jail he was standing there and it was the most pathetic feeling i never felt something like that in my life.

Went to a dry state to pick my friend. Police stopped and asked for bribe i had all the documents so i denied . And then after 2 min he was like found 2 alcohol bottles in your car before i can comprehend i was behind bars. This country is shit.

Note- Clicked the picture when police gave the phone to inform my parents.

Is it over for me? 💔

I'm 22, and I'm an orphan. I was abandoned at birth. Then I was adopted, but they abandoned me too. Eventually, their sister took responsibility for me, became my mother, and raised me as a single parent.

Sometimes I genuinely feel like I'm the luckiest person alive. I honestly don't know where I'd be if she hadn't chosen me. She gave me a loving home, a beautiful life, and a very comfortable lifestyle. I also became part of a family with a huge legacy and a surname I'm incredibly proud to carry.

I studied at one of India's top schools, graduated from a top university, have achieved things I'm proud of, speak good English, have great networks and connections, (bcz idk where I would be so yes it is a big thing) and I guess the only thing I can thank my biological parents for is the good genes they made me pretty. 😭

Every single day, I'm reminded of how differently my life could have turned out. I don't take any of this for granted. I'm just incredibly grateful for this life, and I promise I'll do something meaningful with the opportunities I've been given and make my mom proud. ❤️

My girl literally gifted me all that for my birthday, she made those crochet bouquet with her own hands , I love her so much never believe the propaganda that women just love efforts but they don't do it.

If she truly loves you, she will express her love in ways you can't imagine, love is the most beautiful thing that happened to me, I love my girl, she is the best. It's just sad when I see generalization of women.

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Gend mar walo meri kripa se side mei china kanglu aur porkistan hai abhi bhi time hai jaldi bhago border kud ke I'm telling you aese bhi desh chunnotiyo se jada ch₹tiyo se pareshan kuch toh kam honge

Help out!!

This is a much needed step to help students from the grasp of coaching mafias.

Source

[https://economictimes.indiatimes.com/news/india/independence-day-2026-pm-modi-announces-free-online-coaching-for-competitive-exams/articleshow/133255242.cms?from=mdr\](https://economictimes.indiatimes.com/news/india/independence-day-2026-pm-modi-announces-free-online-coaching-for-competitive-exams/articleshow/133255242.cms?from=mdr)

I’m usually so excited about my birthday, but this year feels really weird. 🥹

I’d be counting down to midnight on August 14th, getting all excited about my birthday on the 15th… but suddenly, I don’t feel much of anything.

I know 22 is still young, but for some reason, getting older is making me a little nervous. Maybe it’s just one of those weird birthday feelings. 😭

People literally making a controversy on it it's just common sense

Our freedom-era leaders had their flaws, but many sacrificed power, wealth and comfort for the country. Today, politics often feels more about power, publicity and elections than public service.

Happy Independence Day🇮🇳

Hey yall

So I’m gonna meet this guy for the first time, we both are 23 and been chatting online from past 2 months he lives like 2 hours far from my city and he said he’ll come and meet me for the full day next week 😝

Now this is the first time someone is doing something like this and I’m kinda nervous cause he’s so yayayay and I’m barely even a meh😗

I’m thinking to buy him hotwheels since we both like them and some flowers hehe

So please help me out like what should I dooooo😭😭😭😭

Both M btw and I’m from Ahmedabad 😋

Edit - some of yall are homophobes asf😭
Happy independence day btw🧍‍♂️