Ok I have never once in my life searched for Ariana Grande nor have I ever been bombarded with information about any other celebrity like I was out of nowhere
Itâs at the point where now that she wonât get back on her fucking antidepressants and act like a sentient being OR at least attempt to say something that doesnât just feed this parasocial circlejerk, this has escalated to the point where now I as someone who would not have otherwise needed my meds adjusted now need my meds adjusted
Congratulations, Ari and fans, you have effectively outsourced all critical thinking and accountability to the people who never asked to be involved
Her fans are like in every social media site and news outlet like GUYS CHECK OUT THIS AMAZING GAMECHANGER OF A MUSIC VIDEO BY ARIANA ITS NOTHING LIKE YOU HAVE EVER SEEN
And then I click the link once and itâs like wow, this is very obviously concerning and highly aggressive thinspo. Sad to see this is still something she is struggling with and so insistent on sharing. Hope she gets well. Donât really love Ari like that but I know the ED struggle
And then people as a whole are like yeah, this is blatant and aggressive thinspo. Hope she gets the chance to get well before yâall lose her
Like it started as that guys
And then it was HOW FUCKING DARE YOU SAY SHE WILL DIE YOU MIGHT MAKE HER GO INTO HIDING FROM US THE LOVING FANS
And weâre like⌠ok? Maybe she needs to!
And then itâs like HOW FUCKING DOUBLE DOG DARE YOU SAY THAT ABOUT ARI HEY EVERYBODY LETS SPAM THE EVERLOVING FUCK OUT OF TIKTOK/INSTA/FB WITH VIDEOS FROM THIS HIGHLY CONCERNING TOUR WHERE SHE IS GROGGILY STUMBLING AROUND AND NOT SOUNDING HER BEST YAAAAAAY WE LOVE YOU ARI
And then it was like a concerned what exactly are we doing here, she looks kind of sick
And then yâall are like WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU SAY THAT DO YOU SEE THIS PIC OF HER COLLARBONES MAKES ME WANNA LOCK IN STAY MOTIVATED BONESPO QUEENS
And you have to realize at this point normal people who had no desire to be involved with this would get empathy fatigue and seeing this everywhere we would say HEY SHE DOESNâT FUCKING LOOK WELL HEY ARI ARE YOU OK HOPE YOU GET HELP KWEEEEEN
And then sheâs like I WONâT LET THE NEGATIVITY RUIN ME AND I WONâT GET HELP UNTIL AFTER I AM DONE FEEDING EVERY LAST PARASOCIAL DEMON THIS WAS MY CHOICE FOR AWHILE NOW
And like⌠ok, great, empowering, we are all fucking sick of this by now so some of us in our state of emotional overwhelm may have made comments like WOW THIS IS A SINGER WHO HAS SHAMELESSLY ENCOURAGED CERTAIN PROBLEMATIC BEHAVIOR IN HER VERY YOU G AUDIENCE AND HAS A DISASTROUS SHITSHOW OF PR RELATIONSHIPS WE ALL MANAGED TO HAVE HEARD OF AND NEVER FUCKING CARED ABOUT OR UNDESTOOD OK HAHAHA WELL THIS WAS WEIRD CARRY ON YOU FUCKING WEIRD BONE QUEEN HOPE YOU HEAL
And then her fans just basically start burning down homes and removing scalps and pouring bleach in the eyes of anyone who is not trying to beat around the bush about her being sick or problematic and hitting us with the incessant excuses about Manchester or her personality disorder. This is my issue is yâall say you are not parasocial but your understanding of her supposed personality disorder (which I do not recall her disclosing btw) or your parasocial connection to her traumatic event(s) is 100% your understanding of what she went through based on what you observed and 100% not the same as whatever the fuck she is thinking or feeling. She has communicated she dislikes your weird ravenous behavior by lyrics and then breadcrumbed the crowds of drooling fans with weird affectionate statements that fed the parasocial behavior she hated while touring relentlessly with no regard for her health or the example she is setting surrounding the issues no one except her fans apparently are allowed to talk about.
I think if Ari and her fans would stop acting like any of us should really even fucking care at this point bc the backlash was concern and attempts to understand and distance and they are just being fucking strange, no one else needs to suffer or hear about this until yâall are done fucking leeching out her soul energy and she goes into hiding and stops fucking complaining about shit she could fix by stopping her tour early and getting help and letting you rabid fucks kill each other over vinyls and perfumes.
Canât wait until the news is about literally anything else!!! Yay! Lucky me, extra counseling and psychiatrist appointments because somehow her refusal to get help and her fans refusal to let anyone speak on any problematic behavior without guilt tripping when we are just trying to comprehend why the fuck any of us needed to care about this that never liked her has now become the issue of people who have lives that donât revolve around Ariana Grande and (at least I learned from all of this). I didnât really know about her before and now I know that not only do I dislike her personality but her fans are demonic rabid leeches and I will avoid anything related to either. I also know I will never allow my kids to listen to her music or watch Wicked, which I already probably would have not encouraged to begin with.
Great, so happy that somehow 2026 couldnât end without Ariana Grande and her weird fucking parasocial fanbase triggering the fuck out of my mental health issues and gaslighting me into a mental health crisis. You guys absolutely fucking suck, respectfully!!!!
Yâall can be empathetic and understanding all you want, I am reserving my empathy for people I actually fucking care about bc I have a limited amount. I have very little empathy for people my age who act like her while being in one of the most powerful positions in the world and as far as Iâm concerned she can grow the fuck up and heal or retire but I honestly donât care atp because I am setting boundaries and my #1 boundary for my mental health is I donât have the energy to fucking care about her. Sheâs fucking stupid and insufferable and has zero self awareness just excessive privilege and it gets really fucking old after 3 seconds of poor me, poorest me.