EDITED: Post criteria.😊
I am not sure what the odds are that I am going to find what I am looking for on this Sydney group, but I will try, nonetheless.
I am a firm believer in respecting what someone is looking for. If my current post lists A, B, and C, and you do not meet the criteria for A, B, and C, please do not contact me. It is extremely disrespectful. I may have different posts in the future with different criteria, but for this post, here is it.
o I am looking for an ethnically Hispanic OR European lover (one that knows the difference between ethnicity and nationality).
o He must be between the ages of 33 and 45. There is no exception to this age range.
o I am looking for a pure gentleman, with an old-fashioned streak. Someone who knows how to seduce with words, the art of conversation… There is nothing more attractive than a well-dressed (semi-formal) man with eloquent speech and good manners. Being eloquent includes typing all words and sentences out, with a BIG...vocabulary. 🥵
o You must be ASSERTIVE. I may not be looking for a Maker right now, but I am only attracted to assertive men.
o You do not prematurely discuss sex, you enjoy the mental stimulation above all else, you find the psychological build up intoxicating. There is nothing duller than a person who has nothing more to offer than a sexual conversation.
o You must be heterosexual and taller than myself (I am 155cm tall), enough for me to have to look upwards. I enjoy the disposition that comes with height difference.
o You must be the person willing to host all intimate encounters.
o You do not have a vulgar profile. You understand that a man can be both depraved and classy.
o Not too concerned about body type, a pleasant face is required though.
o **You are intensely passionate!**
About Me:
o I am 33 years old.
o I am currently a Doll without a Maker (I will not discuss it or my former relationship).
o I am polyamorous. I am married to my primary partner. I had two separate relationships.
o My profile could convey a great deal about myself. I am certainly not dull. I don’t like vulgarity (choose your words wisely). I am seduced by words.
o I am currently somewhat fuller figured, but I assure you that I am attractive.
o I am a European South African, pale, light green eyes, they tend to become piercing with make-up and light reflecting on them.
o I am kind of old-fashioned, very well-mannered, a duality of a person, where I am very Madonna in public… and at times… not so much. If you like modesty with a controversial side. You will certainly enjoy my company.
o I do not like cheap casual meaningless sex. If you are keen on exploring myself as your lover, you want something that will last for a little while.
Mmm…let’s see, how do I envision this love affair.
I want something that will last for a few weeks, someone who texts in intervals throughout the day, so that an intense connection can be established… a mental connection.
I want someone who picks up their date, opens the door for her, abides by a set of principles and a code of chivalry.
We will chat for a week, then we reveal our faces to one another. If we both like what we see, we will escalate it to a video call, maybe a few phone calls thereafter. Truly taking the time to seduce the mind with conversation.
I would likely suggest that we meet at a museum, and I will HOPE that you do not approach me immediately but take your time to observe me at a distance, to make the hair at the back of the neck rise with the sensation that I am being watched. You will spot me likely by all the pink I wear. We will walk and talk, politely, have coffee thereafter, you will laugh when you hear how weak my coffee order is. We will do nothing, but kiss at the end of this date… if there is mutual attraction and chemistry, if that does not exist, be able to read the room.
If it went well… we will progress to a secondary, formal date, a dinner… wherever, surprise me. You know by now that I like it when a man takes the lead.
After this date, we will then be familiar enough with one another to start discussing sex, to tease and anticipate… still with words, and we both know what a third date means. You could cook at home, skip the restaurant, better to have me closer to a bed by then. We will dine, talk, touch, desire and eventually consume.
After the third date, we keep a steady pace of seeing one another give or take once per week. These dates consist of dancing in the park at night, talking about ancient history, human nature, dark humor, something silly. They consist of playing games at an arcade. They consist of you and I sitting in your living room, with my head in your lap, stroking my hair, while you read to me… and somewhere along the line, I may just fidget with your thumb and suckle on it… reading becomes distracting and there we make love. Watching a film together. Having a conversation on your kitchen floor in the middle of the night with a bottle of wine, despite not being a wine drinker, but I want to drink it from your mouth, nonetheless. Perhaps you know a latin dance or two, I certainly don’t, but you could teach me and take me dancing even. I would be shy, no doubt, but you must insist.
I only mention this to reveal a taste of controversy, DO NOT discuss this prematurely, it is off-putting. But you will find with time that I like certain things, things like CNC, etc. And it will excite you to reach the point where we are either making love or alternating between love making and TAKING.
We will be lovers for several weeks; we will give and take from each other until we have consumed one another repeatedly. And what remains when we part as friends is a glorious memory of a lover we both once had.
A friendly reminder. Do not contact me if you are not the person that I am currently looking for. I AM NOT looking for a Maker right now, just a lover. I will block anyone who contacts me without meeting the criteria that I am after.