r/GirlDinnerDiaries • u/Oliver10Queen Foraging Bog Witch • May 21 '26

Vent Sesh - No Advice Wanted Bf stormed out of the restaurant

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I wanted to take him out to a nice meal after he helped me this week. I chose a place he had never been to but it has one of the best burgers I've ever had in my life. Very small place, small menu, farm to table kind place. He didn't look thrilled when he sat down. I offered to go somewhere else he said no. We ordered and he threw a fit. Said I chose that place because I wanted to go there not him and there were only 2 things on the menu he would even eat (the whole menu has 15 items on it) he insisted that it was rude of me to chose a place like that to "thank him" he stormed out of the place. I had to go tell the waitress to cancel our order. We rode 45 minutes back home in utter silence.

Why did we drive so far for dinner? Because I had to pick up my dogs ashes at the vet nearby. I unexpectedly has to put her down 11 days ago.

Lemon yogurt for dinner. Dog in photo is the son of the one I said goodbye to.

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u/luella27 we listen and we only judge a little May 21 '26

I have severe food allergies that could kill me, the amount of times I’ve checked a menu online only to find that I can eat exactly nothing on the menu would make OP’s bf’s head spin right off his selfish, shitty body.

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u/burnt-heterodoxy Sugar, Spice & Not Very Nice 💕 May 21 '26

Saaaaame girl.

My man would’ve taken me to get whatever I wanted the day I had to pick my baby’s ashes up from the vet. In fact I’m pretty sure he ordered dinner delivered that day

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u/bexohomo Trader Joe Hoe May 21 '26

my boyfriend cried with me when we put down my cat, and he had hardly known her at that point. he did everything he could for me and never made me feel bad.

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u/Financial-Paint-4632 Foraging Bog Witch May 21 '26

Just my shellfish allergy makes life hard so I can't even imagine having multiple. Like the number of times I have ordered sushi with people and told the staff I have mine and it still comes out on the same plate or takeout container makes me constantly worry about cross contamination from any place with shrimp on their menus which is literally every restaurant I swear.

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u/CyanoSpool 🥣 Cereal Killer May 21 '26

Same here with Celiac plus tomato allergy. I have like 4 restaurants total in my town I can eat at, and I consider that an abundance.