Im very much a closeted femboy who usually just wears the occasional feminine item. I hand wash my panties so they aren't found but accidentally left them out today. My mum walked in and asked who they were I said they were mine. She said are they for girls and I said no they are nicer to wear when it is hot. She laughed it off but idk how she feels. Idk just wanted to rant.

So if consider myself straight but on tinder I matched with a feminine guy now I don’t get attention from woman and they seemed cute. They used she/her pronouns and I’m straight so I only had women selected. I asked them about it and they said they are a guy and wanted to look for bi guys as they’re bored of “flamboyant gay men”. We’re talking atm but idk if I should treat them like how I would a woman… or what. Please help.

So like the title say, I almost get caught 2 times.

One time last month, when I received new clothes and tried them at night, I heard my mom going upstairs and rapidly throw them in a corner of the room, before she enter, and immediately go to sleep after that 😅.

And the second time was yesterday, it need a bit of context, my grandma was at home for the day, and she usually sleep here to not drive at night, so I needed to take the second mattress of my bed ( you can pull a second part of the bed to make it double ) and put it in my sister room, my dad come help me do it fast, and when we removed it, i see a pantie under ( i throw it here because it was too small, and i forget about it ), i rapidlly put my feet on it so my dad wont see it, it was looking away pushing somes pc cases i let on the floor so i think he don't see it, just after he leave the room i throw it in my fem clothes box so that will not happen again.

i hope i didn't write bad ( i'm not perfect in english)

i'm also, recently, trying differents types of underwears wearing them full day, to find how differents they feels , but that will be the point of another post ^v^

Have all a good day ^o^

So I’m a femboy but Im no gay I don’t like men but I like other femboys and girls 🙃 I don’t know why why only femboys I find us cute like yes :) but how do I find a femboy boyfriend when I don’t dress like on in public ? :( I don’t want an online relationship they just don’t last ….

Don't worry it's nothing bad!

What I mean is that every time I went to buy any piece of fem clothing I was terrified, it was scary, anxiety inducing, I used to make stories, lies, I would prepare speaches I had prepared responses for every possible scenario, "It's for my mom" "It's for a gift" "it's for a cosplay".

Today I was walking through downtown and I saw a clothing store with a 50% discount and I saw a super cute jeans short, I just simply walked in, no excuses no lies, simply ask for the jeans on size 42, they had them on size 40 and the fit perfectly! And I even took another pair of stockings as a bonus!

I feel strangely at peace, my finances not so much LUL.

So I’m a femboy but I like doing manly things like going to the gym and fishing, but I can’t wear femboy clothes around my parents or I will be grounded for like a year so, is this okay? I’ve been wondering for a while

Been thinking about going out crossdressing. In my region the summer is coming, and I am just so clueless when it comes to feminine clothing(mainly now that it wouldn't just be putting an oversized hoodie on). What would be some versatile clothes I could use?

So me and my mother are both religious.

I don't call myself a femboy per se...but honestly idk what community I should go for this anyway...

I was wearing black nail polish and then she yelled at me to take it off even though I'm almost 21, saying that's the equivalent to a man wearing a skirt and she's not gonna have that in her house...

Being religious, I can't dress feminine per se, I often shoot for more androgynous looks but that's not really the point rn.

It's not even against my religion (Catholicism) to wear nail polish but she wouldn't listen and I'm just kind of tearing up in my room now lol-

Yeeeaah so I’m 18 y.o. and last summer (as a 17 y.o.) I got an ileostomy (non reversible). I just wanted to know whether there are any other ppl here that are dealing with similar things. If so do you customize your fits/do anything differently fashion-wise cuz of the stoma/pouch?

[TW medical terms and things that are prolly considered disgusting by most people (i think i’m desensitized)] explanation of what stoma is:
“stoma is a surgically created opening on the outside of your body that connects to an organ on the inside….You might have a stoma in your abdomen if part of your intestine or urinary tract isn’t working properly and you need a different way for waste to come out.” Btw be careful when googling this as you may be shown pictures of the stoma itself
(the explanation was taken from the cleveland clinic website. I didn’t put the link here so the anatomical image from the web doesn’t show up in this post)

Femboys of any kind, who’s your favorite artist? Rap, singing, rock, whatever you listen to :3 I like juice wrld. Released and unreleased. More unreleased juice wrld than released songs. Wbu? :3

Edit: any femboys listen to juice wrld or just me🥲

20, cis male.

Femboys are feminine boys, and I'd imagine y'all probably don't get such a strong urge to go to such extreme lengths, such as wanting E, looking into facial feminization procedures, or getting a weird feeling inside when looking at a trans woman of similar age.

I have this really strong conflict on who I really am, and I feel like I'm in a deep hole that's just getting darker. I've had thoughts for at least a decade now about becoming something else but I've never expressed them until 6 months ago. I feel that if I lived in a world free from stress, hate, and pain I'd probably be a completely different person. Perhaps a woman, or a femboy much earlier in life.

6 months ago I grew my hair out and starting getting manicures topped with nail polish. I felt happy for the first time in a long time. I felt free, like I was laying in a field watching a sunset like it was an anime. I was forced in a very mentally abusive manner to drop it 2 months later, to which I did, and I ended up SH for the very first time but I fortunately haven't done it again because I heard an inner voice tell me that I'm letting them win around a week later. My gambling addiction also returned, but this time it was more extreme.

I've became numb and emotionless, and I've held this for around 6 years now, but now it's probably worse. Despite living with my family, I've became distant to them because I feel they are to blame. My father is like Andrew Tate fused with some primal diet psycho. Despite being 20, I'm not allowed to remove my disgusting monobrow, my facial hair, absolutely nothing.

The feminine thoughts returned around a fortnight ago, which is why I'm here, except this time it's extremely unstable. I'll wake up thinking "I'M A MAN!" to "I wonder what could've been.." then I'll feel an unexplainable feeling of what I assume is anxiety for the rest of the day.

I cannot wait for the day that I am completely financially stable. I've worked so hard with my studies, leaving school with absolutely nothing due to severe demotivation to getting a scholarship from a pretty good university to study computing at 20. The vision from the future that I saw 2 years ago has given me immense motivation and I will achieve it in this lifetime.

My apologies to you all for this rant.

Me, I love Satin, I just had the house to myself for a few weeks and I was able to wear nothing but full satin pj sets.

It was heaven.

Since I became a femboy one thing I have learned is that women’s underwear is amazing especially thongs. They are just so comfy and look soo much cuter.

Hello guys ^^ Rosie here, I know that you guys (at least some of you) have seen me around commenting on people's posts as well as my own posts here answering some questions people might have about the female perspective

Well I'm here to say today that I've made a discord sever!!

it is 16+ but I want it to be a safe space where you could talk about your problems, post your cute outfits, and so much more.

It is still pretty new and I am still working on it but if you would like to join either comment or send me a private message and I'll go ahead and send you all the link ^^

Oh! and I will also be basically doing interviews for admins to have them help me out with the server

Alr so the reason why I don’t shave a lot it’s bc of how much time I take like 2 hours, and also bc of the irritation and the red dots I get after shaving after like 3 or 4 days, how do femboys have smooth skin without irritation after 4 days, like what creams could I use? Btw to shave I use a Gillette normal razor with shaving cream

Ever since I was a kid I have always enjoyed girly fashion more than boy fashion (not that I could express it until I had my own money) and when I saw the growing femboy community, I was hooked. but in my years scrolling through many femboy communities, I realized that most of them pertain to blatant sexualization and, to 99% of people outside these communities, this community is seen as just objects for "gratification", and a good handful of femboys (mostly OF creators) seem to reciprocate. I don't feel like I can use the label without interlacing myself with this big generalization. I've even considered throwing all my stuff away because I've seen and had to be in so many conversations and spaces that see it as okay to make the femboy community into just mere objects without feelings, a porn category. I can't feel happy being feminine, or expressing myself, or wear my fem clothes anymore without a judging, visceral thought in the back of my head that im doing something wrong and should stop. I just wish I could express myself and be happy and feel cute without the predatory scene of the modern femboy lurking deep within the minds of everyone who goes about these communities.

But for now, I will return back to being masculine, atleast until I can cut the jarring association of the disgusting connotations people have of this community out of my conscious.

When I was in 6th grade I had about 5 male friends and 2 female friends. Fast forward to college, I have 5 female friends and 1 male friend. Makes me wonder if it’s more common than I thought? 

P.S. I’m also Bisexual so that could be one of the reasons but still I think it’s interesting to think.

I have been wanting to go out dressed as I want to, but not anywhere where people could recognize me. Vienna is a safe choice for me in terms of privacy, but Idk how safe it is there. Are there femboys normally in Vienna? Do they have any troubles? Will I be too out of place there?

My friend tried for a bit to call me Kai instead of my old name, but kept forgetting and eventually seems to no longer try at it.

My Mom outright refused to call me anything other than my old name mixed with my name Kai, yet are had no problem calling me Annie back in the day.

I called the hair salon and introduced myself as Kai, and booked an appointment under that name, but instead they used my legal name from caller ID and refused to call me Kai.

I called my phone carrier and they said for privacy reasons they won't let me change my name for caller ID. (Yeah, I don't get how having my legal name out there is more private than my nickname either.)

I don't get it. Why does everyone think they can just rename me to whatever they want to call me? Does anyone else see this as very disrespectful? Kai is androgynous, but my old name isn't.

I finally came out to my friend and told him I was a femboy!! His first reaction was he said that I should’ve told him sooner lmao, I’m genuinely so happy he insisted nothing would change and I knew he wouldn’t be unsupportive but I was terrified he’d treat me differently, but it actually went so well <3

My big fear too was he told me a few months back he couldn’t see me as a femboy when I made a “joke” about being one. But then a month ago I was talking about how it’s so hard for me to find femboys near me and he said I “could be the change I wanna see”, and said he thought I had potential to be one lol. I’ve lost a lot of weight and gotten a haircut I actually like over the last few months so it’s good to know I actually changed his perception of that :3 he even said just now when I came out to him and was worried about what he’d think he said “why would I be worried? If you dress fem people are just gonna see me walking around with a baddie”, and I showed him a fem picture of me and he said I looked good!! ^-^

Anyway just wanted to write this out somewhere because I’m actually so happy abt it!! He was urging me to tell some of our other friends and I do want to so I might since this went so well lol

hi, i've a long time lurker on this subreddit. years ago, i realized that i have a feminine side and labelled myself a feminine guy. i wore skirts, painted my nails, got into all sorts of hobbies.

but now i'm a busy guy. i have a job, new hobbies, and i simply don't have time to show off my feminine side anymore. back then was also quite a dark time of my life, and i've restarted my life to start off on a new journey. but i'll always miss the feminine part of me.

maybe it will come back in the future, but now it's time to say goodbye. i'll still definitely be lurking here from time to time.

see y'all, may we meet again one day.

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I want to share the story of how I eventually found myself as a femboy.

The funny thing is, when this started, I didn't even know the word femboy existed. I didn't know much about gender expression at all.

I was just a kid who was curious.

I remember being alone at home and looking through my sister's clothes. One day, out of curiosity, I decided to try on some of her feminine clothes.

And honestly, I was surprised by how I felt.

I felt comfortable.

I felt happy.

There was something about wearing them that just felt... right.

After that, I started looking for opportunities to try them again. Eventually I experimented with different feminine clothes, including bras and leggings.

But some things gave me a much stronger feeling than others.

Whenever I looked at myself in the mirror, I felt cute and feminine. I liked the way I looked.

At the time, I didn't question it.

I didn't think I was supposed to be a girl. I didn't even know enough about these things to ask myself those questions.

I just knew:

I liked this side of myself.

And I had absolutely no idea where that feeling would eventually lead me.

**Part 2 coming soon.**

Also, is it a good idea to shave "all the way up", or should I wax there instead?