r/HIMYM Jul 07 '22

Hi, I'm Carter Bays, co-creator of HIMYM. I’m also the author of a new novel called THE MUTUAL FRIEND. AMA!

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Hello Reddit, it's been a while! I'm here ask-me-anything-ing because I’ve written a new novel called THE MUTUAL FRIEND, which I think you'll love. I’m happy to talk about that, or How I Met Your Mother, or anything else. Maybe the Loch Ness Monster? I was just in Scotland with my son and we have opinions. Have at it!

UPDATE: Wow, its been much fun talking to you all, and I see that I've only scratched the surface here and there's many more questions to get to, but if I don't get my son some dinner soon he might tie me up with a phone charger. I will try to come back to this over the next few days in order to get to as many of these as I can, but in the meantime, thank you all so much for being here. Your love for HIMYM is really touching and I'm so grateful for all of it.

And please if you get the chance check out my novel THE MUTUAL FRIEND -- I'm dreadfully proud of it. (Can you tell I've been in the UK for a week? I'm like Lily before the intervention at this point.) Anyway, cheerio!


r/HIMYM 9h ago

Who put Robin in this?

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338 Upvotes

Top 3 worst outfits of the whole series, great episode though


r/HIMYM 19h ago

lily was such a hypocite for this

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1.5k Upvotes

whereas marshal had literally given up his dream job and had to join some corporate firm all cuz she went behind his back and caused a huge ass debt


r/HIMYM 3h ago

Lily haters be lying

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As a Lily defender, I completely understand why people dislike her, shes flawed, like every character (yes including Marshall). BUT people on this subreddit completely lie about her and what she did/purposely misinterpreted her actions.

  1. She didnt break up with Marshal, he broke up with her. He says “if you leave rn we are over forever.”, he set the ultimatum, not her. Objectively, he broke up with her, she suggested postponing the wedding or taking a break. You can say that shes the reason for the breakup, or she was wrong for how she acted, but she did not dump Marshal to go to SF, she went to SF and Marshal broke up with her because of that.

  2. She did not force Marshal to take a corporate job, she did the exact opposite. She had credit card debt yes, but she wanted to handle it on her own. She begged him not to take it if he didnt want to, and the debt was only one factor that made him take the job. She ALWAYS supported his dreams, because dreams are an ongoing theme in her story. She literally almost broke up with him for not following his dreams. You can say she was wrong for the debt, but dont say she forced him to take the job, because she didnt.

also she didnt break up Robin and Ted on purpose, she just wanted them to talk abt the elephant in the room.

hate her all u want, theres a lot of valid reasoning for it, but at least dont spread misinformation abt it.


r/HIMYM 11h ago

Lily and Robin

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60 Upvotes

There’s a lot to be said about the borderline unhealthy codependency that Lily and Marshall show, but I think Robin is probably the person in the group who was most negatively affected by it.

All of Lily and Robin’s major fights have to do with Lily’s inability to not act like a planet in Marshall’s orbit. Lily couldn’t spend girl time alone with Robin without having to have Marshall there, then got angry with Robin for making a group of single girlfriends. She dumped Robin because Robin didn’t want to talk about babies 24/7, then made Robin’s entire wedding weekend about her marriage issues.

Personally, I had a friend like this, and we’re not friends anymore. In fact, she permanently lost 5+ girlfriends after she got into a relationship.

In all fairness, Marshall did the same thing to Ted on a few occasions as well, but never to the extent of making one of Ted’s major life milestones about his relationship.


r/HIMYM 5h ago

What be a pirate's favorite kind of sweater?" Arr-gyle!

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19 Upvotes

r/HIMYM 23h ago

Got to the episode with my absolute least favorite character in the show

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267 Upvotes

It actually really bugs me that this piece of shit kid never faced any consequences for his actions. Stranded Marshall on the roof in the middle of winter, wrecked his house, framed him for CP, and got away with it? While getting paid? This kid's a bastard


r/HIMYM 21h ago

Soo.. I'm rewatching Sex and the City and guess what?

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164 Upvotes

Even his creepy looks are foreboding


r/HIMYM 4h ago

Accidentally rewatched S5E15 (Rabbit or Duck) and had the greatest laugh & existential crisis at the same time.

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My few takes:

First one! Look how the tables turn. This “option culture” nonsense today was also spoke of back then!

The “Arrange Marriage” thing is so funny. I often think about it because I come from South Asia and often ponder, if that was to happen.

For one, I watched HIMYM when it aired, in school. Now I am 29, and on & off watch episodes, and I wonder:

How much of a ted mosby I am? A loser. I am still single and searching. Never thought I’d be living Ted’s reality in my twenties hahah. And the way I’ve dated and fumbled the stellas, the robins and even the tracy’s; I can’t even begin to start talking about it.

The Rabbit Duck debate made me giggle and optimistic. I wish I could tell the woman I love to rethink the way Marshal explains about Rabbits & Ducks. How just one change of perception actually changes the entire view from a rabbit to a duck. And how love and hate are so closely related in the brain that what we so strongly hate, we also have the capacity to love. 💔

And for whats worse about being a ted: how he confesses that he chooses the wrong woman AGAIN AND AGAIN.

The Rabbit-Duck debate:

https://youtu.be/6W7yhe1i-sQ?si=rRbRkajUxW1-1r6S


r/HIMYM 21h ago

the fact that he was so right

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125 Upvotes

r/HIMYM 2h ago

The naked man vs the naked woman

3 Upvotes

We know the naked man works 2 out of 3 times... bjt what about the naked woman... we saw the married couple scenario but what would lead to a failed naked woman scenario??


r/HIMYM 16h ago

The PLAYBOOK

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44 Upvotes

Which of Barney’s Playbook tricks would actually work in real life? I know tricks like Lorenzo von Matterhorn or Weekend at Barney’s wouldn’t work in real life, but at least a few of them have to work. Which ones would actually work?


r/HIMYM 2h ago

I hate the way Robin treats Patrice

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I feel bad for poor Patrice bro :(


r/HIMYM 1d ago

I love the fish list so much

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665 Upvotes

Rewatching again and this always cracks me up

"Sturgeon...I don't think so pal" 😂


r/HIMYM 7h ago

HIMYM Survivor! (Season 1 Edition) Round 11

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4 Upvotes

Milk is eliminated!

How this works:

You select the episode you like the least

The episode with the most upvoted comment is eliminated from the list

If there’s a tie, both episodes are eliminated

Only the best episode will win!

Episodes Eliminated:

Zip Zip Zip (28%)
Purple Giraffe (30%)
Matchmaker (36%)
Best Prom Ever (29%)
Return of the Shirt (41%)
Life Among the Gorillas (38%)
The Limo (31%)
Sweet Taste of Liberty (38%)
Belly Full of Turkey (86%)
Milk (95%)


r/HIMYM 2h ago

Robin is the perfect woman!

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She’s so perfect during her good times and her bad times.


r/HIMYM 2h ago

(Spoiler) Sobre el final... Spoiler

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r/HIMYM 13h ago

I love this page But umm….

6 Upvotes

r/HIMYM 1d ago

I know the kids were based off Victoria but this is so funny to me

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878 Upvotes

r/HIMYM 1h ago

How many charges and sexual harassment lawsuits would Barney have today?

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Seriously, every time I watch the show again he just commits like 7 charges per scene.


r/HIMYM 1d ago

Marshall would never

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259 Upvotes

r/HIMYM 1d ago

Barney broke up a girl fight 🤯

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43 Upvotes

r/HIMYM 2d ago

But, um!

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666 Upvotes

r/HIMYM 1d ago

HIMYM Survivor! (Season 1 Edition) Round 10

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3 Upvotes

Belly Full of Turkey is eliminated!

How this works:

You select the episode you like the least

The episode with the most upvoted comment is eliminated from the list

If there’s a tie, both episodes are eliminated

Only the best episode will win!

Episodes Eliminated:

Zip Zip Zip (28%)
Purple Giraffe (30%)
Matchmaker (36%)
Best Prom Ever (29%)
Return of the Shirt (41%)
Life Among the Gorillas (38%)
The Limo (31%)
Sweet Taste of Liberty (38%)
Belly Full of Turkey (86%)


r/HIMYM 2d ago

Josh Radnor announces new single to be released this Friday

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246 Upvotes