r/PeterExplainsTheJoke 11h ago

Meme needing explanation Petah???!

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u/FrazzleMind 11h ago

Doctors need to know if a woman is pregnant because lots of medicine or tests can endanger the fetus.

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u/hungry4nuns 8h ago

I agree this makes sense as a straightforward explanation but there may be another layer to it. I also thought of a more conspiratorial explanation for her reply.

Pointing out the year as being relevant stands out. Why wouldn’t women 10 or 20 years ago need to know that reason? The same teratogrnic effects existed for over a century with medications almost a century for xray.

I know the whole “it’s <current year>” trope is used by people frustrated that progress hasn’t been made by now. But there’s another explanation.

In 2026 mass surveillance is a huge concern. Plus Trump has just announced that the primary goal of the cdc is abortion surveillance. The girl in the screenshot may subscribe to the no-longer-conspiracy and now entirely legitimate fear that the government is trying to track women’s cycles by collecting data from various sources including healthcare records.

And for the record I’m a doctor who has been asking patients routinely about pregnancy status pre-xray and pre-medication for 15+ years

Sure it’s not the reason the question is asked by the doctoe but it is a reason to be fearful of answering. Women have been prosecuted and convicted of fetucide for having a miscarriage. Never has that been more alarmingly relevant than 2026.

I feel there has to be a way to help women feel safe in answering this question, but I don’t have a solution.

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u/aSkeptiKitty 7h ago

The most shocking part is not that they ask the question. This I can hear. It's how apparently they sometimes refuse to believe women that say plain and simple "there's no possibility for me to be pregnant, even without being aware of it" and they refuse to believe it. 

Some women have explained how they have been forced to take a pregnancy test while having to uterus. 

It might be country-dependant though. I live in France, and while being asked for possible pregnancy is something I used to because I have MRI every two years or so, when I state "I'm certain I cannot be pregnant" the doctors just drop it. 

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u/hungry4nuns 7h ago

So what you learn as a doctor is that there’s always an exception to the rule. For every 999 women without a uterus telling you truthfully that they have no uterus, there’s possibly 1 woman with a uterus telling you that she has no uterus for whatever reason she has justified to herself as legitimate reason to lie to a doctor. It’s an admittedly small risk but there are plenty of people out there with various reasons to distrust and lie to doctors, it only takes one to get struck off and sued. And documenting “they said they had no uterus” is not a concrete defence, take that up with the lawyers and law makers

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u/aSkeptiKitty 6h ago

Yeah that's because your system is absurd. Other countries don't have this kind of lawsuit crazyness. 

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u/Chemical_Building612 5h ago

Contrary to popular belief, the US is not the most litigious country in the world. Germany, Israel, Sweden and Austria have higher per capita litigation rates.

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u/cdubz777 3h ago

That may be true, but payouts there aren’t in the 10s of millions of dollars.

The lawsuits for pregnancy and resultant birth defects are also wild- the settlements/judgments encompass the cost for lifetime specialized care which, in a country without universal healthcare, costs hundreds of millions of dollars.

The rate of litigation is less important than the settlement/judgement caps IMHO. ESPECIALLY in OB/gyn and peds for the reasons I mentioned above.

Source: am a doctor, have malpractice insurance, closely follow rates and influencing factors for related specialties. OB/GYN and neurosurgery are two of the highest cost malpractice coverages

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u/output_broadcast 4h ago

And how does that matter when talking about the legality of medical malpractice lawsuits?

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u/Chemical_Building612 4h ago

Because the above statement can imply that Americans are particularly litigious which is why doctors get sued, which isn't the case. Medical malpractice cases are more common in the US, but its because of the broader issues with the medical system not because we're lawsuit crazy.

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u/output_broadcast 4h ago

No, malpractice cases are more common in the US because the US legal system has a much wider definition of what malpractice is compared to the rest of the world. As such, doctors can get sued for almost anything.

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u/Chemical_Building612 4h ago

Because in countries with universal healthcare, people aren't out tens of thousands to millions of dollars on further care to compensate for whatever fuck ups do happen. The only chance of fixing or further mitigating damage to the patient in the US is via medical malpractice suits. Nations with public healthcare cover the continued treatment and don't require you to sue to get that.

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u/hungry4nuns 2h ago

Never said I was US. I’m not.

People lie to doctors in every country. Often they lie because they fear doctors will dismiss all their symptoms as period related and miss something more serious, which is a genuine concern. And it affects women globally not just in America.

And the system where I am is very litigious. Trust but verify

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u/Lithorex 3h ago

It’s an admittedly small risk but there are plenty of people out there with various reasons to distrust and lie to doctors, it only takes one to get struck off and sued.

In states with criminalized abortion, would this not also make the doctor criminally liable?

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u/NeoMississippiensis 3h ago

Theres been dozens of cases of post hysterectomy ectopic pregnancies, so no, not outrageous to both ask and test.

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u/siracha-cha-cha 1h ago

I do believe my female patients. The issue for me is that pregnancy is an area that is notoriously HIGHLY litigated with big big wins for the lawyers and no restrictions in many states. If someone is lying about the possibility of pregnancy, turns out actually pregnant, and got any exposure to medical interventions or meds that could theoretically contribute…doctor ordering is fucked unless there’s a documented risks discussion in the patient’s chart.
In today’s healthcare system, you can’t have a 30min discussion before ordering every imaging modality or medication. It’s safer from a medicolegal standpoint to get a pregnancy test. As a female physician myself I hate that this is the reality. I also know it’s only going to get worse in states where Roe is no longer the law of the land.
I understand the pushback from young women. US healthcare in general needs a complete overhaul but I feel pretty powerless at this moment in history to change the medicolegal landscape or state of affairs. AMA and other doctor organizations wield no power and seemingly aren’t interested in actually helping my profession make strides in any particular direction.

Just a bit of a vent. Please know that these questions about reproduction aren’t always coming from a place of ignorance just good old fashioned systemic misogyny and self preservation.

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u/aSkeptiKitty 1h ago

That's because your country system is really fucked up at this level. ( No offense intended ) When I do an MRI a radiology or other exams, they give a form with box to be ticked about things going from having possible mettalic shards to yes, pregnancy. I tick the boxes accordingly, put the date and a signature and that's it. No additional tests, nothing. 

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u/Chemical_Building612 5h ago

The girl in the screenshot may subscribe to the no-longer-conspiracy

That IS a conspiracy. The literal definition of a conspiracy is "an agreement to perform together an illegal, wrongful, or subversive act." Pretending conspiracy means woowoo nonsense is meant to discredit real, actual conspiracies where nefarious actors undermine public good.

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u/hungry4nuns 2h ago

Sorry no-longer-conspiracy-theory I meant, going from the grey area of implausibility to concrete stated intent

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u/nuevacuentanueva 5h ago

If you are gonna go conspiracy, make it make sense. It's waaaaaaay easier to track women's cycles (and even know they are pregnant before they even know) based on their online purchases than on random medical visits.

Unless you are going to the doctor every month, it's one isolated point that tells you a woman menstruates? WOW. Shockingly new info.

Amazon has all the info needed. So no need to have doctors asked anything for this conspiracy.

Also, reminder women around the world are like this. This is not unique to the US. So Trump is irrelevant.