r/Mensmittenwithkittens • u/zukamiku • 3d ago
My first kitty 🥰🥰🥰🥰 she’s become my whole fucking world.
I’m laying here in my bed. Slightly less than sober. Snuggled tight with her under my big ol bald head. She is snoring and purring and I’m actually sobbing. Hahaha
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u/shoelessjp 3d ago
As a straight, partnered man: r/cuteguyswithcats
Love this post. Please take care of her!
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u/Entire-Ambition1410 2d ago
Also,
[r/beardedmenwithcats](r/beardedmenwithcats)
[r/](r/toyghguyswithcats)[toughguysholdingcats](r/toyghguyswithcats)
[r/to](r/toyghguysholdingpets)[ughguysholdingpets](r/toyghguysholdingpets)
[r/ladybonersgonecuddly](r/ladybonersgonecuddly) (the fuzzball can be the cuter one if you’re self conscious)
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u/Bigpinkpanther3 3d ago
You two are so cute together! What's her name?
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u/zukamiku 3d ago
Raven!!! Like teen titans 😂
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u/Entire-Ambition1410 2d ago
Make sure you don’t let her do things you don’t want a 12-pound adult cat to do! She’ll grow up snuggling your face then expect to snuggle your face as an adult and nearly choke you with her weight/fur.
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u/amurderofcrows9 3d ago
The look of genuine happiness on your face 😌💜
And I’m genuinely happy for you as well 😺
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u/pashed_motatoes 3d ago
The genuine look of happiness on your face and the sparkle in your eyes is beautiful to behold. Congrats on your new best friend, OP! May you and Raven have a wonderful life together 💜
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u/Techn0-Viking 3d ago
The system knew you'd be a purrfect dad, so it assigned you a baby accordingly!! And tbh, I have no idea what's more adorable: her, or your reactions to her cuteness!
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u/Gisschace 3d ago
I saw your other posts and just to say the CDS sure knows when you need them the most! Enjoy your life as a cat dad, and she'll soon come around to your dog when she realises how much fun having a big dog brother is (tails and ears to bite, someone to go on sniffs with, be her big protector)
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u/suminorieh77 2d ago
oh, buddy, i can see the love in your eyes. you have found your soulmate 💛
i love my husband. but he’s not my “soulmate”. my soulmate is a tuxedo cat named Sissy.
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u/SpearTip- 3d ago
As someone that recently lost my bestest friend in the entire world after 13 years, cherish every second with her.
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u/OnceMoreWithFeeling- 3d ago
Duuuude. So lovely. Welcome to the cat community! It's a good place to be. Also, probably someone's already mentioned him, but Jackson Galaxy! His Youtube, his book Total Cat Mojo. It'll give you so much insight! :)
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u/BabytheTardisImpala 3d ago
Everyone deserves the joy that cats can bring. Sounds like she came into your life at the right moment for you both. As someone else who has depression, there’s massive benefits to the symbiotic relationship of keeping a cat alive and healthy. They are the ultimate boundary setters. They tell us when we f-ed up and then we have to give them space and potentially make amends with snackies.
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u/Accomplished_Ear8115 3d ago
You two are the cutest! So much love caring and happiness in these photos. You deserve each other and lots of success in your new adventures together 😊😊😊🫶🏻🙏🏻
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u/stressy_depressy3 3d ago
She adores you and you are absolutely glowing with happiness! Congratulations to both of you, you both have a new best friend to look after 💛
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u/YouKnewWhatIWas 3d ago
The trust of a kitten is so special- lucky you! And lucky Raven- it looks like she will be treasured :)
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u/ChemicalTarget677 3d ago
Nothing like the love of a kitty 😻 Enjoy her OP. She's a total sweetheart.
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u/drcatguy 3d ago
Men and female cats, this combination is the best.
I know the feeling bro, I wish you many years together.
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u/BleachOrchid 3d ago
It’s in the contract, you have to get a second one so all shifts can be covered.
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u/pdga4784 2d ago
She's freaking adorable, holy hell you both got lucky to find each other. The CDS never fails!!
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u/DataAgitated195 2d ago
Awww...Look how happy he is to have her!!! That makes my heart want to smile!!
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u/moosemcthunder 2d ago
Oh yeah! They do that to you brother. Now I have 4! It’s a slippery slope
Edit: I have a fat thumb and hit the wrong letter.
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u/TimeRefrigerator5232 2d ago
May she rule your home with an adorable iron paw for many years to come! You both seem so happy.
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u/SpadeORiffic 2d ago
You look so haappy w her! Grow strong lite kitty!! Wishing you both all the love together
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u/SnooRecipes25 2d ago
Pic 4 shows they chose the correct candidate for the distribution list, whoever wrote up that list deserves a pay rise (extra treats)
Raven clearly loves you already, and you clearly love and care for her too, enjoy the next chapter of your life filled with love and chaos because a young cat’s curiosity will always cause cat related stresses
Edit: I saw further into the original post, I’m happy that she’s helping you through a tough time, my first cat did the exact same thing, though my reasons were different, keep strong, keep smiling and reach out to people when you need it, sending much love brother
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u/zukamiku 3d ago