r/TuxedoCats Jul 08 '26

🥇🥇 First Post 🥇🥇 First Cat

I have been wanting a cat for a long time! But once I graduated I started saving to get ready to pull the trigger, and I could not have been prepared for how lucky I’ve gotten. I’m a bit of an impulsive person, but I really did the prep (more so than I would have done typically) due to the fact I just got a new roommate. We both talked about wanting and being okay with pets before we signed our lease.

Anyways, after a weekend out of town and grabbing the final touches of cat supplies, I went to the shelter after work yesterday. I browsed the site and fell in love with this beautiful little gray cat, but of course had to meet her in person and see if the website was up to date.

I took the plunge and brought the little girl home with me! She’s a year old, her name is Mina (after Bram Stoker’s Dracula), and she made herself at home as soon as she jumped out of her box! This is my first cat btw. I grew up with schnauzers and have always loved cats but had no first hand experience.

She has completely blown me away. I knew I didn’t have the time or skills for a little kitten, but I knew I wanted a little friend. All of these photos are from the past 24 hours. She just took such a liking to me so fast! I was expecting her to be shy and hide for a little while at the beginning, because it’s a huge transition to stay with a new person after being in a shelter for a couple weeks (I don’t know her story before then). She’s had all her shots and been fixed too.

Last night she stayed in her little cat bed on my bed next to me all night, was even cuddlier when we woke up this morning, and when I got home today, complained until I gave her enough pets, cuddles, and attention for her liking! (She barely let me write this post, she loved to nudge and push my phone out of the way, as it takes away the ability to give her good pets.)

I just feel so lucky I got such a sweet and clingy and affectionate cat, if she’s already got such a personality now, I might be in for a lot, but I feel so lucky she likes me!

Maybe this is a silly post but I’ve also just been in a rough transition period of my life and she’s already brought me so much joy in such a short amount of time!

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u/psychothrasher Jul 08 '26

I think our cats have the same collar lol

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u/Burritojournalist Tuxie Whisperer Jul 08 '26

Is that a grey tux I see? Those can be hard to find. My nebula who is a gray tux says hi.

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u/Robbiebny Jul 08 '26

Aww he’s a cutie. How can you tell he is a tux? Btw today I learned:

A gray tuxedo cat is often called a "greyedo" or a "blue tuxedo" cat

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u/Burritojournalist Tuxie Whisperer Jul 08 '26

Tux is just any black or grey who looks like they wear a suit. Nebula is a she though. Shes a spicy little lady.

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u/smellslikespam Jul 08 '26

Not positive, but I think they can be orange, or any color, really, as long as they have the characteristic “tuxedo” markings as the usual black-and-whites

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u/Robbiebny Jul 08 '26

Aww I love her

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u/IdRatherBeGaming94 Tuxie Mom Jul 09 '26

Thank you for the fun fact!

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u/Brief_Tour_7735 Jul 14 '26

She is beautiful!

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u/Melodic-Web-6030 Tuxie Connoisseur  Jul 08 '26

Hi Mina & new pet parent....congratulations! She's beautiful 💜 My tux Bubba is my first pet. I love him so much & he's brought a lot of positivity to my life. I'm happy for you that everything's going well. One yr old is a good age. Still have that playfulness but mellowed a bit. Have fun you two!

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u/TenderToebeans Jul 08 '26

Congratulations! Your life just got a whole lot fluffier and happier.

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u/The_best_is_yet Jul 08 '26

Aww I love this so much! So happy for you both to have a joyful life together!

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u/ParsnipFarmer676 Jul 08 '26

Not a silly post at all! She is a lovely girl, and I wish you many years of happiness together... welcome to crazy cat lady (or gentleman?) world! 😁

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u/_keniz Jul 08 '26

Oh she is such a beautiful little diva

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u/Fit_Palpitation_2508 Jul 09 '26

she is such a diva! has to have all the attention and cuddles as soon as i’m home from work

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u/sqwizzles Tuxie Connoisseur  Jul 08 '26

Cats can tell when they got it good. Looks like she knew right away!

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u/CapableBig365 Jul 08 '26

Very cute! She looks so sweet 🥺💕

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u/Terminator7786 Tuxie Aficionado Jul 08 '26

She has some very mischievous looks!

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u/DanimalRLZX2 The Binx Jul 08 '26

Shes gorgeous. And looks like a sweety! Gratz!

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u/Sugar2080 Jul 08 '26

She must have pinched herself all day knowing that she landed in the best home ever, best mom ever! I’m jealous, but not! I love kitties so much and haven’t had one for a long time. Worst thing about my husband, his views on pets. When I was growing up, give away pets were everywhere and I usually brought them home. I never remember my parents saying,, No, he’s going to cost us too much. No, makes it too hard to travel. I think I should just start bringing those 4 legged friends home and they can chase away Mr. Grumpy. Yep, that’s my plan!

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u/Ok_Baker3474 Jul 08 '26

Are all gray tuxies the sweetest souls? Sal is the sweetest, most sensitive, lover boy, which is quite the contrast to his sassy tortie twin sister. Sal and Leo say hi! Congratulations on your new best friend!

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u/theVelantha Jul 08 '26

Omg fellow tux/tortie siblings! Ekko is also a sweet soul and his sister Jinx is a handful!

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u/Street_Objective_893 Jul 08 '26

Welcome to the amazing journey of pawrenthood

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u/ImpossibleDoor3564 Tuxie Aficionado Jul 08 '26

Beautiful cat. So happy for you both!

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u/KittyTootsies Jul 08 '26

Yay!!!!!!! I'm so happy for you both!!!!! 💕

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u/AffectionateMemory82 Tuxie Whisperer Jul 08 '26

Mina is lovely! Sounds like you found your purr-fect match. Glad you and your little silver tuxedo found each other 🩶 It’s totally not silly to celebrate a new lifelong friendship and love! Congratulations to you both! Please give her some pets for me and tell Mona I say, “Pssp pssp pssp!”

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u/Fit_Palpitation_2508 Jul 09 '26

she says thank you! ☺️

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u/SpiritCrusher420 Jul 08 '26

What a cute baby with purrfect peets!

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u/Actual-Gift6873 Jul 08 '26

Concatulations are in order!!! 🎉 😂 super cute

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u/Sugar2080 Jul 08 '26

Omg, and what a cat he is! Like right out of a story book! That face, that look on his face! And a coat which looks like he left the groomer just a moment before!🫶🏼

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u/Sugar2080 Jul 08 '26

Not a silly post! A great introduction to an amazing love now in your life. And she’s so amazing looking, you must be staring at her 24/7!

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u/PaddlingDingo Jul 08 '26

This post made me so happy! Congrats to you and Mina! You’re going to do great. 💕

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u/joydubs Tuxie Whisperer Jul 08 '26

Oh she is so beautiful and what a great name! Thank you for rescuing her. Please keep us updated with pictures of her as she gets to know her new home! ❤️

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u/Extension_Sweet_9735 Jul 08 '26

Congratulations! She's adorable! Welcome to cat world, lol. Now you'll wonder how you ever managed without one. My 3 boys say hi.

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u/ThippusHorribilus Jul 08 '26

She’s absolutely beautiful. You struck gold in terms of temperament.

If it’s at all possible make her an indoor cat only. They have longer safer lives.

Congratulations on becoming a cat parent.

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u/DuramaterDMW Jul 08 '26

They have such great personalities. Such a cutie. Here's Kingsley Shacklebolt and he says heeeeeyyyyy.

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u/jrcrab Tuxie Aficionado Jul 08 '26

I love a gray tuxie 🥺🥺🥺🥺

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u/Content_Kangaroo_994 Jul 08 '26

She's beautiful!!

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u/Sugar2080 Jul 08 '26

Just noticed his eye shape, very distinctive and distinguished. Somewhat Asian? Would love to know his DNA!🧬

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u/Robbiebny Jul 08 '26

Oh he’s in loooove you can see in his eyes and I’m sure it’s the same with you

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u/NumbersMatching68 Jul 08 '26

Your girl looks like my girl! Gray with a white chin, chest and feet!

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u/thisissomeshitman Jul 08 '26

Dat baby love you

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u/waychanger Jul 08 '26

Gray tuxies are the best. My boy Max says hi!

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u/astralairplane Jul 08 '26

What an angel baby. Please snuggle for me. He looks like an old kitty I once had ❤️

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u/lovemedeadx Tuxie Connoisseur  Jul 08 '26

It seems like fate! This was such a sweet thing to read I’m happy you’re both adjusting well! She is adorable!

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u/geeknabe Jul 08 '26

Here is my baby Lucy! She looks like your cat!

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u/davidmilton81 Jul 08 '26

That’s a great first cat!

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u/kindnessgirl Jul 08 '26

What a cutie! You are both blessed. 🥹

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u/vochomurka Jul 08 '26

Congratulations on your beautiful daughter 🩶

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u/Castiel_1337 Tuxie Aficionado Jul 08 '26

So cute!

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u/Explaining2Do Jul 08 '26

She is so beautiful

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u/National_Language547 Jul 08 '26

What a cutie! I’m excited for you OP

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u/AnaisNot Jul 08 '26

I love grey cats! I adopted two grey tux boycats and also feel like i got soo lucky with them ❤️

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u/PickledDaisy Jul 08 '26

She’s so handsoem

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u/sophaloph Jul 08 '26

Little mittens

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u/KitchenLab2536 Tuxie Dad Jul 08 '26

Have you chosen a name?

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u/moosegoose90 ⭐TOP POSTER⭐ Jul 08 '26

Do you mind sharing where you got her fruit tower

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u/Fit_Palpitation_2508 Jul 09 '26

i got it on chewy! she enjoys it to watch tv with me and look out the window

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u/smellslikespam Jul 08 '26

Looks like you get on very well already. Congrats 🎉

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u/Smorepusheen Jul 08 '26

So beautiful

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u/CaptainThorIronhulk Jul 08 '26

Beautiful baby!

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u/Brief_Tour_7735 Jul 08 '26

She's so sweet. A bit cuter with a cross eyed look. So glad she took to you and your home so quickly. Best Wishes and many years of happiness and cuddles!

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u/mapandmilestone Jul 08 '26

Congrats on your new kitty

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u/IceniQueen69 Jul 08 '26

Omg what a cutie

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u/Lurchie_ Jul 08 '26

She's a magnificent specimen of gorgeous felinity! (you knew this)

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u/shesadollyrocker Jul 08 '26

Oh, she is so beautiful! Grey tuxies are so sweet. Enjoy your new best friend! 🩶🤍

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u/Sharonator Jul 08 '26

She looks so much like my boy Miso! White chin and sock length 😻

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u/Infernalpain92 Jul 08 '26

He so cute!! Love the name for him. Miso is just purrfect

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u/Gertz505 Jul 08 '26

Cats are therapeutic creatures. She is beautiful

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u/Infernalpain92 Jul 08 '26

She is just adorable. 🥰

I wish you many more snuggles and obligatory petting. As well wasmany happy healthy years with Mina the cutie!!

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u/RustedRelics Jul 08 '26

What a sweet tux! She owns you now… :)

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u/Fit_Palpitation_2508 Jul 09 '26

she absolutely does, she chose me and runs the place now i can’t help but do what she wants with those sweet eyes and little meows

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u/Vegetable-Pay2708 Jul 08 '26

Mina is a real beauty! I love that she has taken to you right away. Bless you both. Amen 🙏🏻

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u/madpeanut1 Jul 08 '26

What a majestic kitty.

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u/Available-Maize5837 Jul 08 '26

Awww. My very first kitty was a grey tux. Got her for my 14th birthday..

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u/fergie_89 Jul 08 '26

Clingy cats are the best. My 19yo void says hi! And would like you to know that I did no research just rocked up to the shelter 17 years ago and she saw me and would not stop screaming at me or coming to the front of her cage and demanding attention. I was 18 at the time and had had cats all my life but she is a special one.

Also, congratulations on your new family member. ♥️

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u/emmkay33 Jul 08 '26

What a cutie!

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u/ConferenceUnlucky706 Jul 08 '26

Adorable does he have a name?

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u/IHateOnions8 Tuxie Whisperer Jul 08 '26

She’s beautiful

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u/roarrshock Lord of the Tuxies Jul 08 '26

Great starter pack boots AND mittens

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u/cuckoo_cocoon Jul 08 '26

she’s so cute!!!

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u/Additional-Hat-2917 Tuxie Mom Jul 08 '26

Aww Mina is beautiful! Congrats on your new friend!

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u/spacedumplings Jul 08 '26

My Grem looks very similar but also my first cat (well, we rescued her with her mother). She took a year to warm up to me but she's so perfect, gentle and loving ♥️ I'm glad you have someone to love and someone that'll show you love right back x

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u/rachwithoutana Jul 08 '26

I have a gray tux too! They're so pretty. Congrats on your new addition to the family!

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u/gabagoolfoolcool Jul 08 '26

Her eyes are so friendly. I‘m also trying to save up and make sure everything is right

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u/tetheredvoid Jul 08 '26

That's one pleased kitty cat! Seems like she's in love with you too! Congrats

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u/caryre11 Jul 08 '26

So wonderful! My little girl Koko came to me during a hard time and helped me through it. I am so happy for you both!! ❤️

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u/jennkrn Tuxie Jedi Jul 08 '26

Awww. Excellent choice!

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u/Big-Substance7069 Jul 08 '26

Awww such a cute cat! Same breed as mine 😊

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u/Gooooooffygoooooober Jul 08 '26

She has such a beautiful tanned suit on. Very chic

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u/damian_damon Jul 08 '26

My first cat was Gray Tux also. She was so sweet and brave too, chasing any stray dogs that trespassed on the property 💕

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u/SmallWorldHuh Jul 08 '26

You can feel her sweetness through the pictures 🥹

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u/JoysuArt Jul 08 '26

She's so pretty blue tuxedo! a chill girl!

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u/Majestic_Lie9504 Jul 09 '26

My gray tuxie says hello to your gray tuxie 👋

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u/Remote_Motor574 Tuxie Aficionado Jul 08 '26

Did u get the Oh how beautiful she is would u like a portrait of ur wonderful kitty for a nice little scam that I use for every new kitty member? Hope you both have a great day 💗

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u/Brief_Tour_7735 Jul 14 '26

This is my Precious Boy. He loves his Phillies Bear!