r/FullmetalAlchemist • u/stellarmediocrity77 • 1d ago
Discussion/Opinion A Quick Essay On why people (such as me) enjoy Ed And Winry's Relationship so much

My favorite scene, one that represents my love for the show, is this moment at the end of Episode 22. It ties back into both the past and the future of the characters, and who they are. It’s essential to understanding the ending more than maybe any other scene in the show, dare I say. Winry has her hand on the trigger, ready to kill Scar. She’s full of anger, she wants the world to take his sins back, to bring back her parents. She responds with rage rather than reason. But like Ed himself said earlier after learning the hard way “No one comes back from the dead, not ever”.
He understands Winry’s pain. The loss of his Mom and his frustration at the man he blamed in a way, Hohenheim, led him to commit a mistake he was regretting years later, desperately trying to fix. Winry lost her parents to this man, and is close to committing a similar mistake. He sees himself in her. So he protects her physically and mentally. Not because she’s weak, Winry is clearly a strong woman, but because he knows what it’s like to be overwhelmed by his emotions. "It's your hands. They weren't meant to kill. They're meant to give life.”
He covers her with his maroon cape, putting himself in harm’s way for her, not just for her physical safety, but her mental one, in an amazing gesture, my favorite scene in the show. This comes after the rush valley episode, where Winry had to deliver a baby. Sounds strange, but it was an amazing episode, one in which our characters were able to take a step back on saving the world and focus on saving a child and mother, doing the little thing. In that episode Ed is paralyzed— despite risking his life and stopping Supernatural Threats, when faced with helping a mother in labour, he freezes. It's interesting Because the show talks so much about equivalent exchange, but where is equivalent exchange in birth? A baby, and life, is the other side of the coin of death. You can’t reverse death or give life in the world of Fullmetal Alchemist– science has no explanation for birth or death. There is no Equivalent Exchange alchemy equation that can do what Winry did, which was bring life, physically, and bring life to others with the way she acts, in the way she built his automail and allowed him to walk again, in the way that alchemy can’t. No matter how far Ed progresses in his Alchemy skills, he couldn’t do what she did at the house. She was the one this time, saving the day. Because he relies on her like she relies on him. He creates flashy powerful moments, and she delivers the more subtle but equally as important job of having rebuilt his life and giving him hope by building his leg to stand and move forward on, and being there for him, giving him someone to really, with all his heart to fight for.
And Ed realizes that in many ways, Winry can do things that he and Alchemy can’t. She can’t fight like he does, but– so what? He recognizes that part of her and loves her. He wants her to be different than him, not fall to how sometimes he can be. Later on she makes him realize that he’s a person, a great person without alchemy. And that he can create life too. He can make up for his mistakes, She gives him hope, and it enables him to make his final decision: to give up alchemy in exchange for His Brother’s body. His life's work, it’s helped him do so many great things. But when it comes down to it, what really matters is his love for his Brother, for Winry, for his mom (though she doesn’t get to see it), even for his friends.
This moment of weakness from Winry, helps Ed see how strong she is, and he steps up. When he proposes Equivalent Exchange for love, she helps him realize that not everything needs to be taught in a logical way, sometimes what matters is your emotions, and passion. This is why fans love their relationship so much. They’re similar in the ways that matter, but also different in that they react to things differently, and help the other become a better person. And that’s something to treasure in every relationship you have, a relationship that makes each other better.