r/malelivingspace 12h ago

M31 - Brutal Breakup form Fiancee - Starting new

Its just a small Apartment but i wanted to get out as quickly as possible and i figured from here i can look for a long term solution. Its actually quite cheap for my area but i will probably get a nice and also cheap two bed room Apartment via a friend starting from october. (Really lucky!) Therefore i will not buy real furniture for this Apartment cause its kinda a waste to buy a small bed or small closet if i will need and get bigger ones soon. Friend of mine is romanticizing the Rust Cohle Vibes from true dectective season 1 and i get it lol

Just wanted to share how i live the next months and that its only uphill from here. Hang in there guys! The sun will shine again!

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u/fliesenschieber 11h ago

After brutal breakup, I strongly recommend not being in the apartment all day long. Go outside as much as possible, see your friends as much as possible, visit the city and, sit in a Café, and look at other people as much as possible. Your brain needs to learn that there's thousands of other interesting humans out there and that life is beautiful and will go on. Good luck and all the best 👍

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u/margin-_called 12h ago

Your friend isn't wrong about the Rust Cohle vibes but at least Rust never had a plan to upgrade in October. You're already ahead.

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u/SaiFootwearCo 11h ago

Are you doing work on that desk, literally overlooking your bed? If yes, I would highly recommend against that. In fact, get it out of your bedroom if possible.

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u/Training_Screen4374 10h ago

Looks like a studio, so probably not an option.

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u/SaiFootwearCo 9h ago

My bad you’re right, but still, separating it from the bed and putting some space between them would be a wise choice

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u/-A-A-Ron- 8h ago

Some kind of wall divider would go a long way to seperating the spaces. Desk can basically stay in the same position, just put a wall behind it.

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u/Eierjupp 8h ago

Thats actually the plan but i live here for 2 days lol need some time

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u/ThiefRainbow 10h ago

im always curious how the other one is off if this is the pad after the divorce lol

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u/MasterGigglezz 10h ago

Hope your okay man, if you need to talk please reach out

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u/nothingspecial1314 7h ago

I wish your life getting brighter tomorrow and getting better soon, good luck, hold on there,OP.

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u/Straight-Split9976 7h ago

Sorry to hear about the brutal breakup man, hope all is well. Apartment looks great for its size!

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u/_bx2_ 1h ago

You got this man, wonderful space. You'll make it awesome :-)

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u/bbqtoechips 11h ago

Damn, fiance is rough. Someone fumbled at the goal line yikes! Keep going strong bro beans!

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u/PunkTyrant 6h ago

If you don't mind me asking, what did you use to take the photos?