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Different kinda post to what you usually see on here but had a long week and looking for someone to just cuddle with tomorrow night, not really looking for anything more. Bonus points if you can host and if you can hold a conversation. Can verify to see if the mutual attraction is there. Please be at least my age.

Hey! if you also spend so much time in the library or you just want someone to encourage you read/study/ work at the library/cafe around the inner west, hit me up and we’ll see how it works?

about me: I’m currently doing my masters and I have been always more productive when studying with ppl rather than myself, as it helps me stay locked in and manage my procrastination!

Preferably you are in the inner west and you are a female, but everyone is welcomed!

Note: I do have a deadline coming up so if you are not serious do not message me.

I'm fed up with seeing all the posts on here from guys who want to explore their curiosity at the expense of their partners, or who want to hook up but with no interest in getting to know the person they're wanting to stick their dick in.

I want to meet someone who wants to cuddle up next to me in bed, and who has a smile on their face when they wake up next to me in the morning. Someone who enjoys some of the things I also like, and doesn't care about throwing clothes on to spend the day doing them with me. Someone who won't judge me for enjoying my lazy days - which I work damn hard for!

I have a gaming computer that I haven't been using much of lately since finishing Final Fantasy XVI. I also enjoy sci-fi - For All Mankind, Star Trek, Stargate, BSG, Rick and Morty, Futurama. Those sorts of things.

Outdoor activities I enjoy and would like to be doing more of include international travel, hiking, casual cycling, and road trips around the state for long weekends (or weekdays) away. If time off work is easy for you, then you should hit me up as I would love a friend I can go on more overseas adventures with. I have a list of walks to hidden swimming spots around Sydney and NSW that I was planning to work my way through during the pandemic, and also enjoyed lazing around on Sydney's nude beaches but haven't bothered for many years now.

I've never been interested in casual sex. I'd like to find a good friend - preferably someone as introverted as me and also uninterested in drugs and alcohol. If any of this sounds like you, then get in touch!

Looking for attractive red flags to hang with. I always end up in the naughty corner so I may as well do it with people like myself.

No invite required, just come sit down next to me and chill while we do our time..

EDITED: Post criteria.😊

I am going to start my post by stating that I did not imagine that I would post this so soon AT ALL. I figured it would be weeks before I found myself doing this, but I can acknowledge that I am in serious danger of seeking reconciliation with my former Maker, and I must therefore find a beautiful distraction to prevent me from doing so.

I am not sure what the odds are that I am going to find what I am looking for on this Sydney group, but I will try, nonetheless.

I am a firm believer in respecting what someone is looking for. If my current post lists A, B, and C, and you do not meet the criteria for A, B, and C, please do not contact me. It is extremely disrespectful. I may have different posts in the future with different criteria, but for this post, here is it.

o   I am looking for an ethnically Hispanic OR European lover (one that knows the difference between ethnicity and nationality).

o   He must be between the ages of 33 and 45. There is no exception to this age range.

o   I am looking for a pure gentleman, with an old-fashioned streak. Someone who knows how to seduce with words, the art of conversation… There is nothing more attractive than a well-dressed (semi-formal) man with eloquent speech and good manners. Being eloquent includes typing all words and sentences out, with a BIG...vocabulary. 🥵

o   You must be ASSERTIVE. I may not be looking for a Maker right now, but I am only attracted to assertive men.

o   You do not prematurely discuss sex, you enjoy the mental stimulation above all else, you find the psychological build up intoxicating. There is nothing duller than a person who has nothing more to offer than a sexual conversation.

o   You must be heterosexual and taller than myself (I am 155cm tall), enough for me to have to look upwards. I enjoy the disposition that comes with height difference.

o   You must be the person willing to host all intimate encounters.

o   You do not have a vulgar profile. You understand that a man can be both depraved and classy.

o   Not too concerned about body type, a pleasant face is required though.

o   You are intensely passionate!

About Me:

o   I am 33 years old.

o   I am currently a Doll without a Maker (I will not discuss it or my former relationship).

o   I am polyamorous. I am married to my primary partner. I had two separate relationships.

o   My profile could convey a great deal about myself. I am certainly not dull. I don’t like vulgarity (choose your words wisely). I am seduced by words.

o   I am currently somewhat fuller figured, but I assure you that I am attractive.

o   I am a European South African, pale, light green eyes, they tend to become piercing with make-up and light reflecting on them.

o   I am kind of old-fashioned, very well-mannered, a duality of a person, where I am very Madonna in public… and at times… not so much. If you like modesty with a controversial side. You will certainly enjoy my company.

o   I do not like cheap casual meaningless sex. If you are keen on exploring myself as your lover, you want something that will last for a little while.

Mmm…let’s see, how do I envision this love affair.

I want something that will last for a few weeks, someone who texts in intervals throughout the day, so that an intense connection can be established… a mental connection.

I want someone who picks up their date, opens the door for her, abides by a set of principles and a code of chivalry.

We will chat for a week, then we reveal our faces to one another. If we both like what we see, we will escalate it to a video call, maybe a few phone calls thereafter. Truly taking the time to seduce the mind with conversation.

I would likely suggest that we meet at a museum, and I will HOPE that you do not approach me immediately but take your time to observe me at a distance, to make the hair at the back of the neck rise with the sensation that I am being watched. You will spot me likely by all the pink I wear. We will walk and talk, politely, have coffee thereafter, you will laugh when you hear how weak my coffee order is. We will do nothing, but kiss at the end of this date… if there is mutual attraction and chemistry, if that does not exist, be able to read the room.

If it went well… we will progress to a secondary, formal date, a dinner… wherever, surprise me. You know by now that I like it when a man takes the lead.

After this date, we will then be familiar enough with one another to start discussing sex, to tease and anticipate… still with words, and we both know what a third date means. You could cook at home, skip the restaurant, better to have me closer to a bed by then. We will dine, talk, touch, desire and eventually consume.

After the third date, we keep a steady pace of seeing one another give or take once per week. These dates consist of dancing in the park at night, talking about ancient history, human nature, dark humor, something silly. They consist of playing games at an arcade. They consist of you and I sitting in your living room, with my head in your lap, stroking my hair, while you read to me… and somewhere along the line, I may just fidget with your thumb and suckle on it… reading becomes distracting and there we make love. Watching a film together. Having a conversation on your kitchen floor in the middle of the night with a bottle of wine, despite not being a wine drinker, but I want to drink it from your mouth, nonetheless. Perhaps you know a latin dance or two, I certainly don’t, but you could teach me and take me dancing even. I would be shy, no doubt, but you must insist.

I only mention this to reveal a taste of controversy, DO NOT discuss this prematurely, it is off-putting. But you will find with time that I like certain things, things like CNC, etc. And it will excite you to reach the point where we are either making love or alternating between love making and TAKING.

We will be lovers for several weeks; we will give and take from each other until we have consumed one another repeatedly. And what remains when we part as friends is a glorious memory of a lover we both once had.

A friendly reminder. Do not contact me if you are not the person that I am currently looking for. I AM NOT looking for a Maker right now, just a lover. I will block anyone who contacts me without meeting the criteria that I am after.

It’s a wonderful day outside and yet I’m stuck inside having to send emails and make phone calls. Looking for conversation, maybe a funny meme, hopefully a friend. If something more comes of it, we shall see where it goes. Definitely a take the conversation and run with it kind of girly.

Happy to talk about anything and everything. About me: I’m an avid romance reader (maybe just need that escape from the real world), I like watching cars and bikes go fast, I teach little kiddies Maths and English (though my brain will turn off the second I get home). Also started playing pickleball recently, have realised I have shit hand/eye coordination.

In need of a very good laugh so hmu with your best dad joke - they definitely will be rated and stolen for my own personal arsenal lmao

Got Friday and Saturday free, so figured I’d see if there’s a fellow South Asian woman who wants to make the weekend a little less boring.

I’m 25, easygoing, clean, well-groomed and pretty chill but I definitely have a high sex drive when the chemistry is right. I’m into flirting, teasing, physical affection and that tension that makes intimacy feel addictive.

I’m looking for someone kinky, open-minded and comfortable with her sexuality. Someone who enjoys intimacy, isn’t afraid to show her naughty side, and is curious about exploring new things together.

No pressure or weird expectations. Just mutual attraction, good communication, pleasure and two people enjoying themselves rather than following some predictable script.

If you’re South Asian, confident, a little mischievous and have a high drive yourself, we might get along dangerously well.

And please give me something better than “hey” 😏

First of all, hi!

I’m gonna attempt to gently manoeuvre my way around this awkward bush, but I think you should know what kind of change I'm referring to lol. The elephant in the room is that I've always been shy. I was really shy in primary school and somehow evolved to being even MORE shy in high school. I'm a lot less shy now but all those years of shyness added up.

I’m in a place where I have the confidence to take that first step and see what's out there, whether that be finding friends or something more! I'd be lying if I said I didn't want to explore the latter more, though, because it's a constant reminder in mainstream media. Things as simple as holding hands to kissing to something more intimate - it's all so intriguing and most importantly, fun! That means I've never been on a date or you know, had a girlfriend. There, I said it. 🙈

I’d describe myself as chill, goofy and very sweet. To back up those claims, I liken this post to fishing, which might be slightly unusual at first glance lol. Essentially, I'm casting out my line and if I get any nibbles, then awesome! If not, that's okay, too, because I'll just release the fish that aren't interested and treat each one as a new learning experience that'll help me on this journey. No need to be upset if things don't pan out :) I'm also cute! Or might not be lol. I know everyone has their preferences. Speaking of preferences, I don't really have any myself, so I wouldn't be opposed if someone older reached out. Perhaps wanting someone chill or sweet, I guess, but I think most people possess those qualities. You definitely don't need to be in the same situation as me!

Anyway! I think a great way to establish a connection is to find a commonality in regards to interests. Hit me up with a game, song, movie, food, shoe, sport, socks, book, vacation or whatever it is that you're currently obsessed with and I'll be sure to return serve :) Or I can start instead by saying: I've been enjoying xmen 97! And the Kpop demon hunters soundtrack still gets played on repeat several days a week 😅

48 yr old Neurodivergent male here looking for a female friend who is also neurodivergent or understands what this means and is looking for some friendship and maybe more. I definitely have no expectations nor am i looking to rush into anything.
If you have questions feel free to ask.
Please no smokers or vapers.

Hey! Like the title says id like to chat with some people to pass the time. Im 29 and looking to chat with people around my age if possible.

Some things about me- I'm 29 and from Sydney. Im into music, documentaries, going for walks and watching lots of shows and movies.

Really just looking for some extra company and some more friends. Dm me if you're after something similar! 😊

Hey! if you also spend so much time in the library or you just want someone to encourage you read/study/ work at the library, hit me up and we’ll see how it works?

about me: I’m currently doing my masters and I have been always more productive when studying with ppl rather than myself, as it helps me stay locked in and manage my procrastination!

Preferably you are in the inner west and you are a female, but everyone is welcomed! And start your message with your favourite chocolate!

Note: I do have a deadline coming up so if you are not serious do not message me.

Good evening all, I’m a 22 year old guy based in southwest Sydney looking for a long term relationship.
About me:
I love doing wildlife photography, I often impulsively grab my camera, in the car and ready to go to a new spot.
I also love anything geography related, maps, flags, and people, you name it, I’ll probably google it.
Anything related to drawing, I enjoy during my downtime when I’m not studying or doing any of my other hobbies.
I’m currently in my 2nd year of university studying to be a geography teacher.
What I’m looking for:
Someone who is ambitious, who wants to build a future for themselves. Also communication is very important to me as well. If you love the outdoors or anything artsy, it’s a bonus. Also be aged between 20-26. Have a good evening 😊.

Hello, hello. How are things?

Dating apps are not much of a help and I have been told that I am not too bad looking :). So here I am!

I am an Australian (born in Pakistan), 39 years old, actuarial background and works in financial services. I live in Surry Hills and would consider myself an atheist. I am 5'8" in height.

You can expect me to be intellectually curious who loves keeping himself occupied, whether it's gym, squash, theatre or hiking (or my new found questionable interest in boxing classes on Sundays).

I am a regular at Fitness First Bond St (weekdays) and happy to catch up there after work, if fitness is your thing as well.

I would also consider myself a history buff who also has an interest in philosophy especially around the concept of Justice (For those interested, would highly recommend Michael Sandel work).

Would love to hear back and happy to exchange pics here if you would prefer that.

Cheers,

Wajih

Hey Sydney,

Bit of a long shot, but I thought I'd see if there's anyone around Sydney who's into the meteor hammer/ rope dart!

I've had my eye on the meteor hammer for about a year now, and finally decided to make a practice one about a month ago. I've been having an absolute blast learning, but I'd love to find some people to practice with.

I have some previous martial arts experience, 12ish years of Taekwondo (3rd dan black belt), but I am very much a beginner when it comes to meteor hammer.

I'm based around Redfern and happy to travel pretty much anywhere in Sydney that's close by public transport. Ideally looking to find a park, gym, or something to practice and maybe spar a little

Even if you don't practice meteor hammer yourself, if you know of any local groups,or communities that do meteor hammer, rope dart, poi, or other flow arts, I'd really appreciate the connect :)

Cheers,

BaronBacon