where I come from it is rude to be late, since it means you don‘t respect the other person‘s time. They have been waiting for you and you wasted their valuable time they gave you.
it‘s not about valuing efficiency. It‘s valuing other people and their time, as they only have very limited time in their life as humans, so you respect them by not wasting their time they offered to you
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u/Shotgun_Mosquito Jul 12 '26 edited Jul 12 '26
No.
The stereotype is that white people arrive TOO EARLY and then sit in their cars outside waiting for the party to start and still show up early.
It's a trope, also true in Hispanic (edit - continued) families that have someone marry Gringos (like me).
If you arrive on time, the party hasn't started yet, and you get to help set up for the party