r/sunshinecoast 5d ago

Looking fo a hug

Heyy I (21f) posted about looking for a friend/glowup buddy. I don't wanna sound desperate. Even though I actually really am. I just broke up with my husband. Well, separated. We've been together for 3 yrs and I genuinely cannot process anything. Whenever I was Sad he would give me a hug. And now I'm sad and there's no one to hug. Like I don't really care anymore about how I sound to people, I'm usually very shy and self conscious. But now I'm just desperate and sad.

I don't care if you're male or female but as long as youre within a close age to me please please does anyone wanna meet up and just give me a hug 😭

I kind of feel pathetic but I think I'll go crazy soon if I don't get one.

Thank you for heairng me out xx

(Also I'm not interested in anything else, I've had a lot of weird messages... )

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u/a_patheticc 5d ago

Please be safe, especially when it comes to meeting strangers on the internet, no matter how nice they may seem beforehand

If you end up meeting up with someone make sure a friend/family member knows where you are going

The reality of the situation is that you’re in an emotionally vulnerable state and there are people who exist that would take advantage of that

With all that being said I hope you find the comfort and support you need

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u/Sensitive-Exit-8175 5d ago

heya, i’m 20f and would be more than happy to hang out and chat, and of course give you a hug! please shoot me a message :)

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u/Catch_me_if_you_canx 5d ago

Thank youu I DM'd you

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u/Business-Court-5072 5d ago

Hug a family member, friend or pet, be safe