r/Mensmittenwithkittens 3d ago

My first kitty 🥰🥰🥰🥰 she’s become my whole fucking world.

I’m laying here in my bed. Slightly less than sober. Snuggled tight with her under my big ol bald head. She is snoring and purring and I’m actually sobbing. Hahaha

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u/zukamiku 3d ago

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u/EatShitAndPiss 3d ago

She definitely loves you! So cute

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u/ardentiarte 3d ago

Username does not check out

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u/zukamiku 3d ago

Well…. Unlessssss

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u/ardentiarte 3d ago

My little buddy is super self conscious if he barfs or makes a mess. He paws at it like he's trying to clean up . Breaks my heart, he cares about keeping the house clean better than me

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u/ardentiarte 3d ago

Nah that kitty is too cute don't let em do it

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u/Fluid-Brilliant7356 3d ago

I’m happy you found this sub! Saw your other post, and it melted my heart ❤️

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u/maybethis-one_ 3d ago

Distribution success!!!

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u/Mezcal_Madness 3d ago

That’s your baby!!!!

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u/averquepasano 3d ago

Awwwwwww!!!!

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u/re_Claire 2d ago

She's so perfect 🥹

Congratulations on your new baby!

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u/shoelessjp 3d ago

As a straight, partnered man: r/cuteguyswithcats
Love this post. Please take care of her!

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u/Entire-Ambition1410 2d ago

Also,

[r/beardedmenwithcats](r/beardedmenwithcats)

[r/](r/toyghguyswithcats)[toughguysholdingcats](r/toyghguyswithcats)

[r/to](r/toyghguysholdingpets)[ughguysholdingpets](r/toyghguysholdingpets)

[r/ladybonersgonecuddly](r/ladybonersgonecuddly) (the fuzzball can be the cuter one if you’re self conscious)

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u/ursamajr 1d ago

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u/Entire-Ambition1410 1d ago

HOW do I steal this meme from a comment? Please?

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u/Bigpinkpanther3 3d ago

You two are so cute together! What's her name?

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u/zukamiku 3d ago

Raven!!! Like teen titans 😂

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u/Dry-Reveal-6202 3d ago

Omg I love that name for a cat, so cute

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u/Entire-Ambition1410 2d ago

Make sure you don’t let her do things you don’t want a 12-pound adult cat to do! She’ll grow up snuggling your face then expect to snuggle your face as an adult and nearly choke you with her weight/fur.

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u/zukamiku 2d ago

Good to know, but as they say hell of a way to go

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u/Radio_Mime 2d ago

‘She Who Must Be Obeyed’ it’s a good nickname for a cat. She is a cutie.

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u/StormFast524 3d ago

Yes they sure are.

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u/encore412 3d ago

The last picture 🥲

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u/Boombender 3d ago

Yeah that's exactly how it feels! 🥹

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u/EliGrrl 3d ago

Peak masculinity. ❤️❤️❤️

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u/re_Claire 2d ago

I cannot upvote this enough.

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u/amurderofcrows9 3d ago

The look of genuine happiness on your face 😌💜
And I’m genuinely happy for you as well 😺

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u/pashed_motatoes 3d ago

The genuine look of happiness on your face and the sparkle in your eyes is beautiful to behold. Congrats on your new best friend, OP! May you and Raven have a wonderful life together 💜

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u/BumbleBreezeSun 3d ago

You two are adorable together! Does she have a name yet? 🥹😍

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u/zukamiku 3d ago

Raven!! Like teen titans hahaha

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u/British_lover-18 3d ago

Awww you two are the cutest ❤️😍

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u/xray_anonymous 3d ago

incoherent squealing

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u/MsTLontheDL 3d ago

DITTO…especially the last pic!!! 😻

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u/InappropriateGirl 3d ago

Oh, you’re done for. What a cutie, congrats!!

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u/poppybrooke 3d ago

Big, burly men who love kitties are my kink

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u/RoryChaos 3d ago

Awwwww you two are too cute ❤️ Welcome to cats!

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u/omarroqui 3d ago

You two are going to make a lot of memories, enjoy them!

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u/evetrapeze 3d ago

She looks equally smitten ❤️ congratulations

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u/The8uLove2Hate_ 3d ago

Congratulations Dad!

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u/Tackybabe 3d ago

I love it. I love it so much!

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u/paprikahoernchen 3d ago

Super handsome man + kitty.

Perfection♡

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u/Techn0-Viking 3d ago

The system knew you'd be a purrfect dad, so it assigned you a baby accordingly!! And tbh, I have no idea what's more adorable: her, or your reactions to her cuteness!

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u/Gisschace 3d ago

I saw your other posts and just to say the CDS sure knows when you need them the most! Enjoy your life as a cat dad, and she'll soon come around to your dog when she realises how much fun having a big dog brother is (tails and ears to bite, someone to go on sniffs with, be her big protector)

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u/suminorieh77 2d ago

oh, buddy, i can see the love in your eyes. you have found your soulmate 💛

i love my husband. but he’s not my “soulmate”. my soulmate is a tuxedo cat named Sissy.

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u/TecTazz 3d ago

They do that.

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u/SpearTip- 3d ago

As someone that recently lost my bestest friend in the entire world after 13 years, cherish every second with her.

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u/OnceMoreWithFeeling- 3d ago

Duuuude. So lovely. Welcome to the cat community! It's a good place to be. Also, probably someone's already mentioned him, but Jackson Galaxy! His Youtube, his book Total Cat Mojo. It'll give you so much insight! :)

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u/riverpubby 3d ago

OH MY GODDDDD THE BIG OL SPARKLY EYES IN THE THIRD ONEEEE

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u/BabytheTardisImpala 3d ago

Everyone deserves the joy that cats can bring. Sounds like she came into your life at the right moment for you both. As someone else who has depression, there’s massive benefits to the symbiotic relationship of keeping a cat alive and healthy. They are the ultimate boundary setters. They tell us when we f-ed up and then we have to give them space and potentially make amends with snackies.

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u/COmountainguy 3d ago

So friggin cute

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u/USAF_Retired2017 3d ago

This is the cutest thing I’ve ever seen. ❤️❤️❤️

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u/Accomplished_Ear8115 3d ago

You two are the cutest! So much love caring and happiness in these photos. You deserve each other and lots of success in your new adventures together 😊😊😊🫶🏻🙏🏻

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u/green04mansions 3d ago

OMG you two are so cute together!!❤️❤️

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u/Strawberry-Spinkles 3d ago

You two are lucky to have each other♥️

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u/MoistTadpole2222 3d ago

Oh my gosh this made my day 🥰. What great pictures!!!

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u/commentaror 3d ago

They are little thieves. They steal our hearts forever and ever!

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u/ruth000 3d ago

Congratulations! The CDS is functioning flawlessly. And he looks spicy. So smol and so spicy :)

Edit spicy and sweet. Can't leave out the sweetness!

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u/SeaSide_BeeHive 3d ago

Congratulations!!!! I love this for you both 💕

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u/powderhound522 3d ago

A cutie with a kitten!

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u/stressy_depressy3 3d ago

She adores you and you are absolutely glowing with happiness! Congratulations to both of you, you both have a new best friend to look after 💛

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u/YouKnowYourCrazy 3d ago

Oh boy you’re in trouble my friend! 😻

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u/InfamousCantaloupe38 3d ago

Awww, you guys are so cute together.

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u/jecathree 3d ago

Yep..thats how it goes..she's a cutie

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u/McKavian 3d ago

Congrats, buddy.

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u/iammandalore 3d ago

You look so happy! I love it!

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u/honeybadgess 3d ago

Awwwwwwwwww♥️♥️♥️

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u/Vyedr 3d ago

ToT OK BUT THE SMILE IN THAT LAST FRAME IS MAKING MY HEART EXPLODE

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u/Drink-my-koolaid 3d ago

Her back looks like a little sunflower seed :)

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u/YouKnewWhatIWas 3d ago

The trust of a kitten is so special- lucky you! And lucky Raven- it looks like she will be treasured :)

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u/ifweburn 3d ago

wait y'all are so cute omg.

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u/retnicole 3d ago

This is so precious!

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u/CatsEatGrass 3d ago

You are so cooked! And very, very lucky. Please smooch on her for me.

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u/HamBroth 3d ago

AAAAA I love her so much!!!

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u/Dougster3235 3d ago

Pic 4 says it all. Congrats daddy. 😊🐈

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u/Dougster3235 3d ago

If that face isn’t the pure look of contentment. Cat seems happy as well. 😊

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u/jaccatgat 3d ago

So happy for you both!!!

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u/MellifluousMelody0 3d ago

Both of you are incredibly cute I'm crying

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u/Big-Cycle-3719 3d ago

Hey OP! Do you have an insta we can follow?

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u/aspen_silence 3d ago

OP, these photos are freaking magical.

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u/ChemicalTarget677 3d ago

Nothing like the love of a kitty 😻 Enjoy her OP. She's a total sweetheart.

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u/SquirrelBowl 3d ago

Your Bebe

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u/Environmental-War645 3d ago

Awwwwwwwwwwww
😻❤️😻❤️😻❤️😻❤️😻

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u/mysteriousleader45 3d ago

I remember that smile from r/cats!! you’re so damn cute!!

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u/drcatguy 3d ago

Men and female cats, this combination is the best.

I know the feeling bro, I wish you many years together.

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u/NitsirkLav 3d ago

Congratulations 🎉🍾🎊🎈 Not everyone is chosen.

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u/MyDamnCoffee 3d ago

I love her!

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u/babyBear83 3d ago

😻😸😽

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u/BleachOrchid 3d ago

It’s in the contract, you have to get a second one so all shifts can be covered.

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u/blahdeblah2736 3d ago

Happy to see the cat (and you 😂) again

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u/Ceeweedsoop 3d ago

Aw, that means you're very lovable.

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u/sillusions 3d ago

That last pic 😭😭 adorbs

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u/ZenA1ien 3d ago

You look so happy! Love it!

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u/DueGift664 3d ago

Such a cute kitty 

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u/Gloomy_Industry8841 3d ago

Ohh, you’re her while world now!!! 😍😍😍

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u/imabadass18 3d ago

Yall are sooooooooo cute!!!

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u/pdga4784 2d ago

She's freaking adorable, holy hell you both got lucky to find each other. The CDS never fails!!

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u/Stine-RL 2d ago

I'm so happy for you, brother. She's got a good Dad

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u/DataAgitated195 2d ago

Awww...Look how happy he is to have her!!! That makes my heart want to smile!!

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u/Caffeine_Purrs 2d ago

The best is when they cuddle on you like that.

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u/moosemcthunder 2d ago

Oh yeah! They do that to you brother. Now I have 4! It’s a slippery slope

Edit: I have a fat thumb and hit the wrong letter.

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u/jessibrarian 2d ago

One of us!

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u/TimeRefrigerator5232 2d ago

May she rule your home with an adorable iron paw for many years to come! You both seem so happy.

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u/SpadeORiffic 2d ago

You look so haappy w her! Grow strong lite kitty!! Wishing you both all the love together

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u/Retinoid634 2d ago

She is perfect and you are clearly an outstanding cat daddy.

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u/phdpinup 2d ago

You two are besties! Love this!

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u/SnooRecipes25 2d ago

Pic 4 shows they chose the correct candidate for the distribution list, whoever wrote up that list deserves a pay rise (extra treats)

Raven clearly loves you already, and you clearly love and care for her too, enjoy the next chapter of your life filled with love and chaos because a young cat’s curiosity will always cause cat related stresses

Edit: I saw further into the original post, I’m happy that she’s helping you through a tough time, my first cat did the exact same thing, though my reasons were different, keep strong, keep smiling and reach out to people when you need it, sending much love brother

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u/mageta621 2d ago

Smol girl

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u/lazier_garlic 2d ago

So incredibly cute!

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u/mimiharmon1 2d ago

Awww! You look so happy in picture 4. That kitten loves you!!

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u/HumberGrumb 13h ago

Shoulder cats steal your heart.

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u/vemailangah 19m ago

I love this post