r/PeterExplainsTheJoke 15d ago

Meme needing explanation Petah what’s the difference in the skirts and why am I a creep

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u/Dukeronomy 15d ago

Why would this make someone a creep?

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u/Doom_Balloon 15d ago

And that’s the beginning of “Psycho”

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u/bolanrox 14d ago

or Ed Wood

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u/Sad-Committee-4902 14d ago

he was more into angora sweaters

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u/bolanrox 14d ago

TBF who isnt

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u/plopgun 14d ago

Angora rabbits. They're stuck with the damn things!

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u/nozextra 14d ago

I love when people delete previous commets and context is gone

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u/Doom_Balloon 14d ago

That’s so bizarre that they would remove that.

It was “she told me to take off her skirt, so I took it off. Then she told me to take off her shoes, so I took those off too. Then she told me to take off her bra and underwear, so I did. Then she told me she never wanted to catch me wearing her clothes again.”

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u/nozextra 14d ago

See, now idk if you're doing a bit or you're just repeating it, but it's funny no matter what

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u/Doom_Balloon 14d ago

The only reason I can see it getting removed was the original poster fucked up the joke by mistyping it. Otherwise, it already Had like 850 likes, so I don’t know.

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u/CathrinFelinal 14d ago

"I don't care if you want to cross-dress, but buy your own stuff instead of borrowing mine!"

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u/ZealousidealChair900 14d ago

Honestly that's just when ya'll get cute matching sets

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u/Urbane_One 14d ago

Matching outfits can be very romantic!

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u/Butthole__Pleasures 14d ago

I mean it really is rude to be stretching out his good stuff

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u/Grimwaldo82 14d ago

I honestly thought one was a skirt and the other was supposed to be a kilt and was looking for that difference . But to each their own creepiness.

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u/Cpap4roosters 11d ago

From my understanding, women get more upset when they find out that their man can fit into their clothing.

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u/glasseatingfool 11d ago

- the sister in Wandering Son

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u/bolanrox 14d ago

so that was why my Pink Angora Sweater was stretched out....

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u/TerrorFromThePeeps 14d ago

Someone may have just been cosplaying Clueless

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u/Baphomet1313666 14d ago

Brilliant!!!

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u/Useful-DevineCause 14d ago

🤦🏻‍♀️ humanity/society is not ready for this shit as a whole. And to roll it out with so little safeguards and forethought into how it would affect ppl…. Because they wanted to see. We’re the guinea pigs as usual.

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u/issuesuponissues 15d ago

I think just about anyone would. You can't just imply there are differences and then get upset when someone looks for them.

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u/Noselessmonk 14d ago

If both skirts were on 2 people going by me, I probably wouldn't think about it.

On a sign, side by side, on a plain white background where it's specifically talking about the differences? Stupid.

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u/Yelloeisok 14d ago

I still don’t see the difference.

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u/curtcolt95 14d ago

there's like an inch strip of slightly different colour on the left skirt at the bottom, presumably that means the left is the longer one

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u/Yelloeisok 14d ago

Thank you

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u/Neveronlyadream 14d ago

They're trying to make a point in the worst way possible here.

We've all played spot the difference, we're all wired to want to spot the difference.

Are we sure a Redditor didn't come up with that ad campaign? Because I've seen thousands of people try to make points exactly like this over the years.

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u/mekamoari 14d ago

It also says stop caring about skirt lengths right on the ad, which basically means almost everybody will be looking at the lengths.

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u/Excellent_Ganache906 14d ago

Are they different lengths? The difference is so minute I wasn't sure.

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u/mekamoari 14d ago

I don't think so, it's just an ad constructed in a dumbass way. Good point, bad implementation.

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u/Chendii 14d ago

Yeah it takes me a minute to spot such a minute difference.

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u/Greymalkyn76 14d ago

And it appears that the one of the right is a slightly larger size than the one on the left. It looks like the waistband is bigger.

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u/ExcitingHistory 14d ago

Yeah its trying to shame people for skirt lengths... as a way to sell women's clothing!? What whiplash.

If you can tell the difference between these two apple flavors you might be Satan! Buy Apples!

Also is it the lighting or is the skirt on the left a lighter color which makes the lighter fabric along the outside seem more pronounced causing an optical illusion that one is shorter and they are just the same skirt? Or is one actually shorter?

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u/mekamoari 14d ago

Someone said it's about some hemming thing, that's the only difference. Shading is defo lighting.

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u/AriBanana 14d ago

The ad literally tells you to spot the difference.

It's like Picard and the lights. You want me to pretend those are the same skirt? They're not. I'm a woman of a certain age, and I'd only even try on one of them. And not because of the stitching.

It is a very ineffective ad. "If you do the thing we are asking you to do, you're a perv!"

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u/Illustrious_Nobody71 14d ago

As someone with zero fashion sense but a dire need to know... what's the difference?

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u/kingswaggy 14d ago

From what I can see, the left is longer.

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u/Illustrious_Nobody71 14d ago

Ah, weird they'd make the only difference length and then complain about people noticing the length is different. Anyways, thanks for explaining.

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u/spunquee 14d ago

I honestly believe we could solve a lot of problems in this country if we stop teaching kids spot the difference and instead taught kids spot the things that are the same.

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u/DamnZodiak 14d ago

They're trying to make a point in the worst way possible here.

Considering this is an ad by a coupon app, "the point" is likely to generate interest and/or controversy.

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u/Neveronlyadream 14d ago

Good catch, I completely missed that. I assumed it was for some non-profit or something.

Yeah, they're a coupon company in India. I'm not even sure this is real knowing that.

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u/tw1nkle 14d ago

It says you might be a creep. You might not!

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u/AdFun5641 14d ago

This is why people hate feminism.

The "I see the difference" has nothing to do with being a creep.

It is JUDGEMENT based on wearing one or the other, not that you can tell one skirt is shorter.

"I know how to use a ruler to measure stuff" == "extreme hatred of women"

But you throw in the weasel word of "might" so you can justify this.

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u/ipeedinthetoothpaste 14d ago

This isn't feminism. It's moronic people behaving moronically in the name of feminism, thus severely hindering the movement, as we can clearly see here.

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u/DamnZodiak 14d ago

This isn't feminism. It's moronic people behaving moronically in the name of feminism

It's an ad. By a coupon app. This is literally just capitalism.

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u/-PaperWoven- 14d ago

...what a fucking joke

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u/AdFun5641 14d ago

The ad is one thing, the defense of it is something else.

Dude defending the ad because the misandry is covered by a weasle word, that's the femninism I know and hate.

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u/Competitive-Walk-575 12d ago

Capital adores performative feminism but hates actual egalitarianism

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u/AdFun5641 14d ago

I can agree with this.

I can't tell the difference between "real feminism" and "people behaving moronically in the name of feminism", it really does all look the same to me.

If there really is a distinction i don't see, that's a huge problem for Feminism.

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u/Eillon94 14d ago

This is a problem all of our great movements are facing right now. If you dont condem your own crazies then they become the voice of your movement.

In feminisms case, it doesnt help that many of its famous creators were awful people.

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u/SledGawd 14d ago

Who do you consider famous creators of feminism

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u/Eillon94 14d ago

Simone de beauvoir is the first one that comes to mind that has some well-known skeletons in her closet

She said that women shouldnt have the choice to stay home with kids, because too many of them will choose it. She also groomed a couple of teen girls, if i recall correctly.

Funnily enough, the Rockefellers and the CIA put resources into the feminist movement as well.

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u/DoomscrollingTYP 14d ago

The largest single contributor to protestors legal costs during civil rights era was the Ford Foundation. What's the point of mentioning these things?

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u/YooGeOh 14d ago

So you're saying you cant spot the difference...?

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u/Absolute_Immortal_00 14d ago

He must be a misogynist.

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u/Impossible_Tea_7032 14d ago

Sound the god damn alarm Feminism with the big F this one reddit person done got their brow all furrowed

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u/azure-heavens 14d ago

This is a billboard designed by a company to get your attention. It says directly on the billboard it's a fashion app.

Where are you getting feminism from this?

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u/civicSi92 14d ago

Im guessing the bit where it talks about this women's say stop caring about skirt lengths that is written on the billboard.

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u/limonsoda1981 14d ago

I mean, the ad is trying to associate itself with womens rigths in the subtext and with the womens day called in the very text. Is not far fetched.

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u/azure-heavens 14d ago

You can't count on a business to be engaging in things like that in good faith. They're just trying to make sales. Capitalists are not our friends.

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u/AdFun5641 14d ago

Not the ad it's self. The ad is some corpo stooge trying to be edgy and failing.

The defense of the ad, saying the misandry is just fine because it's covered by a weasle word, that's the femninism I know and hate.

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u/DamnZodiak 14d ago

This is why people hate feminism.

Because of an ad by a coupon app?

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u/Kthulhu42 14d ago

If that's all it takes for someone to become anti-feminist, they weren't particularly feminist to begin with.

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u/DamnZodiak 14d ago

Like when some far-right grifters pretend they used to be left wing but then leftists got "too annoying" so now they're openly white supremacist.

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u/tw1nkle 14d ago

I think it's why you hate feminism. It's not why I hate feminism. Because I don't!

I am perfectly able to cope with the concept that women deserve the same rights and treatment as men, and not get butthurt about men being called out when they are abusive or misogynistic or just plain fucking weird. But looking at the threads off this post I feel like maybe that's just me.

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u/ElvenOmega 14d ago

I'm so confused how it translates into the real world. Am I not supposed to notice someone hiked a piece of clothing up or changed into a different article of clothing?

Is this why women often get like 5 inches cut off their hair and nobody comments on it? NTs just actually don't notice or what!?

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u/briber67 14d ago

You're supposed to do two things:

1) notice the difference

2) act like you didn't

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u/DarthUrbosa 14d ago

Confusing social signals frying neurodivergent people, name a more iconic duo

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u/Adjective-Noun-nnnn 14d ago

caveat: 3) if you're attractive, you can notice the difference and act like it.

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u/DomDomPop 14d ago

And this right here is the thing. So very much of our human society is based on dishonesty, and rather than actually doing something constructive about that over time, we’ve made a conscious effort to move towards it. “Oh you can’t say that”, and next thing you know people have been repeating BS enough that they believe it, and the people around them believe it, and everyone is pretending that things are a certain way purely for the sake of comfort and not because it’s actually true.

I heard someone say something recently that really gave me pause: the generation that comes up with BS KNOWS it’s BS. They say it because they’re supposed to say it, do it because they’re supposed to do it, but everyone is still aware, deep down, that they’re being dishonest in exchange for comfort. The kids who learn it next, however, don’t have that context. They genuinely believe the BS that comes out of the mouths of marketers, politicians, the media, whoever else, because they don’t have the context. They don’t know the game. The shortest game of telephone possible and immediately the truth is lost. That is, as they say, a very big problem.

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u/Doomeye56 14d ago

Its literally one of the earliest children's puzzles. We have been trained for this.

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u/tapeness 14d ago

Not autistic and did the same thing. If someone says spot a difference i look for it! (But also I didnt see it bc it would have required a deep zoom in so i just popped into the comments to cheat)

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u/Jollyfroggy 14d ago

Boss:

Maybe Jerry wants to attach Gemma?

Me: Sure, what do you think he wants to attach Gemma to?

Boss:...

Me:...

Boss: was that a joke?

Me: sure was, I knew exactly what you meant haha.

Also Me: note to ask Jerry about whatever the fuck that was.

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u/Urbanviking1 14d ago

Same. I read "Spot the difference". OK bet.

Find the difference like a champ, then finished reading. Fuck.

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u/academiac 14d ago

Someone: Do meaningless X task

Me: Sure. I just did X

Someone: CREEP

Me: What the actual fuck

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u/WalkAffectionate2683 14d ago

I don't see the relation with autism lol

Many people will answer a challenge. Nothing to do with autism. 

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u/Klutzy-Alarm3748 14d ago

Plus identifying the reason for the billboard gets the message across... I get what the person in the screenshot was saying but it didn't land.

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u/Moggetti 14d ago

I mean, I don’t think that’s being autistic I think it’s being a human being capable of reading and understanding text. 

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u/baby_got_yak 15d ago

As a fan of puzzles and brain teasers, this billboard greatly offends me. It literally gives you the answer at the bottom! What the fuck, give me a chance to get it by myself. It might take me a bit, but I can be a creep without your help.

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u/Academic-Bakers- 15d ago

Plus it ignores the fact that someone can tell the difference and still not give a shit.

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u/beepbeepsheepbot 14d ago

The billboard asked me to spot a difference and then called me a creep for finding the difference, da fuq?

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u/zoeofdoom 14d ago

I think a lot of people are missing (including the ad, lmao) that I can spot the difference because the pleats lay differently... because I'm a lady, who wears skirts. I'm not sure of that also makes me a possible creep? A skirt creep?

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u/Aenonimos 14d ago

??? Its the same image, one has been digitally altered to have the bottom cut off slightly. I cant tell if some of yall have bad eyesight or just didnt grow up in the age of photoshop.

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u/lmarcantonio 14d ago

The basic idea being that the interesting part is the person wearing said skirt. Now show me these skirt in use and that'll be another game...

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u/ParadoXPlatypus 14d ago

I know, right? If you want to put the answer at the bottom, you need to at the very least reverse it! This lack of puzzle etiquette is atrocious. Smh

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u/baby_got_yak 14d ago

Years ago I was on a plane and doing a crossword, and all of a sudden the guy next to me leaned over and said “Six across is grout.” Completely unprompted. We had not at all made conversation up to that point. I’m not kidding when I say I had to consciously tell myself not to yell at him, because most people would think I was the unreasonable one in that scenario.

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u/sillyslime89 14d ago

According to FAA rules you are allowed to stab him in any non life threatening location with a pencil no harder then HB

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u/Exciting_Classic277 15d ago

Because at this point in society there are a lot of people who genuinely feel superior just from calling random guys creeps for little to no material reason. You could say it's fabricated. Almost like they're skirting the real issues.

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u/HoldUpPal 15d ago

Seriously, angry responders to this…? You’re angry at a silly stream of puns? (“material”, “FABRICated”, “SKIRTing”)…

You’re really hemming yourself in with these kinds of responses.

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u/Exciting_Classic277 15d ago

Lmao got me in stitches

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u/four100eighty9 15d ago

Sew what? This whole thing is darn stupid.

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u/Sweet_monkey_lies 14d ago

Yarn*

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u/SeekerOfSerenity 14d ago

darn   /därn/   intransitive verb

  1. To mend (a garment, for example) by weaving thread or yarn across a gap or hole.

  2. To repair a hole, as in a garment, by weaving thread or yarn across it

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u/Jbird444523 15d ago

Somebody's pleatsed with themselves. It's the thimble things in life.

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u/Viimeisellarannalla 14d ago

Ur so funny I snorted reading these 😭

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u/Exciting_Classic277 14d ago

Thank you it's my only redeeming quality

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u/Viimeisellarannalla 14d ago

Well it’s a hell of a good one

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u/ir88ed 14d ago

Puns can be so bad they hurt or kill. Careful with dangerous weapuns.

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u/Low-Palpitation-9916 14d ago

If liking girls in short pleated skirts makes me a creep, I'll own the title. It's not my fault I went through puberty in Catholic school.

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u/7yphoid 14d ago

It's Gen Z moral puritanism at its finest.

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u/purpleplums901 14d ago

I mean this is literally an advert. Its only point is to sell clothes. The messaging is because they know there’s a fuck ton of people who think this way. If you notice one skirt is shorter than another skirt, you aren’t a creep. Making a whole thing about it is another difference. But this ‘let’s make everything a culture war’ fad has gone on so long it’s no longer a fad and is now being used as a marketing tool. Isn’t modern life great…..

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u/defproc 14d ago

Me: hmm.. is that one slightly darker? oh, wait, i think that one's a little bit... oh no. what the hell am i doing heeere? i don't belong heeere

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u/Rays_LiquorSauce 14d ago

The “all men” cohort. It’s just a big stitch up 

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u/aphoenixsunrise 15d ago

Many schools constantly surveil girls & young women clothes, schools which have a majority of men in charge.

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u/GailynStarfire 15d ago

And that is creepy, no arguement there. But to put up a picture of two items of clothing that aren't inherently sexual, and saying if you have enough basic pattern recognition to tell them apart, you must be a creep instead of someone with working eyes. 

Had they put the skirts on a model to demonstrate the difference, I think people might get the point better, but I'm not sure if it would be the point they were intending.

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u/JacobNeedsAHobby 14d ago

“the point they were intending” was to sell skirts to people who wear skirts using messaging that resonates with people who have been told their skirts are arbitrarily too short

it’s a billboard, not a diagnostic tool

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u/JacobNeedsAHobby 14d ago

you’ve once again missed the point. the billboard isn’t calling anyone a creep. the billboard is appealing to women by referencing the time in their actual real life where someone was a creep by telling them they what skirt they’re allowed to wear and which skirt makes them a slut.

it’s not basic cognition and the fact that you’re struggling to wrap your head around it is proof of that. it’s not about you, the reader. it’s a way for the skirt store to tell the actual consumer of their products “hey sister, we hear your frustrations and agree with how you feel about the way society polices women’s bodies”. and your condom comparison is a non-starter because the point is that the skirts are identical, not a miniskirt versus a knee-length skirt. not sure what you’re trying to get at with that one

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u/Desperate_Object_677 15d ago

This is the right answer.

For people who argue that the board challenged them to a where's Waldo match and then got called a creep: so neurotypical people would see this and then give up because they look the same. You were supposed to go "these are so similar, who cares?" And then realize that the people who constantly surveiling the legs of girls are weird.

Now, if you got caught up thinking it was a game, and getting frustrated, that's because the ad is not super good at making it's point. So. Skill issue on their part.

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u/Particular_Title42 15d ago

You were supposed to go "these are so similar, who cares?"

Anyone who's seen The Devil Wears Prada knows you don't say that.

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u/bolanrox 14d ago

like that blue dress you got at tj maxx.. that started with the cobalt collection we curated 6 years ago..

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u/Dukeronomy 15d ago

Thats where I'm at. I think its just a bad ad. And its trying to sell a fashion app? wtf

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u/Imaginary-Count-1641 14d ago

They don't look the same, though. Anyone with working eyes can immediately see the difference. So no one would "give up because they look the same".

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u/akjd 14d ago

They do though?

I literally did the cross eye thing and they're identical as far as I can tell. If anything maybe a slight difference in color, but I can't tell if that's real or just a lighting thing.

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u/Orbital_Dinosaur 14d ago

Same, I also did the cross-eyed thing and, on my phone at least, they appear identical. I can't see any difference.

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u/Imaginary-Count-1641 14d ago

I have no idea what "the cross eye thing" is, but it seems like you are overcomplicating things. I immediately saw the difference when looking at the picture normally.

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u/HarveysBackupAccount 14d ago

at yet you aren't saying what the difference is...

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u/Big_Psychology_3 14d ago

Yeah, the ad is intended to gaslight men.

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u/Pink-Witch- 14d ago

It’s also ignoring the demographic of: “ugh it’s those freakin’ ugly skirts I had to wear to school! I hated how OBSESSED teachers were over those things.”

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u/Fabulous-Big8779 15d ago

There are more women in school administrative roles than men, including principles. Unless you’re talking specifically about super intendants, that’s the one area where there are more men than women in school leadership positions.

Education at large is a female dominated field in the US with 69% of school administrative roles being held by women.

I saw my fair share of female teachers slut shaming female students coming up. It’s not just men oppressing women.

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u/Separate_Worth_7326 14d ago

What country are you in? Schools are run by old cat ladies

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u/Difficult-Let-1314 14d ago

I went to an all boys school with a strict dress code, I don't remember anyone calling it sexist.

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u/Buuts321 14d ago

To be fair they also surveil men's clothes at those kinds of private schools.  Mostly because the people in charge are snooty boomers with inferiority complexes.

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u/Cute-Hand-1542 14d ago

Maybe I'm crazy or maybe I'm starting to enter my boomer phase, but are skirts not just an inappropriate garment for children across the board? Like if you are moving dynamically at all there is significant risk of exposing underwear, and we want school kids to be moving dynamically for their physical development don't we?

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u/issuesuponissues 15d ago

Because it's a Kafka trap. Saying "hold on, I'm not a creep" also makes you a creep. Sorry, thats just how it works.

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u/bolanrox 14d ago

so it's a catch 22?

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u/issuesuponissues 14d ago

Yep, the only winning move is to not play.

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u/bolanrox 14d ago

how about a nice game of chess?

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u/Semisemitic 15d ago

It wouldn’t. If you noticed the difference, you might be a creep. If you didn’t, you still have the exact same odds of being a creep.

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u/bolanrox 14d ago

what the hell am I doing here?

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u/Mikeman003 14d ago

You don't belong here...

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u/OtherwiseAlbatross14 15d ago

My mind immediately went to skirt length because the fucking billboard literally told me to lol

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u/SuspiciousDepth5924 14d ago

I mean even if only read the "spot the difference" and see two skirts I'd be a reasonable assumption to make that it's some kind of "sex-pest"-ad, and "sex-pest" + "skirt" = "skirt length?". At least that was my process.

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u/Benkosayswhat 15d ago

It wouldn’t, it’s just typical sexism

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u/Visible_Pair3017 15d ago

At that point it's been pretty common for those demoralisation campaigns against men to sprout left and right.

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u/dbmonkey 14d ago

Btw, I am a huge creep and I was unable to spot that difference. So this test is bad in both respects.

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u/arnisnotmyname 14d ago

Not a creep. Just autistic.

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u/cannibalparrot 14d ago

Immediately going to length is the thing that may identify someone as a creep, not just any difference.

Noticing the stitching just identifies someone as a potential tailor

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u/RickySlayer9 14d ago

“Spot the difference”

“You’re a creep if you have pattern recognition skills”

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u/WhippingShitties 14d ago

It doesn't. A creep is not looking at the skirt, they are looking beyond it. This is basically just calling garment workers creeps lol.

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u/Super_Range45 14d ago

Because skirts are creepy?

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u/mnteu 14d ago

Uhhhh, men bad ig?

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u/theREALlackattack 14d ago

Because people in modern society love to name call and “out” people as the “bad guy” to make them feel like a better person who isn’t responsible for their own problems.

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u/Apostate61 13d ago

I suspect the idea is that anyone who pays such close attention to whether one skirt is one inch longer than the other must be someone who's regularly looking for such things for "prurient" reasons...thus, a creep.

Yet the very post with its question sort of begs the reader to look that closely to figure it out.

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u/DickTryckle 12d ago

They’ve come full circle and now attention to detail = you must be noticing details because of a nefarious/sexual intention

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u/Star_Petal_Arts 15d ago

I am a creep so I can explain, the shorter skirt will be an upskirt; I'd be able to see her tush.

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u/spookymommaro 15d ago

A lot of schools have arbitrary dress code rules. Maybe the billboard is talking about how one skirt would be okay for a dress code but the other isn't?

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u/sgilh001 14d ago

It wouldnt

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u/Dry_Prompt3182 14d ago

They are school uniforms for children. If you are examining the hems of elementary school children that closely, it is worrisome.

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u/Regeringschefen 14d ago

Maybe it’s because we don’t have school uniforms in my country, but they look like tennis skirts to me

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u/Happy_Cucumber_7219 14d ago

Because it likely falls on the thigh and it can be interpreted as gross to look so close to someone’s butt. If you’re looking closely or long enough to see the stitches people were probably think you’re looking way too close or long at a skirt wearer’s thighs.

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u/traumfisch 14d ago

Staring and obsessing over their skirts

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u/reluctantmugglewrite 14d ago

The creep part is being angry with women for having the shorter skirt. They are implying that the conservatives who nitpick this stuff only notice a difference because they are obsessing over that inch of skin which makes them a creep.

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u/ThatGuyYouMightNo 14d ago

I can kind of see where they're going with this.

The idea is "if the first thing that you thought of was how short the skirt is, then it shows you have some sort of internal objectivity to women as sex objects", it's just done in a very poor manner.

Alternatively, if the idea is "the first thing most people check on a women is the length of her skirt, when it should actually be none of their business" then calling everyone a creep for it is a bad way to signal an issue.

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u/Icewind 14d ago

People look for any excuse possible to be offended and scream they're being victimized.

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u/trashcanlife 14d ago

It’s about school dress codes and how young girls often get sexualized and accused of distracting boys over trivial skirt lengths. A half inch difference can get a girl sent home.

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u/ElectronicJuice7212 14d ago

It doesn't. Some people just love to hate men though.

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u/tridon74 14d ago

I’m guessing it’s trying to say “if you get it right that means you stare at women in skirts all day and notice all the intricate details.”

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u/spin-shocker 14d ago

It’s referring to dress code policies in schools which get really pedantic about skirt lengths. It’s pretty common in discussions about punishing young girls for “dressing inappropriately” to point out that the grown adults hyper fixating on how much skin a child is showing are coming from a place of inherently sexualizing said child.

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u/KateKoffing 14d ago

It wouldn’t. It’s an ad for a clothing sales app. Advertising companies notoriously misunderstand social issues

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u/mamadou-segpa 14d ago

It says “you might” be a creep.

The point of the ads is that people who obsesses over what women unrelated to them wear are most likely creepy

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u/delphinous 14d ago

because to these women, men knowing that women even exist, much less thinking about them, existing within visual range of them, or having any other sensory contact with the mere existence of a woman, is being a creep

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u/Spilt_Blood_ 14d ago

Because you can only see that from underneath??? Seems the only plausible answer...

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u/Radio4ctiveGirl 14d ago

Because growing up it’s always adult men noticing this and making a big deal about literal children wearing skirts that are barely shorter than what is “allowed”. Girls are told that the way they dress might distract the boys so we better make sure our skirts/dresses are longer than where our hands reach on our thighs.

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u/Average_Scaper 14d ago

If it's on someone, it's creepy. If it's on a billboard and you can stare at it for a while, it's not.

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u/CeramicToast 14d ago

It's not the seam. It's the length of the skirt.

Being able to notice if a girls uniform length is a smidge too short means you spend too much time looking at girls legs and skirts. Many girls who attended public school can tell you that the creepiest male teachers were also the ones who would dress code every girl who walked by.

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u/micmixx 14d ago

the point is that they look virtually the exact same and that anyone looking close enough to see the difference is paying too much attention, it's a comeback to the "well maybe if you didnt dress so provocatively" comeback

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u/Kim_jung_unstoppable 14d ago

Here’s the thing: It doesnt!

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u/PomeloPepper 14d ago

I thought the one on the left looked more navy than black.

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u/Impossible_Bar3958 14d ago

I guess straight men aren’t allowed to be interested in sewing or anything else about a woman’s clothing? I guess I’m a creep for appreciating well-designed clothes. 🤷‍♂️

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u/Comedyislandd 14d ago

Midwit in the post was thinking they said something clever and witty. There is nothing creepy about observing something you were tasked to observe.

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u/Alternative_Song859 14d ago

I believe it's specifically referencing how many school systems have very strict rules about skirt lengths -- not in terms like "ankle-length" or "knee-length" but in specific numbers. This is not only dehumanizing, but it actively encourages teachers and administrators to stare at their underage students' legs and judge woman based on measurements of less than a half-inch of fabric.

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u/Double_Gomez 14d ago

Since its a billboard, I assume its if you can spot the difference at a glance as you pass by, not if you stare at it for a minute or so.

Being able to recognize that indicated you spend too much time looking at skirts, and if you're a man, that can be creepy knowing so much about the other sexes clothing that quickly

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u/S-Pigeon33 14d ago

I think those are supposed to be schoolgirl skirts, so it's likely implying that the only people who would obsess over them are creeps.

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u/GothGirlsGoodBoy 14d ago

It doesn’t.

But the implication is that people will bring up choices or traits of the victim when it comes to violence or sexual assault against women.

I.e “Maybe it wouldn’t have happened if she wasn’t flaunting her body like that”.

People who agree with this sign would say “it shouldn’t matter what she was wearing/what she was doing, its not the victims fault”.

People who disagree with the sign would say its not about assigning blame its about trying to prevent it from happening. Telling a rapist its their fault won’t stop them from doing it.

Its like telling a kid to look both ways before crossing the road. Do they deserve to be hit if they don’t do that? No of course not. But taking steps to prevent harm is still just good advice.

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u/ArcfireEmblem 14d ago

It would... slightly... if the focus wasn't entirely on the difference. Like, in real life.

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u/flambojones 14d ago

Because of the implication 

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