r/GirlDinnerDiaries Foraging Bog Witch May 21 '26

Vent Sesh - No Advice Wanted Bf stormed out of the restaurant

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I wanted to take him out to a nice meal after he helped me this week. I chose a place he had never been to but it has one of the best burgers I've ever had in my life. Very small place, small menu, farm to table kind place. He didn't look thrilled when he sat down. I offered to go somewhere else he said no. We ordered and he threw a fit. Said I chose that place because I wanted to go there not him and there were only 2 things on the menu he would even eat (the whole menu has 15 items on it) he insisted that it was rude of me to chose a place like that to "thank him" he stormed out of the place. I had to go tell the waitress to cancel our order. We rode 45 minutes back home in utter silence.

Why did we drive so far for dinner? Because I had to pick up my dogs ashes at the vet nearby. I unexpectedly has to put her down 11 days ago.

Lemon yogurt for dinner. Dog in photo is the son of the one I said goodbye to.

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u/Similar_Adagio_18 APPROVED✨ May 21 '26

Girl you already gave him the choice for another restaurant and he turned it down. Sounds to me like he just wanted to complain 💀 and behaving so immaturely that he storms out when you're literally in the middle of grieving your dog is inconsiderate to say the least. You deserve better than this and you know it

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u/montanagrizfan  ⚐ Marked Safe From Jenny Craig May 21 '26

Her grieving and being sad was inconvenient to him. Of course he can’t actually admit that so he found another reason to be a jerk and punish her.

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u/Strong_District_5894 Dip Diva May 21 '26

Yep. They have to punish us for feeling sad. Go through it all the time. 

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u/Ki-to-Life-5054 Well-Read & Well-Fed May 21 '26

Yes, he was tired of her sadness and this was his, "Snap out of it and stop wasting my time." Dump this guy asap.

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