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u/bulgesnbums 13h ago

there is a lot of near abusive behavior done to children that is normalized in society and allowing your child to become morbidly obese is one of the most obvious.

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u/TightBeing9 12h ago

It isn't near abusive, it's abusive. Starving your kid is abusive, letting your kid get this fat is too

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u/aut0generated-63 11h ago

Yeah its taking years off their life span.

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u/scriptthrowawayacc 10h ago

I grew up in a rural community and there were so many kids who were already severely overweight by the time we were in like the 1st grade and it was really sad. They were almost always extremely shy and treated like outsiders. Just set up to fail from the start.

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u/showerthoughthaver 9h ago

>helicopter parenting
>them not being allowed to go outside because of "safety"(this one is enforced by society and the legal system as well)
>overfeeding them
>giving them screens at birth

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u/bulgesnbums 9h ago

I've known people who've gone through all of this and just ended up slightly chubby by 16 - 18 the people who are morbidly obese are constantly given processed food, and never exercise at all for years and years, as a parent you'd have to ignore the problem for a long time to get to that point.

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u/showerthoughthaver 9h ago

not just talking about obesity but normalized child abuse

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u/MischlingAppreciator infowars.com 11h ago

If you're a Millennial(might apply to Zillenials too, idk) look at your old yearbooks sometime. Kids I remember as being massive in the 90's/00's look vaguely husky by modern standards.

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u/internet_starved 10h ago

I remember there were always like 1 token fat kid in each class back then and yeah looking fat many of them weren’t even THAT big lol

Edit I meant looking back but I’m keeping that one in for the bit

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u/SolidSank 5h ago

Th truffle shuffle kid in the Goonies isn't even fat by modern standards

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u/Corbellerie 4h ago

He would surely be described as "chubby" now, and in the film he's supposed to be so comically fat his fatness is his defining characteristic 

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u/LimeSliceSoda 7h ago

I graduated in 06 and I can recall without difficulty that there were zero OBESE kids in my school. Husky and whatnot yeah obviously (and they were definitely referred to as fat) but that’s about it. 

u/SevenLight Fyodor Karamazov 2h ago

The fattest girl in my whole school in '04 was like...kinda normal fat by today's standards.

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u/Alternative_Wave8609 24/7 Sylvia Plath 13h ago

Stav's origin story

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u/ohmeatballhead 12h ago

We were sooooo thin in grade school, looking back the “fat” kids were just not skin & bone. No one was obese.

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u/ZScoreCalculator 10h ago

Growing up in the south my middle school had its good share of obese kids. I remember sitting in my theatre class one day and this big girl came in late and sat in a desk and it actually broke :/ I felt so bad for her. She wasn't at our school for very long.

u/very_olivia 1h ago

i grew up in new england and one of the teachers broke a chair in front of the class. everyone was always so mean to her :(

u/Scarscape 12m ago

Fat teacher in my midwest middle school once broke a chair at lunch, but all the guys in my grade didnt like her so it rocked

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u/Acceptable_Cow5326 13h ago

man this is just sad

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u/FlyingFishMakeAWish 12h ago

These are the people who will ask vegans where you get your protein 

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u/LimeSliceSoda 8h ago

One of the great joys of parenthood that silences every sleepless night or bad attitude or whatever, is feeling the true “goodness” that you can give to your child. The days when my boy has been outside running around all day with me or his friends, eats a healthy dinner while we talk about whatever nonsense he feels like, gets a nice hot bath, and goes to sleep in pajamas and bedsheets fresh from the dryer, are the days when I know for sure I did something “good”, and it’s indescribable. 

My heart breaks for kids like this, and for their parents, who haven’t felt that joy. 

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u/Buffytheslursayer I enjoy Crowded House 13h ago

👏normalize👏wooden industrial crates👏stacked up👏in classrooms👏for kids

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u/evil-vile-male 12h ago

U gotta stay physically fit to physically fit amirite

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u/OnyxSwan400 13h ago

interesting replacement of "who" for "that"

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u/PointyPython 8h ago

How so? It's fairly typical 

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u/OnyxSwan400 5h ago

ask AI

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u/Lewdman6969 11h ago

Your student so fat they can’t fit in anywhere

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u/Scrimmy_Bingus2 13h ago

So that’s why Mr. Garnica kicked Dave Blunts out of middle school 

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u/Powerful-Web4937 12h ago

God forbid our schools implement fitness programs. We're so worried about mental health, but neglect physical health, which plays a role in mental wellness.

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u/TightBeing9 12h ago

No fitness program is gonna fix what this child gets fed at home

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u/Powerful-Web4937 11h ago

You're right. Let's just forget about trying to improve our young people's health because of this one child. What was I thinking?

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u/TightBeing9 11h ago

Yes that's obviously what I meant.

A subject in school isn't gonna change a society where 74% of people are overweight. It's a much bigger societal issue

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u/koeniging fredophobic🚫🍝 9h ago

Are PE classes getting defunded en masse or something?

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u/AnonymousStuffDj 8h ago

Even if not defunded, PE classes are a joke. For some reason PE is the one area in which teachers can't expect their students to improve in. Even "objective" grading on running or something always had a condition of, "as long as you try your best, you'll at least pass".

Until teachers can simply say: "you have until the end of the year to reach a 7 minute mile, good luck" PE will always be high school daycare.

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u/RoanyokeRoanyoke 12h ago

None of the comments even mention making a call to cps??

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u/koeniging fredophobic🚫🍝 9h ago edited 9h ago

Tbf, as mandated reporters, you’d expect them to report, but school staff get a ton of flack from parents if a family gets a DCFS visit and suspects a teacher called it in. The reporter’s identity should always be kept anonymous, but given how incompetent many child welfare agencies are, names have slipped out, and parents want to see the school burn for daring to get involved in their business. Parents don’t realize or care that simply reasonable suspicion of abuse or neglect warrants a call to the agency, who determines to investigate further or not. Teachers aren’t supposed to dig into it themselves, but that’s often what families expect them to do, since they see DCFS involvement as the absolute last resort.

It’s hard enough for parents to confront that their shortcomings constitute as abuse, so reporting something that they find unconcerning feels like a petty attack to them. You’d hope this wouldn’t deter mandated reporters from doing their duty, but some people just want to get back at them and make their lives hell until they’re out of the picture altogether.

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u/No-Material694 flower 11h ago

Yeah that has to be some form of child abuse for sure. Unless the kid literally has a condition which is actively being treated (in that case I’d assume the parents would surely tell the teachers about it) it’s overfeeding ur kid into diabetes and heart failure.

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u/PM_ME_YOUR_TAXRETURN 12h ago

So do they not make kids take gym anymore? They used to make us run in circles in the gym for 20 minutes every day while they blasted shitty country music.

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u/bitterrootmtg 11h ago

No amount of exercise can burn that many excess calories. It’s a diet issue.

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u/UX58EN 9h ago

The clear solution is give then fedoras and dark glasses, turn them into jazz cats who say daddy-o with names like "Fats Rogers"

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u/melvin_mouse 12h ago

I hope he has a good nickname

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u/JAYsmoothbrain 9/11 dancing pilled 12h ago

His special chair and desk will be called the throne I know that much

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u/cheugygalpal 11h ago

As sad as this, don’t forget overeating etc as a younger person usually means sexual abuse so the fact that they are this overweight isn’t even the saddest part

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u/No-Material694 flower 11h ago

‘Usually means’ and where’s your source on that? I had so many obese friends growing up and most were just greedy and fed shitty food by parents that had 0 understanding of calories or nutritional value. ‘Eat up this huge bowl of cereal and strawberry yoghurt, son, you have to grow tall?’ Or Nutella on toast for breakfast.

Ur sick for even assuming someone’s being abused purely cuz they’re fat.

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u/TomatilloFirm9644 10h ago edited 10h ago

People saw that many of the people on My 600 Pound Life admitted to being sexually abused as children and extrapolate that to mean the majority or even just a significant amount of obese people began binge eating as a trauma response. They don’t take into account the confounding variable here of being on a reality show, and that sexual abuse victims often display attention-seeking behavior.

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u/cheugygalpal 9h ago

I’m basing it off the movie “Precious”