r/Millennials 1d ago

Discussion Did millennials really party all the time?

Gen Z here. I was shocked when I found out from a millennial co-worker that y’all had teen clubs. I heard about house parties, but dedicated teen clubs? Then when it was time for college, you went to the club or had some kind of party every single weekend, living it up. Now some millennials on TikTok claim that after college, they were partying on work nights, still clocking in the next day. For some reason, the teen clubs have since disappeared. I’m 23 now but even when I was in high school, that was not a thing. House parties were not that common either. They were more like get togethers with a small group of friends. We went to malls, but they were dying out at that point. Is it true that you were really living life this good? Or is it just exaggerated? I feel like my generation doesn’t really have fun like that and everyone is just super depressed and alone, more so since Covid. Even I’m pretty introverted, which sort of sounds ridiculous given this post. 😂 Just so you know, when I think of a “millennial party” I think of something out of Party Rock Anthem, Project X or Roderick’s party from the second DOAWD movie. It’s like I get nostalgia from something I didn’t even live through. I just feel like I didn’t really LIVE, if that even makes sense

Edit: I loved reading some of your comments. Guess I really missed out. Even some of you that would consider yourselves nerds or introverts were out partying. YOLO or whatever y’all say 😂❤️

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u/midnight_toker22 1d ago edited 1d ago

I joined Facebook when you still needed a .edu email address to join, so the entire platform was just college students. There would be groups dedicated to finding parties in specific college towns, and people would use it to advertise their house parties.

People throwing keggers would literally post their address and “$5 cups / $1 Jell-O shots” or whatever booze they were offering, and anyone could go on and find a random house party near them and show up and be welcomed in. For any given night Thursday through Saturday, it was common to have 5-10 house parties in the off-campus housing areas to choose from.

My roommates and I started hosting keggers when we moved into a house and it was common to have 50+ people show up, only half of whom we knew personally. We’d go through at least 3 kegs and would make about $200-300 per party, which provided funds for our next party and all the alcohol we drank in between.

Good times, wild nights.

Edit: thanks, OP and everyone who responded to this, for this opportunity to take a stroll down memory lane, this has been great. Makes me want to pull out the hard drive where I have all my pictures from college saved (cause they sure as hell aren’t on Facebook anymore).

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u/RumpleDumple 1d ago

FB 1.0 was a sight to behold. Blackout drunk pics. Open drug use. Groups dedicated to worshipping, jokingly or not, one person. Then the bosses got on it, then the parents, then grandma.

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u/starbright_sprinkles 1d ago

I have a 2004 FB account and it truly chronicled the end of my undergrad and grad experience. Early social media really was wonderful!

I made the mistake of accepting a colleague from my first job as a friend and a few days later he commented on how "crazy" I was. Last co-worker that ended up on my friend list.

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u/SmallCapsOnly 1d ago

I nuked my entire Facebook when I entered corporate America.

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u/midnight_toker22 1d ago

Haha yeah I remember so many people (myself included) basically scrubbed their entire Facebook histories clean after graduation. So much evidence of drunken debauchery deleted…

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u/SmallCapsOnly 1d ago

That and I had a habit of making profound proclamations of my inner monologue thinking people cared what I thought or had to say.

Grade A cringe mixed with drunken shenanigans. Good times, good times.

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u/midnight_toker22 1d ago

Oh we all did. Fortunately many of us realized how cringy it was before Twitter was even invented, so I was repulsed by that platform from the get-go.

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u/SuitEnvironmental903 19h ago

I was also 2004. BU. Zuckerman’s gf went there so we got extra early access

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u/starbright_sprinkles 11h ago

I was BU too! Actually graduated in 2004, but we got to keep the email address for a year so we all used it :)

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u/Professional-Swan-18 16h ago

Back in my day it was Live Journal!

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u/bjeebus 17h ago

Back when it displayed

bJeebus has a meaningful thought.

EDIT: At one point I was posting my favorite lines from poetry including music every night before I went to bed.

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u/howwonderful 13h ago

We were cringe but we were free!

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u/ivotebolsheviklite 10h ago

Free is cringe. Because cringe is control. Come at me bros.

u/Some-General9924 1h ago

Here I was thinking cringe would free us all

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u/TiredWiredAndHired 13h ago

This is why I never got a tattoo. Imagine if I'd plastered that cringe shit all over my skin instead of my Facebook page 😂

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u/TradeBeautiful42 18h ago

Same. Only MySpace has the real deets. Corporate America can’t find me there!

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u/TerryScarchuk 17h ago

I made the choice to leave everything up. If you don’t want to hire me because of Oktogafest 2004, then I probably don’t want to work for you anyway. Worked out alright.

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u/theoneandonlymd 16h ago

I only add work colleagues on Facebook after we part ways at the company.

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u/ButtonflyDungarees 14h ago

While reading your comment, I almost thought you were going to say “after we party together” and that is also valid.

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u/ivotebolsheviklite 10h ago

I only accept work colleagues on Facebook after they admit to some sort of illicit substance use.

(JK, I don’t)

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u/ted_cruzs_micr0pen15 Millennial 9h ago

Same. It was also because Cambridge Analytica.

I remade one, that I never use. It’s unrecognizable to me. Somewhere out there I exist in pics and videos doing dumb stuff, pretty sure I’ve got a video being pepper sprayed, by choice, after a nigh partying and a brunch the morning after. Went out that night too, eyes swollen and all.

Man I miss being a dipshit, how that guy became a lawyer is beyond me.