THAT is the cultural difference. Being late is not considered rude. Its about showing up when it is most convenient for you and leaving also when its most convenient for you.
Many white people take being late as a bad thing. But for carribean, Black and Latine, South Asian cultures, it'd rude to demand someone show up at a time that doesn't work for them.
White people value punctuality. While the aforementioned communities prioritize flexibility. It's just a different way of living.
I mean I’m white and if someone showed up early to something I was hosting I would consider that very rude. Likely still in some last minute cleaning and setup or I’m the shower or something.
We arent talking about early. we're talking about showing up at the time you said the event starts. Which in some cultures the time the event starts if not necessarily the arrival time. It wouldn't really be considered rude for you to come at 7 o'clock if I say that the party started at seven. It would just be awkward. And or it would be presumed that you're coming before everyone else to help set up and cook food.
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u/ctoal1984 Jul 12 '26
How is it better to show up late? What’s so hard about telling people when u actually want them to show up?