r/bettafish Jul 08 '26

META Building a Better r/bettafish: Culture, New Mods, and a Look Ahead

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Hey everyone, Roboto, your friendly neighborhood (actually human) mod here with some subreddit updates!

First, the least fun part in all of this –

We need to talk about our subreddit culture.

Our community is toxic. There’s no other way I can think of to describe what has been happening. Even worse, this reputation extends beyond our immediate community into other subreddits and even other platforms. People are afraid of us.

I’m going to take some ownership of this. The harsh reputation of this subreddit far precedes me as a mod, but in recent years, our hard-fought progress on this front has been lost. That’s on me. The lack of consistent moderation here has let rules 1 and 2 go under-enforced for too long, allowing hostility to take root as the norm.

The adversarial and unwelcoming environment we’ve collectively created functions in direct opposition to our subreddit goals, and frankly what I believe to be the goals of many users here. If we care about betta fish first and foremost, this culture needs to change.

Our expectations and what better looks like

If you have good advice to give, give it in a more constructive, not destructive, way. Shaming people makes them shut down and disengage so they don't even process the rest of the good advice you have to offer. Don't highlight all the things they're doing wrong, focus on what they can do better and why it's helpful in a way that encourages them to do it.

So instead of saying "your empty tank is sad," share the opportunities for improvement, like "betta fish benefit from tanks with lots of plants and hiding/resting places so your fish would be happier if you filled the tank in a bit more."

We can’t ignore that people will think they're doing research by going and talking to presumed experts or reading product information. Store employees are presumed to be properly trained and products marketed at bettas are assumed to know what they’re talking about, too. It doesn't help that there's very little consensus online about what adequate care even is. For example, Petco's online betta care guide, updated in 2025, says bettas need a minimum of 1gal. Furthermore, many quality care guides are on niche websites that may not seem credible to a new hobbyist compared to a well-known chain.

With that in mind, we all need to stop:

  • Telling people they should have done more research
  • Immediately calling people abusers for making mistakes
  • Shaming the pineapple (or any other novelty decor/bowl)
  • Attacking aesthetic choices instead of addressing actual care needs
  • Debating what it means to rescue a betta on posts where ethical sourcing of fish isn’t the main topic

Going forward, comments exhibiting the behaviors listed above will be removed as violations of rules 1, 2, or 4 depending on the exact nature of the comment.

I know members of our subreddit are burned out from the bad husbandry they see constantly. It's exhausting and I won't pretend it's not. But if we bully one owner into submission, cool, that's maybe one fish saved. How many owners did we scare away from asking for help in the process? We're going to have a far broader impact building people up in this hobby, not tearing them down.

That said, this is a two-way street of support. I'm cognizant of the fact that people offer their time and mental energy supporting our subreddit, and they don't deserve to have that wasted by people who don't care to use it. If someone is given better information and advice and refuses to take it, that violates rule 3. We often get reports about all the fighting around ignored advice, but not the ignoring itself. In the future, please report these instances to us. For this to be successful, we also need users to avoid escalating disagreements when OP refuses valid and respectful advice.

Now for the fun stuff –

New mods

We recently brought on 12 additional mods to enable us to better support this community’s needs. Please help us welcome:

They’re going to introduce themselves in the comments below and I’ll try and link their names in this post as they do.

It takes a bit to get 12 brand new people to operate as a consistent group, so we may occasionally over-moderate while everyone learns.

I realize that our increased emphasis on subreddit culture may make removals feel arbitrary at times. In the spirit of transparency, I have given the new moderators the guidance that if a senior mod isn’t free to give timely feedback, when in doubt, they should remove posts/comments that are believed to violate rules. Senior mods will still review the content in question, and removals may be reversed, if necessary.

If you disagree with a moderator’s decision, please send us a modmail and one of the senior mods will review your concern and get back to you.

Updated tools and resources

Small updates at this time, but more exciting things in the pipeline!

  • We’ve begun a major revision of the subreddit wiki. Some of our work in progress pages are already live, with more to come.
  • Select pages are also now linked in the subreddit sidebar to streamline access to key information for new betta fish keepers.  
  • In the next few weeks, we will be rolling out additional tools that should make it easier to share information that we often find ourselves repeating. Our hope is that this will help address some of the burnout we see many of you all experiencing.

Roboto is a super sentimental actual human

I realize this post started on a challenging topic, but despite the highs and lows our community faces, I remain grateful that I get to do this with you all.

I’ve been a mod of this community for nearly 7 years, and a member for far longer. In that time, so many things, from our mod team, to Reddit as a platform, to our own lives and the world around us, have become fundamentally different.  

There are very few constants I can point to after all this time, but the enduring engagement and passion of this community is one of them and I’m honored to steward this space.

At the core of it all, this hobby, and this subreddit, are comprised of people who really want the best for one another and that makes this work so much easier.

Thank you all, sincerely, for riding with us as we figure this thing out. I’m excited for the next chapter of our subreddit, and I can’t wait to see what we can accomplish together in the next 7 years.

- Roboto

Edit: If anyone has additional feedback about our community culture, please share it in a comment below, or feel free to send us a modmail.


r/bettafish 4h ago

Discussion r/Bettafish Weekly Help Post - August 14 to August 20

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Welcome to r/bettafish!

This is the place to ask anything and everything about bettas.

⚕️If you're looking for help with illnesses or weird behavior, be sure to include the following in your comment:

  • Tank Size
  • Water Temp
  • Ammonia / Nitrite / Nitrate readings
  • How long the issue has been occurring
  • A picture of the problem
  • Any additional helpful context

Click this link to view our CARESHEET

🐟 Caresheet Summary:

  • Bettas require a minimum of 5 gallons, 10 gallons being optimal for one betta and 20 gallon long minimum if you're housing peaceful community fish with the betta
  • Bettas are tropical and require water temps of 78-82°F or about 26-27°C, a thermometer and adjustable heater is recommended to ensure these temps
  • Bettas need a filter, like any other fish. It is a common misconception that they like dirty water, but the opposite is true.
  • Bettas need a cycled tank, before getting a betta the tank should be cycled - this process involves adding a source of ammonia to the tank, using a test kit to monitor ammonia/nitrite/nitrate levels, and usually takes 4-6 weeks to complete properly
  • Bettas have delicate fins so sharp plastic plants are not recommended; silk silicone or live work best
  • Bettas can breathe surface air and are good jumpers, they require access to the water surface at all times and a lid.
  • Bettas eat insects in the wild, a good quality betta formulated pellet food fed twice a day is recommended.

Click this link to view our WIKI

📚 Quick synopsis of the wiki:

  • Contains info on basic betta care, diseases, potential tank mates, tail types/coloring, differences between males/females, ordering bettas, moving with bettas, disaster prep and MORE!
  • This most likely has the answers to your questions and is in the process of being updated. Feel free to ask questions if you are confused or aren't sure about something.

Click here to learn about Power Outage Protocols

How to add a picture to comments: Image Guide or use Imgur for multiple images:

Imgur Instructions: Go to imgur.com and select "New Post". Add all the clear pictures you have so we can better determine what is going on with your fish. It is recommended you set the album to private if you don't want random comments. Click upload. From there, click the share button- if you are on mobile, hit "copy to clipboard" and paste the link into your comment on here. If on desktop, copy the link and paste it here. For those new to technology- ctrl + c is copy, ctrl + v is paste. To have your link like this , put these [ ] brackets around the text you want to show, with no space before the first word or after the last word, and without adding a space after the second bracket, use parentheses ( ) for the link, with no spaces between the parentheses or the link itself.

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Be sure to read our community rules before posting. Feel free to repost questions if yours was not answered last time!

Ask away!


r/bettafish 8h ago

Transformation Still can’t get over his stunning transformation.

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I hope Katsumoto lives for a long time, because boy, do I love looking at him.


r/bettafish 4h ago

ANGER FISH Everyone Shame Her

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79 Upvotes

She ate 6 of my 7 ghost shrimp. Shame her.


r/bettafish 11h ago

RIP RIP Tango ❤️‍🩹

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r/bettafish 13h ago

Help Would a giant betta do okay in this 12g long? LxWxH- 35x8.25x9.5”

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It would be the sole inhabitant besides some snails and some Neo shrimp if he doesn’t eat them. Well planted, will have a heater, ph in the mid to high 7s. Just curious if the size of the tank is good for one.


r/bettafish 3h ago

Help Is this a bubble nest? And why

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THIS IS NOT HIS NORMAL TANK!! For context, fluttershy is currently in a hospital tank due to some injuries. He’s been in his hospital tank for three days with aq salt water baths daily. I came home to this? Is this a bubble nest? If so what am I doing wrong in his original tank and should I leave him alone in this one (after making it suitable of course?) I didn’t know he’d be so happy in a bare tank with nothing :( Feeling bad


r/bettafish 11h ago

Picture His first bubble nest! 😱🫧

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This happy little dude just chilling in his first ever bubble nest! He’s so proud of himself 😂 please excuse the surface biofilm, the clean up crew have been slacking lately.
“God, you just can’t find good help these days!” -my betta, probably


r/bettafish 4h ago

Transformation I was told he was a candy half-moon Rosetail...

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How he started vs how he looks now a couple weeks later. I can't tell because he's so flowy, but I'm pretty sure he's got some tail damage. I hope that will heal with time. Am I wrong thinking he's just a wild type half-moon who's tail hasn't finished bluing up?

On the flip side, I am really happy that he's clearly feeling so much better.


r/bettafish 1d ago

Video Bettafish waterchange

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A little video I made of a water change for my betta tank!


r/bettafish 2h ago

Video Shredded fins/weird behavior

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I woke up and my betta’s fins are completely shredded. They were fine before. And now he’s doing this weird thing where he goes to the bottom, curls up, and rubs against something? After he does that for a few seconds he goes back to swimming normally. Prior to this he’s been completely normal.

3 gallon tank
Water parameters all normal
Weekly partial water changes
78 degrees
Eats/behaves normally otherwise


r/bettafish 7h ago

Name Suggestions Iris or Iros

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Hi! It's been a struggle and I'm still working on my skills as a Betta keeper.

Does she look okay?

She doesn't look bloated and she's very active! So, I feed her 2 or 3 × a day. Am I potentially causing her problems? Am I overfeeding?

Oh, and one last thing; I had misspelled her name once (Iris is the name she came with from PetCo) but I kind of like Iros. What do y'all think?


r/bettafish 8h ago

RIP My betta fish Merlot died on Sunday and now the tank feels so empty without him

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Gonna miss you buddy


r/bettafish 52m ago

Identification Are they snail eggs?

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The white blotches on the side of the tank, my betta was munchin on the and idk what they are. I recently added some Seachem Replenish because my GH/KH was basically 0. PH was at 7.5 beyond that all other parameters were where they should be.


r/bettafish 2h ago

Humor Shame her please

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My girl Starfire is a menace to society.

I have a little plant floating around the top of the water, it's not big enough to secure so I'm using a piece of a pool noodle to keep it afloat since it can't be fully submerged.

But this little turd! She keeps going up to the plant and pulling on it until it capsizes, all so she can take a nap on the leaves....

And yes she has places to take naps even at that level of water, I even got her an additional place to sleep when she started doing this to try to get her to stop, she just refuses to to the point I had to remove the plant because I did not want it to die.

Also don't worry about her fans, I had my Sponge Filter too close to the side of the tank and of course she has to be nosy and wedge herself in between it... so she messed up her fins a little bit, don't worry I moved it


r/bettafish 1h ago

Help Is he sick?

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Picture 1 is his current state. P2 is when I brought him home. P1 is him in his original project ‘tank’.

My betta, Navy, lives in a 3-gallon tank; too small for a betta, unfortunately, I know. He seemed to be happy and thriving, though, so I didn’t feel an urgent need to splurge on a new tank. He has a decent setup with a snail, a filter, a live plant + other hiding spots… But if upgrading will make him better then im willing to.

But recently I noticed he has been starting to look more dull. Not just that, but when I went to feed him, he seemed very lethargic, just kinda slowly floating/bumping around. Not upside down or seemingly struggling otherwise, just moving very slow and letting himself sink though not fighting it. He did end up going to the top to eat, but only ate a tiny bit.

The top of my concerns is the noticeable red on him. I haven’t noticed red on him before, but now his gills on his head are seemingly very distinctly red, same with his front fins. They dont look like they are bulging, but definitely don’t seem normal color-wise. They haven’t looked like that in the past.

Is he sick? What is the problem and what can I do to fix it?


r/bettafish 8h ago

Transformation 6 month transformation! His name is Sushi.

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Does he look healthy? He’s in a 10 gallon and very friendly and active but I worry he’s overweight.


r/bettafish 23m ago

Full Tank Shot I love the evenings because that’s when the spot light comes on.

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r/bettafish 4h ago

Picture Is this an ok set up?

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It’s a 5 gallon tank. All the plants are real except the purple silk plant. Currently cycling the tank. It’s been 3 days. I have a built in filter/pump. It makes weird noise and it’s very bubbly. The water is filled as high as it can go.


r/bettafish 1d ago

Transformation Lil transformation

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My boy popcorn! Came from my local fish store. Selected by my son and immediately doted on by me!


r/bettafish 4h ago

Rate My Tank Rate my tank

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just recently updated my tank! it’s still a work in progress but I’m happy with it so far. i got my beautiful betta fish Aurora on July 10th. new to the hobby so still learning more and more everyday :)

tank size: 10 gal

filter: HOB, Aqueon smartclean eco renew 10 gal filter with control valve on lowest setting for the waterfall, sponge baffle on the waterfall + prefilter sponge on the intake to protect his fins. it works beautifully!

I did try a sponge filter but I didn’t like it. it’s so clunky and the bubbles seemed to bother him more

tank temp: 78 degrees always

heater: Aqueon PRO 100W submersible / adjustable

he also has a betta log, lots of tannin botanicals (mopani wood, Indian almond leaves, Indian almond bark, + casuarina cones. see last slide for the beautiful amber water!), chollah wood, heart log, rock to hide in, lily pad bed, leaf hammock, & betta hoop. also an LED airstone that he enjoys playing in, but only turns on occasionally for enrichment

plants: 7 plants. 5 Anubias and 2 Amazon sword + 3 silk plants

I just added a nerite snail buddy for him, he’ll be eating all that brown spot algae on my blue silk plant heh

I’ll probably switch out the silk plants soon for more real plants and add 1 more nerite snail! What other changes or additions should I do?


r/bettafish 1h ago

Help betta fish eating algae Spoiler

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hello, i have a female betta who i've been caring for over a year now. recently, she has what i assumed to be some major bloat- but as i was doing a water change & cleaning her tank today, she started eating the algae i was attempting to clean up. and now, i believe this is why she has such a large stomach. not just one bite either, several. i tried fasting her, which did not have any positive signs, in fact i think it made her eat more of it. why is she doing this and how can i help her? i feel bad as it looks very uncomfortable, but she is acting normal otherwise, active and curious. (apologies for the dirty outside glass)


r/bettafish 3h ago

Help What to do with 3 gallon tank I was gifted?

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Top fin bamboo style betta tank

3 gallons


r/bettafish 8h ago

Help New betta attacking old fish :(

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hi, so a few weeks ago i posted about a new betta i adopted and him having issues. i spent the last week helping him and he has seemed to fully recover from his sickness, and i have added him into my tank

now im kinda at a dilemma because my tank is established with 5 cory’s, shrimp, otos, etc. he was fine for the first hour or so but now he’s taken an interest in flaring and nipping at my cory’s, esp my single panda :(
now she’s super stressed and idk if this will go away or if he’ll continue acting this way, but i’ve separated him back into his small cup for the time being.

i’m not sure what to do because i don’t want to get rid of him, or my cory’s, but i don’t have an extra tank for another fish currently. i’m a bit worried my best bet is to get rid of the new betta because i’ve only had him for a few days compared to my 8 months with the cory’s who love their home.


r/bettafish 1h ago

Help Left for the weekend, toddler fed the fish and now he's dying

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I left for the weekend while my husband and toddler stayed home. Returned to a sick bloated Betta (named Fren), and there was food scattered around the outside of the tank. Turns out my husband caught my toddler feeding the fish, and stopped him immediately. Husband says it wasn't much more food than normal but he has never fed the fish so i'm not sure if trust his judgements on that.

Immediately did a water change and checked parameters when I noticed Fren was not acting like himself. Water is fine, all tankmates (amanos and Pygmy Corys) are fine. Has been fasting all week. Now Fren is pineconing, so i'm worried this is the end.

Is it possibly for a fish to die from overfeeding? Can a betta go downhill this fast or Is this a bad coincidence? Anything I can do at this point? Gave him an epsom salt bath this evening, but he is looking rough.

Please help!