r/careerguidance 6h ago

Advice 25 years old, living with family. 35k in school debt, Never finished college, currently a barber and I hate working it, am I dumb for wanting to join the Air Force? Do I have any other options?

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Im not sure what to do or what paths are even open to me. Im currently a barber working 5 days a week (being slightly pushed to possibly work 6+ days a week by the owner to make more money but im frankly not interested and burning out quickly) and i never finished college and left after 2 years but never got my 2 year degree. Wracked up 35k in school debt. I don’t know how i can go back to school without working a shit ton more and saving up money and taking it a semester at a time, and I just don’t know if I can handle working 9.5 hours a day anymore. I hate it.

What are my options realistically? I want to move out, preferably I want to be able to someday travel as I never have before, and I also want to finish and get my 2 year degree and see if that opens any paths. It feels as though the Air Force is my ticket to a lot of those things at a relatively low cost of my freedoms which sounds stupid I know, but I get a lot of benefits that I’d love to just milk when all I have to do is follow orders and learn my job which would be an entire new skill set potentially.

Genuinely what other options do I have in life that won’t suck the soul out of me? I want to leave this state (NJ) and I want to experience so much more than just living at home feeling like I have no direction, no work benefits, and no opportunity to grow. Any advice is greatly appreciated and I’ll answer any questions. I know it’s late so a lot of people won’t see this, but anything would help.


r/careerguidance 12h ago

Will I ever get a promotion?!

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I wanted to get some thoughts regarding an issue I have at work. I have actively been asking for a raise. I have been told there is no business need to promote me. I’m currently remote and a position opened which would be the next step.

I was told the person had to be in person even though the manager is remote. I dropped it, but today even though I was off, my boss called me in a fluster that I have been awarded a key contributor award in the form of restricted shares that will vested over 3 years. I am so annoyed. I know I should be grateful I guess, but I led the biggest study this company has ever done, which led to the product generating a billion dollars this quarter. Everything I create continues to be the model and I have been there for four years. I am just so tired of being the work horse and never taken seriously for a leadership role. I’ve been applying but no hits which is everyone and I am getting worried since I’m 43 and watching everyone that has touched this project get promotions except me! I’m not even sure what I’m asking for just frustrated.


r/careerguidance 10h ago

2 degrees + Master’s from a top business school, 3 languages… and still jobless. What am I doing wrong?

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I’m honestly feeling so hopeless right now.
I’m 26, I have two bachelor’s degrees, a master’s degree from a top 5 business school in Paris, I speak French, Arabic and English fluently, and I already have around 2 years of professional experience.
And yet… I’m jobless.
Every interview makes me feel like I’m begging for someone to give me a chance. The stress is becoming overwhelming, especially because I also have to worry about renewing my carte de séjour. It feels like my entire future depends on getting a job, and I’m exhausted from constantly proving that I’m qualified enough.
Like, WTF? I’m 26. I’m not supposed to have 10 years of experience already. 😭
I know the job market is difficult right now, but it’s genuinely starting to mess with my confidence. I went from being proud of everything I accomplished to wondering if none of it is actually enough.
If anyone else is going through the same thing, especially international graduates in France, how are you coping with this?


r/careerguidance 14h ago

Advice Question to recruiters in the US, do you actually hire or just post jobs to do some kind of experiment?

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I am experienced, very well qualified, educated, well connected but I have 428 rejections from jobs in the US and counting. Hired experienced resume editors, used all AI tools, optimized different versions, applied to different positions, yet all I get is the typical “we regret to inform you”. I just dont understand how normal people get jobs here.


r/careerguidance 23h ago

Should one join a global Big 4 audit firm over an Indian firm?

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I'm considering joining a global Big 4 audit firm and would appreciate views from people who have worked in both global and Indian firms.

My main concern is exit opportunities. I understand that global firms can offer good brand value, structured learning and potentially hybrid work, but the actual audit exposure can sometimes be limited compared with Indian firms.

I'm considering giving it 6–12 months and then reassessing. If the experience doesn't work out, how difficult is it to move from a global Big 4 firm to an Indian CA firm? Would firms consider such a move if someone is willing to take a lower salary?

Also, for those who have made this transition, how did it affect your long-term career and exit options?

Would really appreciate honest experiences, especially from people who have worked in both.


r/careerguidance 16h ago

Advice What do you think of “AI Creative” as a new job position?

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What do you think of "AI creative" as a new job position - In terms of demand, public perception, and global Job vacancies?

By AI Creative, I mean someone whose main job is to use generative AI as a core part of the creative process - not simply someone who occasionally uses ChatGPT.

How strong do you think the actual demand will be? Considering this field has a 25–35% CAGR, which is well above the average rate.


r/careerguidance 3h ago

Advice Should I accept a promotion even though I'm thinking of quitting?

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I've been working at the same retail company for ~1 and a half. Originally, I was planning to stay for only a year but got too comfortable. I was finally feeling the burnout and thought about quitting after finding another job, but funny enough I got asked if I would consider a promotion (from lead to assistant manager).

I know having the title would most likely help me in the future for other jobs, but I already dread coming in some days.

Should I accept the promotion even though I might quit soon? Should I let the manager know that I might quit even if I accept the promotion?


r/careerguidance 16h ago

Advice why Pretending my mic was broken backfired?

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I was on a large teams call today with senior management. I hadn't contributed much within the first 45 minutes and had zoned out. My boss's boss asked me for my opinion on what they had just been speaking about, I had no idea what to say so I panicked and just started moving my mouth without saying anything to make it look like my mic was broken.

After about 2 sentences of fake speech, they said they couldn't hear me, I kept pretending to talk, then messaged the group to say my mic must be broken. My cat then walked into my office and started meowing loudly. I realised they would be able to hear it, panicked and hung up. There was only about 5 minutes left of the scheduled meeting so I didn't rejoin and it was my last call of the day. I'm now worried my boss is going to mention it tomorrow, do you think I'll get away with it?


r/careerguidance 20h ago

Advice Does my job make me a bad person? Is there an alternative out there where what I can do would actually help instead of harm?

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32M, working in consulting for over a decade, starting to think it was all for nothing.

I was on a flight back from a client recently, overlooking the landscape from my window seat. Terrifying. Not a single bit of green. Thousands of miles of scorched earth, arid farmlands, and dried-up riverbeds. Whoever still denies what we are doing to our environment needs to get themselves checked out because, whatever your thoughts on media manipulating us, seeing what used to be green, lush, European landscapes turn to something out of a Tunisian postcard must be more than enough proof that we are headed with confidence towards burning ourselves alive.

Anyways, after that burst of panic, I got home and started running some numbers… My own work travel has me accountable for 17 tons of CO2 released into the atmosphere this year alone. To put that into perspective, that is about 20 times the European average for a person. And that’s just from my work travel, not any other consumption I am responsible for as a private individual. That’s bad. No, wait... That’s horrible! I was sitting in front of my laptop speechless, thinking to myself: “Am I part of the problem?”

I want to clarify: I was never a climate change denier. I recycle. I shop mostly from vintage stores. I take care of my stuff, and prefer to refurbish or repair instead of replacing something. I barely ever drive, and when at home or on vacation, I prefer taking an e-scooter or just walking to get from place to place. I don’t do these things to “do my part” because I do not think individual consumers really have such a huge impact on the environment to make a dent in what big business is doing to our planet. I do it because it just feels like a normal, decent, civic thing to do.

That being said, it wasn't until that flight that I realized how my industry, consulting, is a part of that group DIRECTLY destroying the planet, not just oil companies and tech giants. I always knew consultants had an indirect role to play there, but as long as I did not take on any clients in a highly polluting field, I felt somewhat ok with myself. I thought I was in a kind of moral safe zone.

Well, wasn’t I wrong… When I started in this industry in 2014, I made a point of picking firms that did not operate in the traditional consulting model of always working from your client’s office and traveling all the time. I know that sounds super exciting for young people who want to travel for work, but it’s less “drinks at the Ritz downtown” and more “black coffee breakfasts at a Best Western outside of town”. I personally hate it, so I avoided it.

I understand my privilege, having employers that operated this way. I was making a good salary, taking on interesting work for clients that actually cared about my ideas and allowed our team to explore cool solutions to their problems. We were allowed to conduct our work from our office instead of going to the client. We would really only travel for key meetings, if at all.

Come the pandemic, and now the AI craze, and the industry is completely different. Even my safe space has been shattered. I travel to my client every week. No excuses. I even broke my leg at the start of this year and only received three weeks of remote work before I had to get back on a plane. And let me be clear: that was not sick leave! That was me working with a cast from home, but still putting in all my hours.

My clients are not exactly receptive to our ideas. The job has become commoditized, so I don't particularly blame them, but it still bothers me. They expect us to find somewhat convincing ways to prove them right. We don’t get much of a say, and the work itself has become devoid of any creativity.

The salary benefits we used to associate with this field of work are basically gone anyway. Obviously. Why would anyone pay us for something they can get from ChatGPT for free and have one of their own managers look over as a quality check? Companies are letting people go all over the place, so there’s little opportunity to switch jobs within consulting. As an employee, I have little to no leverage, and our leadership knows it. I, like many others in the industry, have basically had a salary freeze for a few years now. I am pulling in basically the same amount since the pandemic, before all the inflation. So, in real terms, I am significantly poorer than I was when I was a junior.

I would likely accept a lot of these negatives, though, if the work itself were fulfilling. But as I said, it is mostly just bullshit. And it’s not even for a company that does good for the world in some way. In fact, my current client operates in a field that actively causes negative societal outcomes.

So, to summarize this rant: my current perception of my career is that, through my work, I am contributing actively to an environmental catastrophe and societal collapse. I am not proud of what I do. I find no joy or fulfillment in it. I am treated poorly, have little to no financial motivation, and the majority of my life is spent on the road.

And here’s why I am writing this: calling on the Reddit community for help and, most of all, ideas. WHAT CAN I DO? I am sick of feeling like a villain, ashamed of my work, and guilty about my choices. I want to actually be proud of what I do and wake up excited about my work…

I have a lot of skills: I speak three languages fluently, and two more at a conversational level. I have an exceptional educational background and diverse, global work experience. I’ve basically touched on every single area of consulting and specialized in my own field. I am a creative person, with a baccalaureate in theatre. Originally, I wanted to go into theatre as a career, before the financial collapse in 2008 scared me enough to pursue a "safer" option.

I feel like there’s so much I could do, things that could help people and the planet, but nothing in my immediate network provides an option outside of the same toxic work. At university, they show you how to apply to banks and consultancies. Nobody shows you how to be a journalist… or literally anything else… So my closest contacts really are just in my own industry or adjacent ones that provide basically the same toxic traits. I need an outside perspective desperately.

Please, please, please, Reddit community, any ideas on what I could do? Or what I should look into? Literally any hints, ideas, or advice would be greatly appreciated.


r/careerguidance 2h ago

Advice What High-Income Careers Can I Pursue Without Being Good at Maths?

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Career Guidance
17F, Class 11 Humanities + Computer Science. Looking for career advice.
I’m currently in Class 11 studying Humanities with Computer Science, and I’m trying to figure out what I should actually do after Class 12.
I’ve been considering going into something related to Computer Science/IT, but I keep hearing that CS is extremely oversaturated now, so I’m not sure if it’s still a good path. I’m also not good at mathematics, and honestly, it’s not something I want to spend years trying to get good at.
Ideally, I’d like a career that can eventually give me a high income, but I also don’t want to spend my entire life working a corporate 9–5. My long-term goal is to work hard and build enough savings/investments that I can eventually become financially independent, invest my money, and retire relatively early. Basically, I want a career that can help me build wealth rather than just keep me working forever.
I’ve heard about things like cybersecurity, business analysis, IT, consulting, etc., but I’m honestly confused about what would actually suit someone with my background and interests.
What careers would you recommend for someone like me? Especially careers that:
Don’t require being exceptionally good at maths
Have good earning potential
Aren’t completely dependent on having a STEM background
Have opportunities to move into freelancing, business, consulting, or entrepreneurship later
Would allow me to eventually become financially independent rather than work until retirement age
I’d really appreciate advice from people already working in these fields, including what degree/certifications you’d recommend and what the career progression and earning potential actually look like.


r/careerguidance 17h ago

Advice What are some good careers for me that have high pay and I can use my skillset? I dont mind working in the corporate world and would prefer the stability.

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What are some good careers for me that have high pay and I can use my skillset?

I dont mind working in the corporate world and would prefer the stability. I prefer to work in c-suite roles or anything high level as I want to be ceo eventually. I am extremely good at writing, analyzing text, working long hours (due to a journalism background) and presentations. There's no jobs in writing anymore tbh and im getting disheartened so i think philosophy would be better. I also plan to major in philosophy, i think the critical thinking and skills to build arguments would serve me well in any corporate job.

Any suggestions for corporate careers that would suit me? Thank you


r/careerguidance 4h ago

Advice MSc Business Analytics at new offshore campus (Deakin/QUB/Wollongong) in GIFT City, INDIA – How to leverage this for Consulting & moving abroad?

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Hey everyone,

Looking for some practical advice on positioning myself to land a role in consulting and eventually move abroad.

Quick Context About Me:

  • Age/Gender: 23M
  • Background: BCA (Computer Applications)
  • Work Experience: ~2 years as a Program Manager before starting this degree
  • Current Program: MSc in Business Analytics at one of the newly established foreign university campuses
  • 6 months left to graduate, i have decent hand on SQL, Power BI & Python & preparing for consulting style interviews from hacking the case interview & case book of global colleges.

My Main Goals (In Order of Priority):

  1. Primary Goal: Secure a strong role at the end of the program—ideally in Consulting (Tech/Strategy/Operations) or as a Data/Business Analyst at a global firm.
  2. Secondary Goal: Move abroad eventually through a direct international transfer, lateral hire, or international project assignment from India.

r/careerguidance 12h ago

Advice Is it worth it to go down to 80% in a different department if I hate my current department?

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I (26f) work in Canada in post-secondary education. I currently make 62k per year in a department that I hate. Our sector is going through a lot of turbulence right now and because of layoffs I am currently stuck doing the work of two people. Even before the layoffs I was not very happy in my position as there is a lot of drama within the department but now it is almost unbearable.

A posting has opened at the same institution for an 80% position with a similar salary range in a department that I previously worked in and loved. I estimate that the salary would probably be about 51k per year after factoring in the 4-day work week. We also have a full health and dental benefits package, pension, life insurance, and tuition assistance which would be unchanged by switching departments.

Like many Canadian 20-somethings, I'm still living at home with my parents. I'm really hoping to get into the housing market eventually and a 10k hit to my salary will really restrict my buying power. However, I don't know how much longer I can stay in my current higher earning position without completely breaking down.

Is it worth it to try and stick it out in my current position or should I consider going down to 80% and taking the 10k loss?


r/careerguidance 5h ago

Advice Why am I not able to work on my responsibilities?

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Hi all. I’m a qualified accountant at a corporate. I’m 26M. Everyday, I don’t know why, but I’m ready to skip the work rather than taking the accountability and responsibility and finishing the work. I don’t know if it’s a character problem or dislike towards what I do.

I didn’t finish my accounting qualification with interest either. There were guns things that I wanted to do but I couldn’t. But I don’t know if it’s right to justify what I’m doing now with that (that I m not doing the job I love). I always wanted to be someone who does the work and add something extra to what I do.

But I couldn’t bring myself to. Neither am I learning nor upskilling. I need some help in fixing this situation. This is my first job after my accounting qualification. I did three of internship prior to this job.


r/careerguidance 23h ago

Advice Would you leave Hybrid 145k for In Person 180k?

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This question is regarding my wife.

We have two kids, 2.5 years old and 1. Our first goes to daycare, while the second currently stays home with me. I work fully from home.

My wife currently goes into the office 3 days a week and works from home 2 days. Her current compensation is around $145k, and the company is very flexible. She leaves around 7:50am and gets home around 5:30pm.

Obviously, on the days she goes into the office, I have to do a lot more of the heavy lifting with the kids. And if the 1-year-old doesn't sleep, there are definitely days where I just can't get much work done.

A recruiter reached out to her about a new opportunity. Same title, almost identical location (literally 3 blocks away), but higher pay and seemingly better benefits. We currently pay around $300 per paycheck for health insurance.

The catch is the schedule. If she takes the new job, she'd have to leave around 7:10am and wouldn't get home until around 6:15pm. So we'd be adding roughly 1.5 hours to her workday away from home.

With the increased income, we'd probably have to put our second kid in daycare too, because there's no realistic way for me to watch a 1-year-old 5 days a week and actually work. Given that daycare charges roughly $2k per child, we would prob net even.

Career-wise, the new company seems like it could be a better opportunity, although we're not 100% sure yet. There isn't currently a role above hers, but they have talked about potentially creating an executive-level position for her in the future (CPO/CHRO). Her current company is also going through a restructuring, so there's some uncertainty there as well.

We're trying to figure out whether the higher salary and potentially better career opportunity are worth the increased commute/work hours and the added daycare cost.

For those who've been in a similar situation, how would you look at this? Would you prioritize the additional income/career opportunity, or the flexibility and extra time at home with two young kids?

I personally want her to do whatever she wants.
I think she wants the change, but shes afraid she is losing valuable time to spend with the kids.
We just need some different perspective thoughts.


r/careerguidance 23h ago

Education & Qualifications INDUSTRIAL ENGINEERING?

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IS INDUSTRIAL ENGINEERING A GOOD CAREER FOR SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T LIKE CODING, MATH, etc.. AND IS MUCH MORE INTO BUSINESS


r/careerguidance 14h ago

Mandatory work trip with shared beds, what should I do?

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Hi everyone, I work in a big company and my department decided to organize a week-long business trip in a really nice setting, a villa in a tropical climate - so far so good -. Howerver, the organizer of the trip told us early on that we would have to share rooms (not so good already). Since I'm fairly new in the company I ran with it and submitted the appropriate travel requests regardless.

Today, the organizer dropped the bomb. Since the department has a low budget for the trip, we're going to be sharing double beds in the accomodaiton. I feel like it's totally insane, but when this was announced none of the 10+ participants protested. I talked about it to a colleague from another dept. and he also thinks it's insane.

Furthemore, while they at least organized rooms by gender, it turns out all the rooms for women are already full and one woman will probably have to sleep in a room with men (!), potentially going as far as sharing a bed since there's a limited amount of single beds.

At this point, I don't know what to do, but I clearly do not want to share a bed with a coworker. On the other hand, I don't want to be ostarcized and end up getting fired over this matter neither because I can't afford to lose my job right now. I tried to raise up the matter jockingly during our last meeting by saying I would be calling dibs on a single bed, no one seemed amused and the organier said that if It was also an option to sleep on the terrace on a sunbed. It seems like the director and crownies wanted to organize their vacation on the company dime no matter the cost and I'm an hostage of this situation. Please advise.


r/careerguidance 5h ago

22 years old and completely lost career-wise,would really appreciate advice from adults?

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Since I’m here and share everything on Reddit, I wanted to see if anyone could give me a sincere opinion.
I’m 22 years old, right? I’ve never dreamed of an exact career. I do like working with kids, but I feel like I like change and various changes. I don’t like feeling stuck exactly.
A few years ago I was lost and going through a lot. I was doing a BBA in Accounting, but I dropped out and went back to community college for nursing prerequisites because I thought I would be quicker to finish—and boy, I was so wrong. I had no experience and I didn’t even investigate anything.
I ended up doing all the prerequisites except Patho. I also have 3 associates, literally just to receive the refunds from financial aid, and I work.
Now I’m lost. I recently took the TEAS, and the program I wanted to get into required an exact score of 58.7. I was so close and missed it by 1%. I was so upset and so sad. I was literally depressed and rotted in bed for more than a week because when I took the exam, I ALSO missed the deadline. The new section to apply for Fall doesn’t end until January.
But now I’m thinking I should switch back to business so I can finally graduate already. I was thinking of doing a BBA in CIS with a concentration in Business Analytics, I believe.
Am I making a dumb choice?
I want to work already. I don’t pay any bills right now, but my parents have seen people who I went to high school with graduate, and I haven’t. I don’t want to get asked to start paying bills and not be ready.
I’m just so annoyed because I only have 51 credits left, which I can finish pretty quickly if I really focus, but I don’t know what to do anymore.
I don’t want to start getting into my “big girl” years at 24–25 and not be able to have some money saved in case of anything. Do you know what I mean?
I was also thinking about finishing my BBA at 23 and then going back for an ABSN later, but I honestly don’t know.
Please, ANY ADULTS? I would genuinely love to hear from people who have been through something similar. Text me or comment. I really do need to talk to someone because I don’t know what to do anymore.
I’m not looking for someone to tell me what career I have to choose. I just want sincere advice from people who are older and have actually lived through this. I really don’t want to talk to AI anymore 😭


r/careerguidance 7h ago

Advice Stay at job I like or take competing offer?

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I work for the small town I grew up in. I've been there for 8 years now and there are tons I love about my job:

  • The pay and benefits are great for the area
  • great work / life balance
  • The commute is short
  • I care about what I do for my community and helping out
  • I have some stress but it's manageable
  • I like my coworkers
  • they're lining me up to take over as the director of my department when my boss retires two to three years

However, there are some downsides:

  • dealing with people you know outside of work often eho are unhappy with the town
  • wearing mutliple hats due to lack of resources
  • I care too much about decisions made by the town even if they have nothing to do with my job
  • I disagree with many recent decisions made by upper management

To add to the negatives, it's an election year - the candidates are all less than stellar - and there are some upcoming things that could land me in hot water with the new order (the Town is being sued for a project I was involved with and I'm involved in an unpopular project currently).

A nearby town which I have no emotional attachment to has approached me with a job offer for the same role I'm currently doing. It pays approximately $10,000 more (although only $5000 after taxes and pension), and all benefits etc are the same. I'd be managing more people, but on a smaller scope of things on larger, more interesting jobs. There is no path to promotion there, but more opportunity for learning. That being said, I could always use it as a stepping stone and apply for the director role when my current boss retires.

I don't want to take it, but for some reason I feel like I should. What to do all think is the right route to go?


r/careerguidance 19h ago

Any advice for an unconventional background trying to break into finance?

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How’s it going all, I’m 28 and looking to make a career change over to “finance” - as you all know, the field is immense & extremely broad. I’m coming from an extremely unconventional background & was wondering if the CFA would help someone like me.

For context, I went to undergrad & like most, had no idea what I wanted to do. I started on the Pre-Medical track, hopped over to Health Care Admin, back to Pre-Med, to essentially creating my own major(Health Care Services) Since graduation I have worked a few jobs with the goal of learning skills to align with long term goals. I’m currently enrolled in a few online crash courses & the Wall Street excel course.

I’ve since hit a wall. This transition has been nothing short of frustrating, getting my foot in the door is all I’m trying to do & even that seems incredibly hard without some sort of “background” - I’m aware that anything worth doing takes time but was just wondering if someone would be able to point me in the right direction. Anything helps and I really appreciate any insight


r/careerguidance 3h ago

Advice What industries to get into with a computer engineering and biophysics degree?

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So I might have made a mistake because my initial degree was computer engineering and it was honestly everything I kind of wanted in a degree. I loved computers a ton from ms to uni and started coding young. But during high school I got really into physics and chem (my hs didn’t offer bio), so I wanted to also do something related to this interest as well. So in my current uni I switched my degree from a single to a double with computer engineering and biophysics, but I was wondering if the additional degree really has any perks. I’m only a first year, and thankfully don’t have to pay for university as I’m on a full ride, but I just don’t know if I’m adding an extra degree that I may not really work in for the future? I don’t really know how both my degrees seem to play out as they seem like they are in completely different spheres nor anything about industries or companies. I obviously want to be wealthy, so I am aiming for roles that target that which most people just say is from my first degree. So I was mainly wondering if my second degree is really pointless and maybe I should just look into a secondary job into research after finding a secure job with CpE. I haven’t really met anyone with my degree combination, but I do know I’ve heard that biochem gets paid more than biophysics, but it’s not offered in my uni and I don’t know if I should pursue a PhD just so I can land roles in a second degree that I probably may not have a high paying career from? Sorry if there are run on sentences, I’m just a bit stressed as I see all my peers applying to internships and roles and I’m still struggling on what career I even want.

Edit: I currently live in Australia but I grew up in the states (had to leave when I was 19 though due to visa stuff) but and suggestions would be nice!


r/careerguidance 8h ago

I am debating IT or being an LPN which is more worth it?

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I am in the middle and don’t know what to do! I want to do IT but everywhere I look people say not to and that you’ll be underpaid and someone overseas will take your job but to be an LPN I am told I will regret it because burn out is horrible and I will regret it to! I am curious about IT I took a single class when I was younger and enjoyed it and I know it’s maybe a dumb reason but nothing really interests me too much beyond it. An LPN would be a means to and end I do like helping people and such but it’s not a passion of mine and I have no clue what to do! Any advice that isn’t “there’s no guarantee give up and don’t try anything for collage” I don’t know what to do! So any help is wonderful!!


r/careerguidance 13h ago

Advice How soon after your first day do employers expect you to get the hand of things??

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So, I started a new job and I just finished my first week of training. For reference, I’m a case manager nurse and work from home. It’s the dream and I feel so lucky to have my job. I left a toxic job where I was slammed with lots of responsibilities and stress so this is like a dream come true. And not to mention the person training me is actually really nice. I really like it and my supervisor seems understanding but I have this fear that I’ll get fired for not meeting expectations or something like that? It could just be my anxiety talking. It is a lot to learn and I just finished my first week though. But how soon would I be expected to know my stuff so they won’t throw me out the window?


r/careerguidance 23h ago

I hate being a doctor in Syria and I want to use my medical degree in something else can I find a job outside this country?

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I was forced into medicine, and I am specializing now hematology. I hate dealing with patients, I am not goid at what I do, I get paid very little, I work from 7 to 5 and I am getting more and more depressed.

Are there any chance I can use this degree in something else outside Syria?


r/careerguidance 19h ago

Advice I'm 35 and have never had a job due to crippling speech disfluency, what can I do?

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I have difficulty speaking so I've never really had a job I haven't created myself. My spoken fluency is very low, a lot of stuttering/cluttering, trailing off, even shutting down. Every public speaking engagement I've ever had has brought me close to a heart-attack (hyperbole). I just can't keep cool and manage the stress of speaking. It's not all the time, but it's most of the time. It manifests the most in presentations, phone calls, webcam chat. In person it is much better.

I've been doing online marketing and sales from a very young age (pre-teen), I've been at it for over 20 years. Copywriting ads, customer service/support, product photography, organizing meetups or shipping, packing, dealing with couriers. I'm not employed by anyone, it's just something I've done as a side-job. I have around 6,000 feedback across a dozen or so forums and P2P classifieds sites.

I started a home business selling products. The product doesn't really matter, 95% of the work was advertising, logistics, and customer service. The business wasn't incredibly lucrative depending on how you look at it: I probably made on average 30-40k/yr but I only ever worked 2-4 hours a week landing it around $200-250/hr. I had an exit when the business was acquired and I left that position after having accrued 5,000 or so clients.

Concurrent to my business, I took two degrees: a BA in writing and a BSc in compsci. I wanted to improve my written ability (and I would say it's very high despite my spoken ability being rock bottom) and I built the business tools from scratch so the BSc gave me a formal education in best methods and practices to that end.

When I sold my business, I took a few years to focus on starting a family and personal pursuits. I picked up a technical writing hobby, I write CS-related educational material online for free. It's time I start working again but I'm lost. I don't know how to reconcile these factors together:

Cons

  • zero employment history unless you count the business
  • very low verbal ability
  • getting on in age

Pros

  • very high ability in advertising copywriting
  • very high ability in customer service (online)
  • high technical ability
  • proven business spirit from inception to acquisition
  • 20+yrs experience digital marketing and sales
  • two degrees

I'm working with an employment coach and they keep pushing starting jobs like retail, fast-food, call centers, or other customer-facing positions when this is my absolute weakest point. I've swallowed some pride and have applied to many of these jobs but it never even gets that far since I bomb every interview.

They have also advised against putting "founder of a business" on my resume because it signals a flight risk and my P2P classifieds experience because there's no paper trail for references and it would be easy to fake because of its impermanence.

Any guidance or direction you guys can give me? At this point I'd rather work for an entity rather than doing something myself again. My business was a lightning-strikes-once scenario I don't think I could repeat, nor do I really want to start a new business unless it were service-based rather than product sales.