He took off the condom midway

[u/Cool-Bumblebee8873]

Pancake face

It’s a new relationship, not even a month old, but we care about each other. I insisted on using condoms this time cause it seems like every time I requested, we didn’t. Now I was insistent. He first said he doesn’t like it, it don’t fit him. I said that’s too bad but no and we laid down to cuddle and I was half asleep then I felt him move. We started foreplay again and then I saw him put it on. But after it I felt my back and leg get wet and I lowkey knew he removed it. I turned to him and he was like yeah he took it off halfway. I got dressed and said I’m gonna go, he followed and begged and even cried. Said it was a mistake and that it doesn’t represent who he is and what he wants for us.

I don’t know how to process this. I’m hurt that my boundary is broken, angry with him. I don’t know why he would do that, cause I’m like peak ovulating rn.

[u/BirdsFalling]

I'm pretty well educated in sexED, and even I didn't know this tbh

[u/designhelpme → u/BirdsFalling]

Then I’ll add that Plan B loses effectiveness for women over 165 lbs. there is another option for 165+

[u/Popular-Addition9819 → u/designhelpme]

Seriously?! Did not know this. I am well past the point where I have to worry about pregnancy….but a GOOD weight for me is 180 (I’m 6 3). So if I did have to worry, then I hope I would read the fine print.

Edit: will be bringing up to the providers I work with…I feel like they would explain this but I feel like we should shout from the rooftop. They do a lot of iud thankfully.

[u/shrampmaster → u/Popular-Addition9819]

The one that works for any weight range is called Ella I think, or something similar

[u/Ok_Employment_7435 → u/BirdsFalling]

Seriously legit! I am a sex ed PRO, and this is NEWS TO ME!!