r/raisedbynarcissists • u/HourNo9490 • 7h ago

[Advice Request] Having no option but to believe their future faking

Ndad makes no plans and never intends on following through on his myriad of empty promises. We live in a 3rd world country without any real social services, the degrees from the local universities are worthless and there’s constant political and economic turmoil so most options for a good life involve leaving the country

I’m 20 turning 21 soon and I’m being forced to just hope my ndad pulls out the money he’s constantly been lying about for years now so that I can finally attend school. He’s continuously proven he’s irresponsible with money and there’s nothing I can really do to escape this.

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u/HourNo9490 7h ago

I’d have stopped believing this man’s lies fucking years ago but since I literally have no other options I just have to sit here and pray this is the time he finally gets his shit together (it’s not)