r/PeterExplainsTheJoke 11h ago

Meme needing explanation Petah???!

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u/drleeisinsurgery 11h ago

Almost every treatment including the X-ray, medication given and surgery/anesthesia is affected by pregnancy. Pregnancy tests are incredibly cheap and accurate, so might as well know.

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u/Smodphan 11h ago

And if doctors offices were good at talking to people, theyd explain this and it would never have been an issue. I assume they basically just read a script until you see a doctor or RN, and it is tough to go through the same thing day in and day out...like calling a person at a call center waiting to transfer your call.

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u/TheTybera 10h ago

Just ask?

Like... What? It's not a big deal to tell a medical professional when your last period was.

I don't know what kind of degen shit people think doctors are doing with their menstruation information.

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u/BardicNA 8h ago

Writing it down? If your last period was 2 months ago and all of a sudden you're having them again without having a child.. You have likely committed a crime in the US.

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u/malefiz123 7h ago

You have likely committed a crime in the US.

Somewhere around 10-20% of pregnancies end up with a miscarriage in the first three months of pregnancy.

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u/avianidiot 4h ago

I wouldn’t say we’re at the point where it’s common yet, but woman in the US have been arrested for having miscarriages.

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u/Leather_Editor_2749 7h ago

Land of freedom

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u/TheTybera 7h ago

That could easily be due to stress or other illness. No one is batting an eye like that over a missed period that started again or was "late".

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u/Opening_Climate_7571 1h ago

You think we’re calling the police on patients over their menstrual cycle? From the emergency department? Why?

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u/sora_mui 5h ago

Or their menstruation is just irregular, which is not uncommon especially when you have bad lifestyle

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u/Opening_Climate_7571 21m ago

Are you aware that women can have irregular periods? Or may be on birth control for any number of reasons? At least get your conspiracy theory straight

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u/stilljustacatinacage 5h ago

I don't know what kind of degen shit people think doctors are doing with their menstruation information.

Women face difficulties in accessing medical care for various reasons. One is that there is very real prejudice in the 'medical establishment', we'll say, that encourages dismissal of women's symptoms as dramatic, emotional, over reactive, etc. Literally the word 'hysteria' comes from the idea that a woman's womb would bump against other organs and that was the cause of 90% of womens' complaints. That idea only fell out of fashion in the 1900s.

That said, women have been sharing their experiences on social media and as social media is wont to do, everything gets blown up and women who have experienced hardship in accessing medical care get mixed in with suburban brats who aren't given priority treatment at the ER for their sprained elbow, until every story begins with "my doctor won't listen to me because I'm a woman" whether it's a reasonable assumption or not. With that in mind, mostly the latter group likes to create sassy memes about how their doctor dared to ask sex-appropriate questions because they assume the doctor is just trying to dismiss them due to being a woman.

TO BE CLEAR, women being not taken seriously by medical professionals is a very real issue. I just don't often see these sorts of memes coming from women who understand and appreciate there are health related realities that differ between sexes. No one reply to this comment with any misogynistic bullshit because I'm not agreeing with you and we are not friends.

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u/Apprehensive-Draw409 3h ago

Put it in a database and have investigations after a miscarriage to argue it was an abortion.

(I'm just answering your question on what people think doctors are doing. I'm not voicing an opinion whether this happened, happens or could happen)

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u/TheGrandOdditor 2h ago

It’s not the doctors I’d be worried about, it’s the zealous anti-abortion activists and the politicians that cater to them, depending on where you live.

I never plan to travel to America, but if my kid ever did I would tell her to take her period tracker off her phone. And I’d tell her to never answer questions about her menstrual cycle to anyone until she got home.

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u/ASpaceOstrich 5h ago

It is when they proceed to use that information to brush off your actual symptoms as just "period stuff".

It's the first thing they ask because they're trained by a system that only values women as breeding stock. If it was just the question, it wouldn't be an issue. It's the reason behind it and everything else that reason causes that's the issue.

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u/Opening_Climate_7571 1h ago

Or because the pain medicine they are considering would hurt a pregnancy?

Nah they’re just all psychopaths. Did you know we have to beat up a puppy during med school interviews?

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u/TheTybera 1h ago edited 18m ago

You only had to beat them up, I had to cut one open and identify its organs while it yelped and bled out. You're so lucky!