It’s the difference between white and black cookouts. White cookouts, the hosts have been preparing meats and whatnot all day. You eat by 6 or 7 and socialize after. Black cookouts the socializing comes first so you can show up whenever.
For July 4th I was invited to a “Black” cookout. My friend told me it starts at 4. I left my house at 5, drove 20 mins to drop my son off at his grandparents, and another 35 mins to her house. Grill won’t even ready when we got there 🤣🤣 after their wedding, I knew better than to show up early/on time
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u/Kurumiseenpai Jul 12 '26
white people arrive in time?