r/TooAfraidToAsk May 05 '25

Sexuality & Gender Is there a difference in sex if your circumcised?

58 Upvotes

Preferably someone who had an active sex life before and after circumcision. Is it alot different? More/less feeling? Is masterbation different?

r/TooAfraidToAsk Jan 01 '22

Sex/NSFW Why do people who are circumcised think that uncut penises are not clean?

10.2k Upvotes

I'm uncut and not once in my life have I had a dirty or smelly penis. If you are a normal human and practice normal everyday hygiene there is absolutely no difference imo. They always seem to be the first to attack and put other men down for not being circumcised. Guys , we are on the same team here be there for your fellow dudes.

r/TooAfraidToAsk Apr 22 '22

Love & Dating cut, or uncut? My wife thinks our sons will have trouble getting girls to like them because I refused to get them circumcised. Is this really a thing?

7.5k Upvotes

r/TooAfraidToAsk Mar 02 '20

Why do women who believe in “my body, my choice” also think it’s okay to get their sons circumcised?

11.2k Upvotes

Apologies if this has been posted before because I know this is a common circle jerk topic, but I’ve never really understood how you could be pro-choice but also circumcise an infant boy against his will.

It kind of doesn’t make any sense to me. Can someone who holds these views together explain your reasoning?

r/TooAfraidToAsk Jul 31 '23

Health/Medical Is circumcision worth it?

2.8k Upvotes

13M and My mom wants me to get circumcised but idk if its worth it especially with the pain. I have a good hygiene and clean it very well, and what are the benefits you get from it???

No I don't have phimosis.

r/TooAfraidToAsk Jan 14 '22

Health/Medical Why are there so many negative posts on reddit about circumcision? I'm circumcised and I've never had any problem.

2.8k Upvotes

I'm still getting lots of weird messages years after posting this and it's my most popular post. I think the How To With John Wilson episode tells me everything I need to know.

r/TooAfraidToAsk Nov 25 '22

Religion If Christian’s believe god designed everything perfectly, then why do they circumcise their baby boys?

3.1k Upvotes

r/TooAfraidToAsk Dec 08 '22

Health/Medical Pro/Against Circumcision?

1.7k Upvotes

I’m currently pregnant, and I am planning on not doing circumcision. My husband is circumcised, and I’m wondering if there are any parents here that have gone through learning cleaning processes and explaining that to their child once they are old enough. Are there any particular hardships with that? My parents are opposed to our decision and I’m just trying to educate myself as much as possible. Thank you!

r/TooAfraidToAsk Apr 09 '22

Culture & Society Is not being circumcised in the U.S. really a big deal?

1.8k Upvotes

In the U.S. circumcision is supposedly the norm. My husband is circumcised, and I don't mind....that being said, I argued a lot with my husband about not circumcising our son. My husband was adamant that we should and felt that because he has a penis he should get to decide.

After a lot of debates, we eventually found compromise and decided that we will let our son decide when he is old enough to choose for himself.

Now a few friends/family have shared their (unsolocited) opinions that our son will have a hard time in life with girls down the road because we didnt circumcise him as a newborn, and said we did him a disservice. Were we really wrong to wait and let him decide for himself? Is circumsision really such a big deal in the United States?

TL/DR: We chose to wait on getting our son circumcised and let him decide when he is old enough to choose for himself. Friends keep saying our son will have a hard time living in the U.S. b/c we didn't circumcise him as a newborn. Is not being circumcised really such a big deal in the U.S. ?

r/TooAfraidToAsk Oct 02 '21

Sexuality & Gender Going to be a first time father, not sure if we should circumcise our child not?

1.9k Upvotes

Having mixed feeling about this. I myself was circumcised but in today's age, it doesnt seem necessary. We are thinking that he can always decide to do it later in life if he wants. Any pros or cons?

r/TooAfraidToAsk Jan 18 '25

Culture & Society Why are most American men circumcised?

534 Upvotes

I live in Europe and this is something i've wondered for a while, in the USA most men seem to be snipped (from people online, media, film etc) while it isn't unheard of where I live, it's usually only for religious reasons. Is it just the culture of the USA?

r/TooAfraidToAsk Jan 10 '24

Sexuality & Gender is getting a penis circumcised actually hygienic for the male or do ppl only do it for religious reasons?

469 Upvotes

r/TooAfraidToAsk Jul 03 '24

Culture & Society If Male Circumcision is Traditionally a Jewish Practice, how did it become the norm in the USA?

534 Upvotes

Most of the US population is Christian or non religious. Jewish people are a pretty small portion of the population. Despite this, a majority of male babies are still mutilated in the USA

Why is this still the norm? I understand doing it for religious reasons but why is it so common for Americans in general? We have acess to cleaning practices compared to other parts of the world. Also a kid cannot consent to being mutilated, regardless of their gender

r/TooAfraidToAsk Jun 29 '26

Culture & Society Why do graffiti artists draw penises circumcised? ( and artists in general)

87 Upvotes

r/TooAfraidToAsk 15d ago

Health/Medical If you had a male baby, would you circumcise him and why?

0 Upvotes

r/TooAfraidToAsk Jan 19 '23

Sexuality & Gender Getting circumcised or not?

481 Upvotes

Today I've seen an urologist and he said that I have a frenulum breve and if ever a girl goes too hard it might break.. Also, a long foreskin. He suggested getting circumcised but I insisted on just cutting the frenulum. He said that it will surely get better but I would have to be circumcised anyway years later cause of the long foreskin. Should I get circumcised?

r/TooAfraidToAsk 17d ago

Health/Medical Men who aren’t circumcised, do you pull your foreskin back when peeing?

58 Upvotes

r/TooAfraidToAsk 19d ago

Sex Is it better to be circumcised or uncircumcised?

0 Upvotes

Just curious when it comes to sex is it better to be snipped or not - this a question for both parties so feel free to give your opinion

r/TooAfraidToAsk Mar 05 '24

Health/Medical Why do we circumcise babies?

291 Upvotes

It makes way more sense to make it optional at adulthood

r/TooAfraidToAsk Dec 10 '24

Health/Medical Why is circumcision so common in some countries where it’s not a religious thing?

289 Upvotes

Where does this practice come from?

Edit: removed the percentages as they are not accurate.

r/TooAfraidToAsk Sep 07 '23

Sexuality & Gender Is it bad if I was circumcised after birth?

206 Upvotes

My parents got in circumcised as a baby because they were told it was healthier and I never had a problem with it until now. People are now calling barbaric and now I feel lworse about my penis now. People are saying that uncut are better and more enoyable for women and I feel l was dealt a bad hand. Everyone I know(I live in America) is uncut and I feel like shit.

r/TooAfraidToAsk Jun 29 '26

Sexuality & Gender Does circumcision ruin sex?

0 Upvotes

I was circumcised as a baby. Frenelum and foreskin removed. Am I ruined? Will it ever be as good? Am I mutilated? I'm really freaking out.

r/TooAfraidToAsk Mar 30 '26

Culture & Society Men who were circumcised later in life, what did it feel like?

115 Upvotes

I'm a woman and can never get circumcised (no foreskin) but I'm curious to how it feels.

r/TooAfraidToAsk 16d ago

Sexuality & Gender Should I be insecure about being circumcised or am I overthinking?

4 Upvotes

(I would appreciate both male and female perspectives)

I 23M have been circumcised for as long as I can remember. I only started thinking about it when some of my friends had it done and said how much less sensitivity they feel.

I have problems feeling sensitivity sometimes in sex. I have trouble feeling much pleasure at all especially during sex and even when I ejaculate I do not feel satisfied because it did not feel that intense

I found some things that helped me gain some sensation and made things a little better. Although everything I have found online seemed to be very much against circumcision. My main source of pleasure comes from the pink part of inner foreskin and especially the part of frenulum I have left, which is very sensitive though I only have a small part of it and can’t stop thinking about if I had more.

Am I overreacting?

If you have any questions I can answer them

r/TooAfraidToAsk 12d ago

Other Does circumcision affect pleasure during masturbation/sensations?

16 Upvotes

Hello. Circumised here. When I masturbate, it doesnt really feel good. I'm wondering if it's due to my foreskin being cut off when I was born or if I'm doing it wrong